God is the God of absolute fairness and justice, and each person he created is unique, and there are different plans and entrustments for each person, each of His creations. Therefore, there are also different ways of loving. For example, He chose Jerusalem as the temple's home, placing the focus of His work on Israel. He chose Peter to be an apostle of the Jews, but he chose Paul to be an apostle of the Gentiles; he gave the Barnabas the qualities of a beloved leader, but he gave Paul unrivaled sermon courage; He made Daniel a mighty general and prophet of the five dynasties, but he made Jeremiah humiliated among the Jews and a prophet.
Each person's characteristics are different, God's purpose of creation is different, and there is a different way of loving each person, but each person is specially loved and precious. He loves us according to His own attributes and strengthens our hands according to our endowments. There is no one whom God does not love, only those who do not love God. God does not create meaningless people, only those who have not yet found the meaning of their own lives. His work is all about His good plan, and He created us all with His good will. As He himself declares, Jeremiah 29:11 [modern Chinese] Only I know the plan I have laid out for you: I plan not for disaster, but for prosperity; I will give you a bright future.
Each of us is created to be wonderful and unique, so we have meaning because of God. And He gives us different gifts and trusts according to the purposes for which He created us, according to the talents we can carry, so that we can fulfill the entrustment He has given us through the gifts he has given us. Every gift is a trust, and every office is a responsibility. So that we may play in our own gifts, so as not to dishonor the trust. Be loyal in your position to fulfill your mission.
He loves you, he loves me, He loves all people, and though He loves in different ways, with different trusts and duties for each person, the essence of His love is the same—to benefit us. For He knows what kind of love we need and what we need most. The love He gives us is based on the design of The Wisdom of His love and his righteous judgment. He loves us according to the fullness and perfection of His own attributes, knowing to give us what we need in His way.
We may envy God for seemingly special love and grace for certain people, but we are pitiful in comparison to ourselves. It's just that we haven't discovered the meaning and value of His love for us. The love He gives to others doesn't necessarily work for you, and The cross He gives to others doesn't necessarily suit you. What He gives you is the best, and His love for you is the most beautiful. God gives each person special love, find our own love, our gifts, our trust, and we can find His destiny for us and see His wonderful deeds and guidance to us.