Men with a bad temper tend to be like this, look at what kind of temper your husband is
"I can't help but quarrel with him again, he's the kind of man who is grumpy and unstoppable!" Xiao Ling said to me complaining.
When I heard this, I felt a sigh of emotion in my heart, and was about to comfort her, but I heard her continue: "But he is also very considerate sometimes, but this temper is too bad. ”
"Really?" I was a little curious, "what is your husband like?"
Xiaoling said with a wry smile: "He is actually a very responsible person and is also very concerned about his family. But once something doesn't go well, it's like a dynamite keg, and a little thing can detonate his temper. ”
I nodded and looked at her understandingly, "Then is it usually difficult for him to communicate?"
Xiao Ling nodded, "Yes, once he gets angry, he will ignore the feelings of others and only care about his own emotions." Sometimes I don't even know how to communicate with him. ”
I took a deep breath and thought, "Maybe he didn't mean to, maybe it was because he had a hard time controlling his emotions himself." ”
Xiao Ling smiled bitterly and nodded, "Maybe, I also know he didn't mean it." However, every time I was accommodating him and tolerating his temper, I was really tired. ”
I gently patted her on the shoulder, "I understand your feelings, but maybe you can try to find a professional together to help you with this." ”
Xiao Ling nodded silently, "Well, maybe I should have a good talk with him and tell him how I feel." ”
I smiled and encouraged her, "Yes, communication is the first step to solving a problem. I believe that you will be able to overcome this difficulty and rediscover your understanding and understanding with each other. ”
There was a pause in our conversation, and then I looked at Xiaoling, and there was a hint of determination in her eyes, as if she had made up her mind. Perhaps, in the face of short-tempered men, the most important thing is not to blame and complain, but to understand and tolerate each other.