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Speaking of picture books.
Among them, many parents left a message saying that "picture books are not less to buy, but I don't know how to read with my baby."
Don't worry, today we are talking about how to read picture books with the baby.
This article is longer, divided into a picture book - read before reading - start reading, three parts, anxious parents can directly read the third part.
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Pick a picture book
The so-called work must first use its weapon, and it is difficult for a smart woman to cook without rice! You always have to know which picture books to read before you read them, right?
1. Do not choose these picture books
Pirated picture books
Don't choose pirated picture books! These pirated picture books are for maximum profit, they will choose cheap inks, glues, and cheap inks, often contain heavy metal lead.
Children reading such picture books for a long time will have a negative impact on the respiratory system, may cause respiratory diseases, and may also cause damage to the baby's brain.
Not only that, the paper of pirated picture books is relatively thin, and the text and pictures will be confused and the picture will be messy. Looking at such picture books for a long time, the eyes are also particularly prone to fatigue, which will increase the probability of children's myopia.
Picture books with imprecise content
After reading this picture, do you have a feeling of "do you have a lot of question marks for children", this... How to tell your child? The chicken came to celebrate the bear's birthday, and when he sat down at the table to eat the cake, he found that there was one less friend, and the book asked the children "Do you know who is missing", and at the same time, there was a dangling roast chicken on the table.
child:???
Is this a dark fairy tale?
At first, I thought it was funny, but I was very scared when I thought about it. The child's ability to imitate is strong, and the consequences of being guided in this way are really unimaginable.
Picture books that promote the three erroneous views
Many people know the story of "Jack and the Magic Bean", Jack was originally a poor boy who accidentally got a magic bean, which grew a magic bean vine that connected to the heavens.
After climbing into the sky, Jack stole the giant's chicken and gold and silver treasure from the golden egg. As the giant chased after him, Jack cut down the magic bean vine, and the giant fell to his death. Jack lived a life of abundance.
When we saw this story as children, he preached Jack's bravery and wisdom, but in fact Jack was a real little one. bad. egg. How strong is the ability of children to imitate now, if children see such content in picture books, it is difficult to guarantee that they will not imitate.
2, a picture to tell you how to choose a picture book
Super detailed selection tutorial, check it out at the end of the article.
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Prepare before reading
The environment is suitable
First of all, it is best to set up a special reading corner at home. Needless to say how luxurious it is, it is enough to let the child know that this place is specially used for him to read. The reading corner of our house is just around the corner of the sofa, and on the side are small bookshelves of The Pills themselves.
Secondly, be quiet when reading picture books. For example, when I read picture books to Maruzi, idle people like Maruko's father had to actively turn on mute and sign language modes.
Posture standards
The best reading posture to read picture books with children is that children and parents are leaning on each other, holding the picture book in front of the child and starting to read, and the picture book is about 20cm away from the child's eyes.
Fixed time
It is best to choose a time when your child is in a good mood to read picture books. Remember that it is the parent who reads the picture book to the child's mood, please distinguish the order of the subject and the object. After finding this time point, read with your child for 15 to 20 minutes every day at this time point, and develop a fixed pattern.
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Start reading
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Error demonstration:
First, read according to their own understanding and ideas, do not accept the child's whimsical ideas, think that the child is afraid of "brain holes".
Second, to read a picture book as a "five-year college entrance examination three-year simulation (low kindergarten version)", you have to let the child learn something cultural knowledge.
Correct demonstration:
You touch your conscience and ask yourself, who is this picture book for? Please give the initiative to the child, let the child turn the page on his own, and play on his own. Our parents are a little self-aware, to put it bluntly, you are a hilarious person.
When I read to the baby, I usually hold it and let her turn the pages by herself, especially when I used to read some hole books, touch books, and audio books, I would completely let her play by herself. When she grew up and read picture books with stories, I also clung to her.
