The N Room incident intensified in South Korea, and many Korean celebrities such as Park Chan-yeol and Bian Bo-hyun of exo, Lee Joon-ho of 2pm stood up for the victims and demanded a thorough investigation.
On March 28, 27-year-old actress Guo Xiaoting (who starred in "Step by Step" and "Once Upon a Time There Was a Spirit Sword Mountain") stood up bravely and exposed her past of being sexually harassed by animal teachers when she was a child.
She is the first female artist in China to speak out for this matter, and after seeing her experience, she is distressed! But at the same time applaud her bravery!
Guo Xiaoting said in a long article she wrote: Seeing the N room incident, she remembered a past event in her student days, when a mild-mannered Chinese teacher appointed Guo Xiaoting as a class representative, and at first she felt very happy, but soon found that her person was different:
This beast teacher not only harassed her with daily language provocations, but also used her hands and feet against many female classmates during class, and other female students did not dare to resist.
Guo Xiaoting's strong resistance made this teacher dare not make another mistake for her, and withdrew her class representative.
However, when Guo Xiaoting tried to seek help from the school authorities to expose the evil deeds of this beast teacher and hoped that the school would severely punish him, she was told that there was no surveillance, no evidence, and she was persuaded to calm down.
Even, the animal teacher continued to do whatever he wanted, and insulted Guo Xiaoting with words like "bitch" in class, and threatened "you are dead"!
"Of course I was so scared, he was shaking and his face was vicious, and I was even worried that he would reach out and hit me because he was out of control." Guo Xiaoting will never forget that scene.
However, in response to a sentence: people have their own harvest, this beast teacher fell down the stairs, and his spine or cervical vertebrae were fractured.
Although the story comes to this point, it seems that there is evil retribution, but in fact, it is extremely frightening.
Because this beast teacher, only fractured, but did not get the punishment of the law, after healing, will he continue to be a teacher? Are you still doing evil to hurt those young girls?
Guo Xiaoting said at the end of the article: "Such a happy ending of anti-phagocytosis does not appear in the life of every perpetrator, and what we can do is to use absolute hostility as a weapon and never tolerate it." ”
At the same time, she also said to each girl painfully: "Learn to protect yourself, ask for help at the right time, establish self-principles, dare to express your position, don't be ashamed of your words, shame is never a victim." ”
Guo Xiaoting still can't forgive the school authorities that connived at and shielded the beast teacher.
She said these two sentences very well: "For the weak, that existence is a superimposed fear", "Turning a blind eye is a compliment to abuse".
The story told by Guo Xiaoting today reminds me of the most terrifying scene in "The Melting Pot":
And the most powerful sentence in the whole movie of "The Melting Pot" should never be forgotten:
"We're fighting all the way, not to change the world, but to keep the world from changing us."
Guo Xiaoting's voice was praised by Yao Chen and Ke Lan, Who forwarded and left a message: "Praise for the brave", Ke Lan left a message: "Protect yourself, protect all the weak and small, is born to do your best to have the ability." ”
Many netizens have left messages to applaud Guo Xiaoting's bravery:
Some netizens also shared their past experience of witnessing workplace harassment in the message:
Guo Xiaoting, a native of Shanghai, was born in Changning District in 1993 and graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy.
In 1999, 6-year-old Guo Xiaoting debuted as a child actress.
Guo Xiaoting made her debut as a child star
In 2009, he came to prominence by starring in the costume fantasy drama "The Legend of paladin Sword 3". In 2011, he gained attention with the court drama "Step by Step". In 2015, he starred in the urban family light comedy "Tiger Mom and Cat Dad". In 2016, he starred in the costume fantasy drama "Immortal Sword Cloud Fan". In 2019, he starred in "Once Upon a Time There Was a Spirit Sword Mountain".
The first on the left is Guo Xiaoting
Guo Xiaoting is friends with Hu Ge, Yuan Hong, Liu Shishi, and Tang Yan, and because of her good popularity, she also served as a bridesmaid for Liu Shishi and Tang Yan's wedding.
It is worth mentioning that because the animal teacher mentioned in Guo Xiaoting's text is a middle school Language teacher.
