Lord Fan said: Be surrounded by love
Before you know it, the pace of spring is getting closer and closer day by day, and as everything recovers, everyone's heart is full of expectation.
And for me, the biggest expectation of this spring, every day is looking forward to the arrival of the baby rabbit, the estimated time is April, which also reminds me of Lin Huiyin's poem: "You are love, warmth, hope, you are the April day in the world!" ”
Lately, bleating especially likes to listen to my belly, saying "I love everyone in the family, love mom and dad, and baby". The funniest thing was that she also asked me, "Mom, do you have an elevator in your belly?" I pretended to be a baby before, and now I am a baby", in short, I have begun to imagine myself as a sister.
In fact, for many mothers and families, "whether to add another baby" is a question that requires repeated consideration and trade-off, and it is also a matter that requires courage to achieve - after all, the arrival of a new life means a greater responsibility.
So why do I have the courage to choose to welcome a new life again in this rapidly changing era? I think the reason for this, in the final analysis, is inseparable from career, family and love. As an older brother said to me during the New Year, "It must be because you are very happy."
Have a career you love
It is my strength to welcome a new life
In my opinion, a career is the material foundation that builds a family, and I am fortunate to have a career that I love and have been doing for 10 years.
Before becoming a mother, the most I thought about my career was "fighting". Because my job is to travel all over the world, to experience those beautiful scenery and things, and to share the quality and good things I really like with everyone who loves life.
This job looks glamorous, but in fact, it is all physical strength behind it. Every day is a "fast and changing" intertwine, it may be one second you have just changed a manuscript, the next second you have to prepare for a flight to another city, and you have to deal with various unexpected situations at any time.
And it takes almost all the time and effort to devote it. I remember one summer when I traveled almost halfway through Europe, after experiencing the Breitling flight in France, I rushed to Scotland to visit local brands, and then to Monaco to see the Chaumet Pearl Show. At that time, in order to take care of domestic affairs, it was common to sleep only two or three hours a day.
Usually all I think about is work, and I rarely have time for myself, and even before being pushed into the delivery room when I bleated, I was still setting the title of the manuscript.
But I think it's worth all the hard work in life. Watching Business Fan gradually grow from a "newbie" and gather the support of millions of like-minded Fan friends, persistence has meaning. And I myself have grown from a writer to an experiencer, a sharer, to the leader of the company, and recently published my own new book, which has not lived up to these 10 years.
Every career is spelled out, and this career also allows me to have enough confidence when making choices. Because I believe that I am doing my best to build a better future for bleating and for my upcoming baby.
The support of the lover and daughter
It is a solid backing for me to embrace a new life
After becoming a mother, I have a better understanding of "love".
This year is my sixth year of marriage to Boy A, and I'm about to turn 3, so I'm lucky to have them by my side along the way, and with them by my side, I always get a lot of peace of mind.
There are many wonderful fates in our family, bleating and dad have the same birthday, the baby is not only a rabbit like dad, but the due date is also close to my birthday. And whenever a friend asks me "why did I choose to have a second child", my answer is "because bleating is so good".
From the little baby lying in my arms 3 years ago to the big baby today, bleating has always been a sensible child. She is my "vitality bomb" and my "resurrection armor", when I come home from work, I see her running up to me and say "Mom, I love you", and when I return from a business trip, I watch her help me "carry the suitcase", no matter how tired I am, it disappears without a trace in her smile.
Recently, bleating is about to prepare to be a big sister. I usually read some picture books related to Erbao to her, bleating and yearning for the future life, imagining myself changing the baby's diaper, leading TA downstairs, feeding TA to eat... Looking at her happy appearance, I also have a lot more expectations in my heart, hoping to give them a wonderful childhood.
Pregnancy is not a one-man thing, and with Boy A as my backing, I feel very relieved. He is a very careful person, every day he has to help me measure blood sugar several times, not only every time the prenatal examination does not fall, but also remind me how to control weight, blood sugar, usually exercise is he accompany me for a walk.