For example, when I told her about "The Hungry Little Snake", she didn't care about the content of the picture book at all, and her focus was on "Mom, what about the little snake's mother?" Why did its mother let it go out and eat on its own? How can it be eaten so much..."
At this time, you don't have to pull the child back to let her keep up with your thinking, just let her go!
There are feelings
Error demonstration:
When reading picture books, the most feared thing is to directly follow the raw thoughts without expression, as if the wood has become fine, which can be called the most expensive picture book reader. To sum up, it is to reject AI intelligent reading of picture books.
Correct demonstration:
When reading, you should be emotional, just like when you were a child, the teacher let you have the feelings to read the text, and when necessary, you must also match it with expressions and actions. The character of the picture book is happy, you are happy, the character is sad, you have to whimper and cry. Every time I read a picture book to Maruzi, I felt like a two-hundred-pound neurotic.
There is interaction
Error demonstration:
Reading as if he had completed a task, turning the page too quickly like a tornado, not giving the child a chance to interact.
Correct demonstration:
To interact with children, such as letting children identify the items in the picture book, letting children learn the sounds of animals in picture books, asking children some open-ended questions, and then more advanced, that is, letting children repeat the story, or look at the beginning, let children guess the storyline behind.
Take the picture book below, when I read it to my baby, I will ask her, "Guess what it might be besides a donut?" ”
Baby would say, "Still a cookie." ”
I'll give her some guidance again: "You see this round shape, what else does it look like?" ”
Baby would smile and giggle and say, "Round, like Mom's face." ”
Well, don't care about these details, you just understand the essence.
Expand more
Error demonstration:
Only talk about the picture book, and if there is no picture book, I will not talk about it. Therefore, when you encounter a picture book like "Bungee", which has only 1 word in the whole book, you can only doubt life.
Correct demonstration:
In fact, picture books are a bridge for children to understand the world, and ultimately they must be combined with life. For example, girls can't live in idol dramas, and children can't live in picture books. You can substitute experiences and scenes in your life to make your children better understand the content of picture books.
Take "Bungee", although there is only one word in the whole book, when I tell the baby, I am adding drama to myself the whole time.
For example, I would ask her, "How does the little frog jump?" "Then we will learn frog jumping together, and after jumping I will continue to expand and ask her, such as what is the name of the little frog?" Is the little frog's home in the water or on land? What does the little frog like to eat, and what is the baby of the little frog? After that, I can talk from "Bungee" to "Little Tadpole Finds Mother", how big the brain hole is, how wide the expansion is, all depends on your "acting skills".
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Questions and answers
Q1: When can I start parent-child reading?
A: There is no fixed point in time that you must start from a few months, and you can read picture books from the birth of your child. Because reading picture books is not only to let children learn anything, but also to promote the development of children's vision and hearing through some bright color blocks, parents' expressions and sounds when reading picture books.
Q2: What should I do if my child always tears up books?
A: Tear it up, don't define tearing a book as a bad thing, and don't blame the children for it, they are not making trouble, they just think it's funny. Everyone should try to meet the child's interest in tearing paper, you can buy some safe, suitable for tearing soft paper, such as wrinkled paper, napkins, etc., so that he can tear as much as he wants.
Q3: What should I do if my child does not like to read picture books?
A: First of all, parents should set a good example, you play with your mobile phone to let your children read books, which is too double standard. Then there is the fact that even if the child is not interested, you have to read awkwardly and continue your performance, and slowly the child will be attracted to you. Give your child a little time and patience.
Q4: What should I do if my child always lets me read repeatedly?
A: Well, read it. The child lets you repeat the reading, that shows that he likes the story, everyone do not feel trouble, the child has no way to receive all the information at once, repeated reading is the process of continuously accepting information and constantly learning, which is a good thing.
Well, today's sharing ends here, reading the picture book, the reason everyone should understand, the next look at how you "routine" children, it does not have a fixed model and standards. As long as there is love, then it is right.
For me, your forwarding is the greatest love for me!
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