Shakespeare once said:
"Love is harder to hide than a felony, and the night of love has the midnight sun."
Indeed, if a person really loves you, he will not hide it, and true love will not be hidden.
Therefore, whether a person loves you or not does not need you to ask frequently, let alone guess.
In the daily life with him, you must be able to feel it.
Of course, if you can't feel it, it's not loving.
Man these 3 things, he will only give to the person he loves the most, if he gives you, then he must really love you.
His preference
"Love is not rare, and favoritism makes people feel precious."
As Zhang Ailing said:
"If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, then I don't want it."
In the relationship, what girls want most is actually the preference of men.
It is you who receive two messages at the same time and will not hesitate to reply to me first;
Is no matter what decision you make, you will take me into account;
You smile at me when everyone is holding my face.
Preference is actually a bias without reason.
You know very well that when you are on stage with other girls, he will applaud you first;
You know very well that when you fall down with someone else, he will lift you up first;
You know very well that in His heart You are supreme, and He loves you deeply.
His preference is like a chip, he only gives you the chip and you win.
Just like the poet Gu Cheng once wrote a love letter to his wife:
"The train came and went, and it was full of people, good and bad;
You are not, you are an individual person. ”
In his eyes, you are different, so you can't help but distinguish and treat you differently from others.
Love is thick because of differences, and it is precisely because of love that there is a difference.
His money
In a talk show, Sha Yi was asked by the host: "Who is in charge of the family's money?" ”
Sha Yi said happily, "I don't know anything about money, but our family's money is under the management of the treasurer." ”
A man who doesn't love you enough will weigh all kinds of pros and cons, because in his heart his own interests are the most important.
As emotional mentor Tu Lei said:
"Men in the process of falling in love, have been calculating the cost,
I want to exchange the least cost for a woman's greatest feelings. ”
Only men who truly love you will be willing to pay for you regardless of gains and losses.
Gu Tingye in the TV series "Know It or Not, Know It or Not", the night he and Minglan got married;
He gave all his property to Minglan for safekeeping, and told her that these family properties were hers and could spend as much as she wanted.
The person who truly loves you, even if he gives you his whole world, is still worried that he will not give enough.
Only people who don't love you so much will be worried about you everywhere;
Especially in the matter of money, it will be particularly clear with you, for fear of losing money.
So ah, be a man who is willing to give your money unconditionally;
Let you spend as much as you want, use it casually, there is no doubt that he must really love you very much.
His sincerity
The love between Yang Dai and Qian Zhongshu is very moving.
They have known each other, known each other, loved each other, and stayed together for more than 60 years,
From youth to whitehead, experienced ups and downs, and accompanied each other for a lifetime.
At the beginning of their acquaintance, Qian Zhongshu said, "I am not engaged. ”
Yang Dai returned: "I don't have a boyfriend either. ”
Writing a letter again, Yang Daidan wrote a word "instigation", and Qian Zhongshu also replied with a word "you".
There is actually a deeper meaning behind this:
"Instigation" is: Yang Dai asked Qian Zhongshu how many people were in his heart?
"You" is: Qian Zhongshu said that you are the only one in your heart.
Qian Zhongshu said to Yang Dai:
"Before I met you, I never thought about getting married, and after meeting you, I never thought about getting married."
The person who truly loves you, after falling in love with you, you are the only one.
In his eyes, there is no room for anyone but you.
Although you are not perfect and have many small flaws in your body, in his heart, you are the best.
No matter how good others are, he can't look at them.
Indeed, the person who truly loves you, after falling in love with you, will give you a sincere and serious love for you.
If you want to spend the rest of your life, the people who accompany you are you, always you, and always you.