In 1912, a luxury ship from Britain to New York, the United States, which claimed to never "sink", sank to the cold and bone-chilling Atlantic Ocean at 2 a.m. ...
For more than a century, people have expressed deep sympathy for the biggest shipwreck disaster of mankind, and this ship has also aroused the interest and fascination of many people. Re-brushing this classic movie, I found a small detail that puzzled me, Jack's friend invited the goddess in his heart to go with him when the ship was about to sink, and I thought that the girl would definitely agree.
When disaster strikes, men who love themselves and like themselves very much refuse without reason. The road ahead is uncertain, and one more person has more security.
At this time, people are panicked, afraid, and all kinds of emotions are intertwined, and if such a gentleman appears, the girls should rush over and hug them, so as to express their will at that moment.
With this question, it wasn't until the end of the movie that I finally found a reason for the girl's refusal.
Under the huge impact, the girl was fell down by the tilting boat, in order to survive she desperately tried to grab the mast on the outside of the ship, it was difficult to grasp it firmly, the ship split from the middle of the gravity out of control, seeing that she was about to be unable to support, looking at the cold Atlantic Ocean under her feet she cried desperately...
Everyone around her was like dumplings, slipping down one by one, and she looked at the hands of Ruth and Jack who were not far from her, and suddenly the panic in her eyes turned to envy.
The next second, she couldn't hold back and fell into the dead sea...
It was this look that I finally understood, and before she died, she regretted it!
If she hadn't refused, even if she died with her beloved, it would have been warm.
People are social animals, from the villages where they live to the small ones who cross the street, and they like to walk together.
Someone used to ask me, what is the meaning of marriage?
Now I can boldly tell you that the meaning of marriage is to accompany each other. When you are happy, someone around you can share joy, when you are sad, someone can listen to your chatter, when you encounter difficulties, someone will silently support you, and when disaster comes, you have the strength to face all fears.
When watching the movie, I was most impressed by the scene:
When the sea gradually rushed into the room, the old couple who could not escape lay on the bed, the old woman was so frightened that her husband clasped her hand and kissed her cheek. They lay huddled together, without quarreling, without crying, and so they quietly faced death.
The elderly couple, owners of Macy's in the United States and are said to be the second richest man in the United States at the time, voluntarily gave up the opportunity to escape when they learned that many mothers and children did not board the lifeboat.
Although this shot is short, it still makes me can't help but cry, it is touching; it is not only the inseparability of love, but also a feat of sacrificing oneself at the moment of life and death to complete great love.
The girl struggles alone to face the desperate situation, and the old couple lies in the waterbed and faces everything calmly, which is a stark contrast.
The girl's fear, the old couple's calmness, and Ruth and Jack's never giving up became their final ending.
If the feelings of the old couple are moving, then Jack and Ruth are a happy couple, and it is regrettable that the feelings of the girl and Jack's friend are full of all kinds of uncertainties...
In fact, such a shadow can only be seen in movies.
In life, we often hear stories of seven years in love and instantly falling apart because of the bride price, and I think the vast majority of them break up, not only because of the bride price, but because of the lack of trust.
Yes, there are men who say that women have been with themselves for so many years and are going to break up because I don't give the bride price? How much pressure is it to get so many bride price gifts together, girls really don't understand things?
But have you ever wondered why girls insist on breaking up without giving a bride price?
Seven years you have been together is the whole youth of a woman, she really loves money so much, she obviously knows that you are not the second generation of the rich and still with you, certainly not because of money.
She is just afraid and insecure about the future, afraid of life changes, and to put it bluntly, her trust in the man is not very high.
For the unknown, women are more afraid and more afraid than men. It was like Jack's friend who wanted to take the girl with him to escape, but she was ruthlessly rejected.
The girl is afraid of the unknown, and even more afraid of handing over her fate to the man. Here I especially envy the love of Jack and Ruth, their love for each other 100%, desperate to run to each other, desperate to bring each other out of the predicament, even if the most powerless, death must do their best to let you live well, wonderful life!
If you ask me what kind of love is good love?
I think that the love of trusting each other in this way, not abandoning life and death, and trying to bring hope to each other is definitely a good love.
Everyone's life can not be calm forever, there are always strong winds and waves, a bad will overturn the ship, love is sometimes a port to resist risks.
I remember Luo Yonghao once said that the most right thing he did in his life was to marry her wife.
In 2016, he owed 630 million yuan for the failure of his business, when all the creditors were looking for him to pay him back, almost overnight, he changed from a once-beautiful entrepreneur to a lao Lai who owed a huge foreign debt, depressed and painful, and once depressed to want to jump from the 38th floor.
Every day a lot of medicine, decadent he has no direction, it is his wife a little bit of explanation, scolding him, he is like waking up.
After 9 months, he chose to pick himself up again and make money to pay off his debts. Finally, he found the fastest job to repay debts, and when the anchor sold goods, he was often scolded and ridiculed by netizens. He overcame all the unsatisfactory, and it took him more than three years to finally pay off all his debts.
He said that if it were not for his wife, it was estimated that he would have collapsed if he did not die.
The need for mutual trust between husband and wife is the cornerstone, and Luo Yonghao's spirit of striving to be strong after failure must be her wife's unwavering trust in him.
Of course, trust is not a matter of one person, it is the efforts of two people together, Luo Yonghao did not live up to his wife's trust, but also another kind of trust force.
There is no feeling of trust, when the tide comes, there is no external pressure, and it dissipates everywhere.
Trust is a force, trust is a joy. Trust between people is very important, and after gaining the trust of others, you will feel happy and will gain infinite strength.
How hard it is to trust a person, I am afraid that I have experienced too many betrayals and can no longer believe it. Everywhere there is deception, and trust becomes precious.