Sometimes I also feel a little anxious, always thinking about how I have to spend time balancing family and career with two children, and how I can make them both feel equally loved. And Boy A will think far into the future and use a lot of educational ideas and concepts to dispel my anxiety.
With the support and companionship of Boy A and Bleating, all the uncertainty of the arrival of a new life seems to have disappeared.
"Life in Two Cities"
Balance career and family
If before I became a mom, my life was like putting the gas pedal on the bottom and going full speed ahead, now I choose to lightly apply the brakes and slow down at certain moments.
"Balance" is the question I think about the most now, and I hope that I can continue to "fight" hard at work, and I can also slow down and spend time with my family. So, I chose to live a kind of "twin city life".
For most of the week, I live in the city. My home in Zhongguancun, Beijing, is just across the road from the company and only 5 minutes walk to work, allowing me to devote more time to important work.
On weekends and holidays, my life belongs to my new home in the suburbs. It seemed to me like a haven for me after a long journey, containing all the imagination of the "slow life". Or sit in the mini botanical garden on a sunny afternoon while reading a book and breathing in the fresh air; Or gently lean on the sofa and watch bleating run and jump wantonly...
In the city "accelerating" and "slowing" in the suburbs, my life is spent in the "two-city switch", and what connects these two lives is a road, a journey, and of course, a good car that gives me peace of mind.
For us as a "quasi-family of four", whether it is running a career or traveling with the whole family, the car is already a rigid need, and the sense of security, comfort and quality are what I value the most. I just recently experienced the new generation RX of Lexus, and I feel that it is very suitable for the needs of quality families.
In my heart, Lexus has always been a luxury brand with ingenuity and warmth.
Fan visited the Kyushu factory in Lexus in Japan, and remembers that in the painting workshop, the workers carefully hand-painted the gaps that could not be covered by robots, and under different lights, they inspected the body little by little, with zero tolerance for defects. These ingenious details left a deep impression on me.
Sitting on the new generation RX, I felt more peace of mind and comfort, and I had a deeper understanding of Lexus' "luxury with temperature".
Warn of danger, driving and riding with peace of mind
For families with children, the safety of travel must come first, and the safety of the new generation RX is very trustworthy. It really thinks about every design and every function from the perspective of the driver and passengers, because it is "people-oriented", so it is more warm.
The most intuitive feeling after the Boy A experience, which usually drives, is that the car drives better.
On the one hand, because Lexus introduced high-performance hybrid models in China for the first time, the driving experience was comprehensively improved; On the other hand, the layout of the cockpit, Boy A feels that as soon as he sits in the driver's seat, there is a feeling of "everything under control", all the common functions are within reach, no need to lean over to reach it, and the 14-inch center control screen and the setting of physical buttons also make the operation particularly handy.
I also didn't expect to drive a horseback riding feeling, stepping on the brakes or accelerator is like clamping the horse's belly, the hands control various functions are like holding the reins, and the upper body almost does not move, the body and eyes are hand in one, the vision is wide, the line of sight is concentrated, and the concentration is up.
After really driving, you can understand why the cockpit of the new generation of Lexus RX should be called "Tazuna Reins Concept Cockpit". Boy A felt that the cockpit was designed not only to drive comfortably, but also to minimize distractions, which ultimately came down to safety.
And this series of models in the intelligent safety system is also a lot of effort, is a very "smart" car, from road conditions to distance will always be "vigilant", after all, many safety hazards come to the bicycle in the difficult to predict the situation, and the real safety is actually to do a good job of "early warning".
If the system determines that there is a risk of collision, it will not only warn in advance, but also gently brake in time, braking softer than a person and judging more accurately than a person. The various intelligent driving assistance functions are very gentle, even when accelerating, decelerating, and cornering, I can move forward steadily, so that I sit in the back seat with a full sense of security.