Therefore, today some netizens pulled out that her high school was a girls' middle school in Shanghai, or a key school, and it is not known whether the animal teacher mentioned in her article is this school?
If it is, it may be possible to further pull out with the power of netizens, or it may be possible to restart the investigation.
In the N Room incident, Guo Xiaoting became the first Chinese female artist to stand up and use her personal experience to speak out for women and vulnerable groups, which is not surprising.
In many public incidents, Guo Xiaoting has stood up and spoken out.
In 2017, the red, yellow and blue kindergarten incident, Guo Xiaoting posted: "No social incident occurred in isolation, if we can't even protect our children..."
In November 2019, after Gao Yixiang's sudden death in a program on Zhejiang Satellite TV, Guo Xiaoting also published two articles in a row to speak out for Gao Yixiang.
"Our questions and questions are not answered, but they are not a reason to become numb."
Now that I think about it, Guo Xiaoting's bravery and sense of justice protected her when she was a child, so that she did not become the second Lin Yihan, so that she did not become a victim who suffered silently under the clutches of the devil, and also became the driving force for her to stand up for millions of victims and vulnerable groups today.
There are not a few guo xiaoting who have also suffered.
Happy twist actor, starring in "Charlotte Troubles" and "Shy Iron Fist", brought laughter to the national audience Ma Li, in March 2017, in a supermarket in Shenzhen suffered sexual harassment, but the supermarket did not monitor, the police took him no way, can only let this obscene man escape.
Ma Li posted a photo of the lewd man in a post on the same day, revealing that "when I was a child, I saw an exhibitionist, and I was afraid to say it at the time, but there was a psychological shadow afterwards." Now that Mary is older, she doesn't want to remain silent, but such an ending makes her angry and powerless.
Yes, it is anger and powerlessness.
Guo Xiaoting and Ma Li, what happened to them when they were young, let them grow up, do not want to be silent, but women face unpredictable sexual harassment in their lives, whether it happens in the workplace, school, or strangers on the street, many victims feel that "anger and powerlessness" are.
Wu Xin, the host of "Fast Book", after a long period of harassment, finally revealed in 2016 that she had been harassed by unknown men for a long time and had no choice but to shut down.
Zhou Xiuna, when she entered the industry, also encountered sexual harassment in the workplace, was taken to see the director by a friend, the director openly put forward the unspoken rules: "Your friend told me that you want to enter the industry, I also think you are very suitable, you 'accompany' me, I will give a role for you to play." She had to leave quickly, almost betrayed by her so-called friends.
Liu Yifei, 18 years old filming "Condor Heroes", one of the scenes was attacked by the mass actors, her mother was on the set at the time, but there are still such incidents. Liu Yifei said: "I was surprised, but as an actor, it is impossible to stop filming and then find the 'murderer' one by one, which is not more funny." In the end, the black hand was not found, and the producer Zhang Jizhong was also helpless: "We can only condemn the black hand here for being shameless and bad, and it is impossible to ask the police to check who did it one by one, or it will also make a fussy joke like the 'steamed bun' case." ”
The example of female celebrities is also a microcosm of what thousands of women have encountered.
Guo Xiaoting and Ma Li's voice calls for not only women and vulnerable groups to protect themselves, to speak out bravely, and never to tolerate, there are more issues worth discussing.
Japanese supermodel Mizuhara Yoshiko, after the N room incident was exposed, revealed that she encountered sexual harassment during filming, "When shooting a certain advertisement, you need to cover your bare upper body with your arms, and more than 20 high-level personnel suddenly came in the studio, and after I expressed my hope to clear the scene, these men finally watched the whole shooting on the grounds of confirming the shooting." ”
Hiroko Goto, a professor at the Faculty of Law at Chiba University in Japan, once explained: "In Japan, people think that violence against women is not a serious social problem, people often say 'forget it' and act as if nothing happened, and the victims are always told that it is their own fault."
Therefore, Guo Xiaoting, Ma Li, and even more women speak out, which is particularly important.
"A drop of water doesn't change anything, but when it comes together, it can form a tsunami."
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