Since I was a child, I have admired my uncle because he has always been able to lead by example and be full of positive energy.
He is kind, upright, and the breadwinner of the family.
Lately, however, I've been a little worried. My daughter has been crying in front of me lately, looking listless, because she has been wanting a living allowance of 8,000 per month.
However, instead of being grateful to Dade for this, she became more and more presumptuous, and I began to feel that she seemed to be more and more greedy for enjoyment, and had no motivation to study Xi.
So, I made up my mind to stop giving her a living allowance. Of course she was angry, but I told her that the real world does not depend on the handouts of others, and that she should learn to support her future life with her own hands.
What I didn't expect, however, was that the decision to stop living allowance would cause even more trouble for our family.
What surprised me even more was that her father-in-law actually retired and took her grandparents on a trip.
I was a little stunned, how could it be so sudden? I thought about it, and finally I had to discuss it with my uncle.
Then he began to analyze my daughter's personality and behavior with me, and even knew her better than I did.
"She is always pampered, she has been pampered in your family since she was a child, and you are considerate of her in every way.
Still, I think you're doing the right thing, and she needs a wake-up call. Uncle sighed deeply.
I decided to talk to my daughter and let her understand the predicament she was facing. I found her, sat down and talked to her seriously about my concerns.
"Mom, how can you do this to me? Dad didn't do this to me when he was alive. Now even you—" She began to weep bitterly.
I endured the heartache and told her, "There are some things that others can give you, but life will not always be tolerant of you."
She scoffed, saying I didn't understand her. Instead of any improvement, our conversation has only added to the contradictions.
Over the next few days, the atmosphere at home became more and more tense. My daughter seems to be engaged in a "cold war" with me, no longer talking to me and no longer participating in family activities.
I don't know if my education is the right way, and I don't know how to solve the problem with her.
The conflict in my family seemed to be getting worse and worse, and I began to doubt my decision. But I know it's all worth it as long as she can learn from it.
This dispute caused a violent conflict within the family. I tried to explain my intentions, but they didn't think I was supportive enough for my daughter, and the dispute made me anxious.
The conflict in my family left me frustrated, and I even began to wonder if I had made the right decision.
My daughter's attitude towards me gradually changed from being angry at first to being indifferent. My father-in-law and grandparents were also very cold, which made me feel stressed.
How to resolve this dispute has become a thorny one. The situation is getting more and more tense, and I feel like I may need some time and space to deal with these issues calmly.