Wethinkthatstoppingkidsfromexpressingtheirfeelingsiswrong.Yo

We think that stopping kids from expressing their feelings is wrong. You may feel bad when you believe you are wrong.

When children express their feelings and are told that it is nothing to cry about, they come to know that they themselves are bad.

We need to raise them in an environment where it is safe to express feelings. Once you feel more comfortable with your own anger, you can teach your children why anger is a helpful feeling.

When your kids express anger, help them examine what it is that has made them angry. Why did it make them angry? How did it do that?

Then, you can teach them that those feelings are never wrong and our expressions of feelings are in our control. Anger is natural and normal , and it can be experienced and expressed in a healthy way.

我们认为阻止孩子们表达他们自己的感受是错误的。当你们认为自己错了的时候，你们可能会感到难过。

当孩子们表达他们自己的感受，并被告知这没什么好哭的，他们就会知道他们自己是糟糕的。

我们需要在一个可以安全地表达情感的环境中抚养他们。一旦你们对自己的愤怒感到更舒服的情况下，你们就可以告诉自己的孩子为什么愤怒是一种有益的感觉。

当你们的孩子表达愤怒时，帮助他们查看是什么让他们生气。为什么会让他们生气? 这是怎么做到的?

然后，你们可以教导他们，那些感觉永远不会错，我们对感觉的表达是由我们自己控制的。愤怒是自然和正常的情绪，我们可以用一种健康的方式体验和表达。

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