宋圭武观点161年轻人要高度重视婚姻问题

婚姻的幸福是人生最大的幸福，年轻人要高度重视婚姻问题。

早在大约2500年前苏格拉底说，千方百计要结婚，贤妻带你走进天堂，悍妇造就哲学巨匠，这是哲学的辩证法，与现实是有差距的。好女人旺三代。男人若遇到一个不讲道理人品素质很差的女人，人生的多一半就是不成功的，甚至这个女人会让你下地狱。所以，小伙子找对象一定要谨慎，对对方的性格、人品、家庭情况一定要详细了解，切忌一见钟情盲目结合。对女人而言，找一个好男人也是人生的一件大事，也一定要慎重。不然像劳荣枝一样，跟上一个杀人犯，也搭上了自己的命。女人的命贵不贵，与男人的好不好是紧密联系的。总之，不管是男青年，还是女青年，找对象都要高度谨慎，在婚姻问题上决不能草率，切忌盲目结婚和盲目离婚。根据“盖尔-沙普利算法”，婚姻市场也是可以实现稳定均衡的，但这个稳定均衡是谁先下手谁占优，男方先下手男方占优，女方先下手女方占优。所以，婚姻市场稳定均衡未必是每个人最满意的市场。所以，现实中的婚姻十全十美的情况很难有，所以，婚姻也需要包容。但包容也是有条件的，不能无限包容。所以，找对象，虽然不能太苛刻，但至少要求对方人品好，没有遗传病，这是最基本的，其次，再看个人性格、容貌、才华和家庭情况等。人品好，没有遗传病，这是找对象需要考虑的最基本的条件。不满足基本条件，就不应考虑，不然，会祸害你一辈子。所以，结婚必须要谨慎。同时，结婚后，对方若没有大的毛病，也不要轻易离婚，因为离婚的代价也是高昂的。好，谢谢，谢谢。

Song Guiwu's opinion 161 young people should attach great importance to the marriage issue

Marriage happiness is the greatest happiness of life, young people should attach great importance to the marriage issue. As early as about 2500 years ago, Socrates said, try every means to get married, the wife takes you into heaven, the woman makes a philosopher, this is the dialectics of philosophy, and there is a gap between reality.A good woman prospers three generations.If a man meets a woman who is not reasonable and has poor moral quality, more than half of his life is not successful, and even this woman will let you go to hell.Therefore, the guy to find a partner must be cautious, the other party's character, moral character, family situation must be detailed understanding, avoid love at first sight blind combination.For women, looking for a good man is also a great thing in life, must also be careful.Otherwise, like Lao Rongzhi, followed a murderer, also took his own life.The woman's life is not expensive, and the man is closely linked.In short, whether it is a young man, or a young woman, find a partner to be highly cautious, in the marriage problem must not be hasty, avoid blind marriage and blind divorce.According to the "Gail-Shapley algorithm", the marriage market can also achieve stable equilibrium, but the stable equilibrium is who is dominant, who is dominant, who is dominant. Therefore, the marriage market is not necessarily the most stable and balanced market for everyone. Therefore, it is difficult to have a perfect marriage in reality, so marriage also needs tolerance. But tolerance is also conditional, not infinite tolerance. Therefore, looking for an object, although not too harsh, but at least require the other party good character, no genetic disease, this is the most basic, secondly, look at personal character, appearance, talent and family situation. Good character, no genetic disease, this is the most basic condition to consider when looking for an object. Do not meet the basic conditions, should not consider, otherwise, will be a curse to you for a lifetime. Therefore, marriage must be cautious. At the same time, after marriage, if the other party has no big problem, do not easily divorce, because the cost of divorce is also high. OK, thank you, thank you.