There is no true love outside of marriage! This is the unanimous understanding of everyone.
Because logically speaking, if a person is not loyal to marriage and does not care about his partner, it is difficult to believe that they will have any sincerity about other people of the opposite sex.
It can only be said that such a thing as an extramarital affair is only a temporary attraction, and even if it is love, it cannot last long.
So after separation, will a man's love for his lover rekindle and make a comeback? On this issue, those who have come here have the most say.
01. Mr. Chang
Until now, in the depths of my heart, the most important thing to put down is the first love. Because I have always hidden her deep in my heart, I will never miss her again since I separated.
Later, about ten years after I got married, by chance, we met again and burst into flames of love again.
So they were together again for a while, but in the end they missed each other, and at this stage, each has a marriage, family and children, in order to take into account the overall situation, not to bring too much harm to everyone around them, not to cause irreversible blows to each other's future and life, and have to be helpless to separate again.
It's been another ten years since we separated, but I can't forget her at all, and I still regard her as the most loved woman in my life.
It's just a pity that God always teases us, and there is a chance to meet us, but there is no reason to stay together!
02. Mr. Lu
I am 42 years old and married for 17 years. I had cheated three years ago and had a lover.
It ended two years ago, and now I'm living in the middle of my marriage and becoming a model husband in the eyes of others.
My wife may or may not know. In short, our relationship is not much different from other middle-aged couples, love has disappeared, marriage is plain and infinitely repetitive.
Although there is no big quarrel between husband and wife, there is no warm essence to speak of.
So, will such a quality of marriage make me miss my former lover? Sorry, my answer is no. She couldn't get my true feelings from me, and she had long since forgotten about it.
At first, I betrayed my wife because I really loved her, but unfortunately, I saw through her true intentions not long after we were together, and I chose me for money and materials.
After seeing through it, I didn't care so much, and I could keep going when I had a sense of freshness, and later found that she was stepping on several boats outside, and I was even more disappointed, and I broke off with her directly, and I didn't bother to touch the extramarital affair again.
03. Mr. Feng
I, as a person, am naturally sentimental.
But don't others say this: "The amorous will be affectionate." ”
It's also true to think that I've never been able to focus all my love on one woman, and that's my biggest problem.
Counting, since I got married, I've talked about no less than seven or eight girlfriends outside of marriage in ten years.
But I have no idea of divorcing them, and each relationship can hardly last too long, because I have re-encountered other, new partners, making me empathize and fail my ex.
Although there is no responsibility, I can assure you that when I first chose each other as lovers, I really loved each of them, and this feeling was very real.
So, until now, I feel extremely sorry for them all! Sometimes I come back together with some of them with this feeling, but it is still the same old problem: there is no way to be at ease, it is not long!
epilogue:
Will a man miss his extramarital lover after ending and separating from the other party?
It depends on what kind of basic attitude this man has towards feelings, and whether this woman is important to him to a certain extent and height.
If it is a man who habitually hunts for glamorous types outside of marriage, I am afraid that they will not take the lover seriously at all, because they will never be loyal to a relationship or a woman.
Even if you go back and forth to compound and separate, it is only to satisfy the desires of the heart.
This kind of love is extremely selfish love with double quotation marks. If you have paid the truth, but find that the other party is not worthy of their own treatment, men may even deny extramarital affairs directly.
Either become a prodigal son of the love field, never move feelings, only talk about each need, or say goodbye to extramarital affairs, preferring to keep their own bland marriage.
If the meaning of lovers outside marriage is extraordinary to men, it is the white moonlight that they cannot get in their minds and never forget, then it may be that men's unwillingness, helplessness and miss will always continue and become an eternal regret in their hearts!
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