The high-frequency intelligent safety system equipped with the new generation RX includes many functions such as "predictive active driving assistance", "lane change assist", and "emergency steering assist", which are very practical.
Among them, Fan Lord is most interested in the "Safe Exit Assist" function. The city has a dense flow of traffic, and if you don't pay attention when opening the door, it is easy to hit an electric car, which is very dangerous. With this function, once the system "sees" that there is an incoming car behind, the e-Latch intelligent electronically controlled door will actively stop the door opening action, like a bodyguard, which is also very reassuring.
In addition, Lexus' strong after-sales service is also very reassuring and worry-free, this RX can enjoy 6 years or 150,000 kilometers of free warranty maintenance service, as small as spark plug wipers, as large as brake disc brake pads, can be replaced for free, the same level of luxury brands can do so very little.
Comfortable feeling, like an extension of home
I usually take more cars, so I also attach great importance to the comfort of riding, especially now that I am pregnant with a baby, my physical state can not withstand the toss, especially hope that even on the road can feel the comfort of home, this experience of Lexus RX, found that it can do this.
The most direct feeling of this series of cars is the comfort of the seats, there is a gentle sense of support when sitting on it, and I will not feel particularly tired after sitting for a long time. Like the RX 450h+ model, you can also choose semi-aniline high-grade leather, which is more delicate and warm, especially "Lexus".
When sitting in the passenger seat, I used to recline the seat a little more, and the 8-way electric adjustment was enough to find the most comfortable angle. The Boy A has a soft spot for the lumbar support of the seat, which is also a great tool for fatigue relief.
The space in the back row is very spacious, and when I go out with bleating, I often play games with her all the way, and before I know it, I have reached my destination. Storage space is also plentiful, and it is easy to store small things.
In addition to visible comfort, there is also invisible comfort, and health is one of them. For example, the monitoring and cleaning and filtering of PM 2.5 gives us families who often travel with babies with a sense of security, and they really take care of their breathing; At the same time, this car is also equipped with nanoe™ X nano water ionizer, which has a skin-friendly moisturizing effect, which is also very intimate for busy working mothers like us.
Quality of life is also inseparable from a sense of ritual. I think the best thing about the Lexus RX series is the 64-color ambient light in the cockpit, which is lit up "without seeing the light", the atmosphere is full, and sometimes I feel that the carriage is like entering a different space, and there is a different kind of romance.
The 14 preset lights are all inspired by nature, such as forests, sunrises, flames, shooting stars, lightning, icebergs, etc., each corresponding to a mood. I can also tell a story to bleat through changing lights, let her imagine nature in a different way, and the edification of beauty can also go along the way.
Modern design, everywhere shines
The design aesthetics of Lexus have always been talked about, so appearance is also a major attraction of the RX series. My first impression of this car was that it was handsome, the kind that makes people can't help but look back a few times.
"Spindle" is the iconic design element of Lexus, and now it has evolved into a "spindle-shaped body", which is highly recognizable and flexible in the atmosphere.
The seamless integrated grille on the front face is even more eye-catching, with its own coolness, and three-dimensional layering, which is also a guarantee of return rate.
The model pictured is RX 450h+
L-shaped headlights, there is a feeling of "danfeng eyes", a good design is simply able to exude charm.
Not to mention the simple and atmospheric through-the-air taillights, walking through the night is also a unique scenery.
There's plenty of space in the trunk, more than enough for your usual luggage when traveling for business or travel, and some models can also recline the rear seats for more space.
In my opinion, the new Lexus RX is a good choice for quality families in all aspects, it can take you farther to chase your career dreams, or it can intimately bring temperature to your family, so that love can continue on the journey.
This kind of luxurious temperature makes people feel reassuring. If peace of mind is home, then take a ride on the new generation Lexus RX, whether the scenery outside the window is mountains or busy cities. This mobile space will be the warmest place to be at home.
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Business Fan Producer: Editor Kien