When your cognition beyond the other person, he will instinctively defend, and resist. Because everyone is proving himself right, his dignity can't be violated, and you can't easily wake someone up. Everyone has his own homework to do, don't disturb a person's cause and effect. To allow others to be others, to allow yourself to be yourself, not to impose and consume each other.
當你的認知超出了對方，他就會本能的的防衛，而且抵抗。因為每個人都在證明自己是對的，自己的尊嚴不可被侵犯，并且你也不可能輕易地喚醒一個人。每個人都有自己的功課去做，不要随便打擾一個人的因果。要允許别人做别人，允許自己做自己，而不是互相強加和消耗。
