Who is the best "stepping on" after the baby is born? The "first hug" of newborns should avoid two kinds of people hugging

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"The night of the candle in the cave house, when the wife gives birth". These two important life moments are extremely important for men and small families and will be remembered for a lifetime. However, men may not know that the little baby is born, the body is soft, like a glutinous rice dumpling, not forced, not everyone can hold it!

Case:

Slightly born baby, the husband is very happy, the husband made an appointment with a group of buddies in advance, to give the wife a big surprise. On the day of the wife's childbirth, Weiwei's husband brought three or four buddies to the scene, planning to hug the baby and wrap a few large red envelopes for the baby.

Although, the ideas of these brothers are simple and beautiful, all for the sake of festivity. However, after the midwife came out with the baby, he did not hold the baby to Wei Wei's husband for the first time, but directly gave it to Wei Wei's mother. This move provoked the husband who was slightly unable to get off the stage, he felt that the child was his own, and he should step on the father himself.

Dad's love for his children is no less than that of mom. According to traditional customs, after the baby is born, who is the first to hold the baby, and the baby will be close to whom in the future. How could Bao Dad give up this opportunity, not to mention that this was his own flesh and blood, and there were several buddies on the scene cheering him up, looking at him!

No, the situation must be brought back. But when Bao Dad once again wanted to hold the baby in his arms, the midwife once again came to tell him: "Looking at your appearance, it seems to be the first baby born, I am afraid that you do not understand the posture of holding the baby, so I dare not send the child to your arms." ”

This time, Bao Dad was honest and did not dare to take the initiative to hug the baby. Because Bao Dad also knows that the baby is born, the body bones are not fully developed, and they cannot be recklessly held in their arms for the time being. Moreover, these buddies are still big and small, and they really have no experience in holding babies. Thinking of this, Bao Dad hurriedly thanked the midwife, if it were not for her kind reminder, I am afraid that the baby would suffer today.

The "first hug" in the delivery room, who holds the best? Midwife: These 2 kinds of people must refuse, and the relationship is not close

After the baby is born, the first person who wants to hold the baby, although there are many, but everyone has their own ideas. For example, some sick relatives may think of using newborn babies to celebrate and make a fortune. The baby's grandparents want to hold the baby first, maybe they want to know the sex of the baby at the first time, whether it is a male baby or a female baby.

In short, everyone has their own ideas, but for the mother, whether the baby is healthy enough and whether the baby is in a good state is the most important thing. Other things are to cooperate with doctors, nurses, midwives, and together reject the person who should not be the first to hold the baby, which is the top priority of the birth mother.

The first hug in the delivery room, to refuse the baby who will not hold the baby

Bao Dad's new father, the joy of having a baby, the excitement of being a father, the excitement of holding a baby, may make Bao Dad neglect the posture of holding a baby. If the father holds the baby, jumps around happily, lifts the baby up and throws it high, or shakes it around, this is a disaster for the baby.

Therefore, the first hug in the delivery room, usually experienced midwives, will ask Bao Dad if he has held the newborn. If you haven't hugged it, you basically won't risk holding the newborn baby to Your Dad.

Here is also a suggestion for the fathers, before the new dad takes office, it is recommended to learn the correct posture of holding the baby. For example, hold the newborn's head, back, and hips with both hands, and then hold the baby in your arms. Refuse to shake violently and walk around lightly, so that the baby's health is better.

The first hug in the delivery room, to refuse to join in the fun

All those who come to join in the fun basically hold the psychology of celebrating. They like lively scenes and are prone to overlook the reality that the mother needs to be quiet and the baby needs to rest. If on the day of giving birth to a baby, there is such a person to step on the baby, want to be the first to hold the baby, the generally quiet midwife will give the baby to the other family members of the birth mother to take care of. Avoid a group of noisy people who are too noisy, affect the mood of the mother, or interfere with the first few hours of recuperation of the newborn baby.

The birth mother is on the scene, and she should refuse to speak boldly and do not have to care about face

Sometimes, Bao Dad may be embarrassed to refuse some relatives and friends, or brothers who are in the fun. And midwives can't take care of too much business, after all, people also have their own work to be busy. In this case, it is recommended that if the birth mother is on the spot, she can directly refuse, and there is no need to hinder the face, and she is embarrassed to refuse.

In this environment, no matter how close the relationship, it is not as good as the baby has a quiet environment to stretch the body, and the birth mother can also enter the ward in time to recuperate and recover as soon as possible. These two things are the most important, the others are less important.

In addition, there are some crowds, which are not suitable for holding babies at the first time. For example, people with a heavy smell of smoke on their bodies; people who do special work and dirty clothes; and some elderly people with inconvenient legs and feet and limited physical strength are not suitable for holding babies at the first time. These are all for the good of the newborn, you must not understand the refusal for the sake of face.

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