Everyone is thinking at the beginning of a relationship, or the sweet period of marriage, "I want to spend my life with this person, treat him/her well, and we will have a happy and happy future." "Unfortunately, everyone's expectations are very plump, and the reality is very bone. The change of time and the burden of life will make us change our minds and begin to think about whether this person is the right person.
Speaking of Guo Kaimin, everyone is not unfamiliar, the role of the old drama bone in "Lushan Love" makes everyone look new, the fire is all over the country, and the amount of broadcast of this drama is once unmatched by many TV series. But outside the play, what kind of person is he?
Some people think that feelings should end from one, and there can be no two hearts, and even this sometimes becomes a stain on the past when judging a person.
Your words and deeds, your hands and feet, and even a drink reveal what you have experienced in the past, the road you have traveled, the things you have tasted, and the things you have seen, which is an atmosphere called temperament, indelible, hidden and pretended. If on the first side, everyone may not show their true selves for some reason, but the inadequacy between two people will gradually reveal itself with time.
Guo Kaimin and his ex-wife Zhang Zhihua are like this, the two people who played together at the beginning, because of the frequent contact with acting, the fluffy hair of hormones, and the feelings quietly arose between the two, but at that time they were no longer favored. One is a small line of fresh meat, the other is an unknown actress, and even Guo Kaimin's parents are against the two.
The more opposed love is, the more determined it becomes. Throughout the ages, Romeo and Juliet, Cui Yingying and Zhang Sheng, how many vivid examples show the love that is opposed, how much courage will make them resist. However, the result of their Guo Kaimin and Zhang Zhihua is a broken marriage that was crushed by chai rice oil, salt sauce and vinegar tea. There is no third party in the middle, they are just defeated by triviality, although the original love is so deep and so deep, trying to break the prejudices of heaven and earth for each other.
When the previous relationship was about to die, Guo Kaimin was immersed in work, and after the divorce, he concentrated on his acting career for a long time. Until 1990, when he was filming "Taiwan Boy", he became acquainted with Liu Xiaochun, who married You Yong once, which made Guo Kaimin feel that the two had a common language and topic with each other.
Admittedly, a person like Guo Kaimin, who no longer has a common discourse with his ex-wife who became a housewife, can be seen that he likes women who work well like him and will not give up their careers. Women are respected for giving up their jobs for their families, but if there is another choice, they must stick to their careers.
Two people with a common discourse meet in the workplace, what a coincidence and destiny of fate. The two who have experienced a lot of things in the world are still touched by each other.
Retreat from the hormonal impulses of youth, put aside the calm after worldly prejudices, and mature after experiencing many worldly events, brewing and fermenting at this moment. Love needs common experience and the same words, it is not blindly one-sided sacrifice and payment, which will only lead to unilateral grievances and pain on both sides in the later stage. Only when two people are close to each other together, any tribulations and experiences become special symbols with different meanings.
In the face of outside pressure, Guo Kaimin firmly decided his choice, and he and Liu Xiaochun married in Hainan. So far from marriage, both of them have been in love, and they have not experienced a short period of sweetness like when they were with their ex-wives, followed by endless quarrels and final separation.
Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun are very affectionate, and this love is even enough for them to overcome many difficulties. Everything in the world, in the process of proceeding, has different difficulties, not to mention this kind of love that was not optimistic at the beginning, they have experienced a lot of tribulations, but this time is different, this time it is two people working together to face difficulties, so that their love crosses the limits of time and space.
Divorced from his ex-wife and even met Liu Xiaochun for a period of time, Guo Kaimin was busy with innovation and entrepreneurship. This is not an easy task, not to mention that Guo Kaimin is just an ordinary person with the heart to start a business, he has no family foundation and way to help him succeed in starting a business, he is just an ordinary actor trying to start a business.
During this period, he encountered financial difficulties and no entrepreneurial channels, and Guo Kaimin encountered too many problems, and he sometimes did not even have time to take into account his wife's feelings. Liu Xiaochun is not an idle person, she is not the kind of little woman who can't tell the difference between things, when her husband is busy at work, if she can't help him, Liu Xiaochun will first do her own work, and then patiently wait for Guo Kaimin.
As the saying goes, home is a warm harbor, and without the warm family embrace of Liu Xiaochun, Guo Kaimin will suffer more setbacks than he expected.
Love is when two mature people rely on each other and support each other.
Suffering sees the truth, and the ancients sincerely do not deceive me.
If it is to be said that the ex-wife was accompanied by Guo Kaimin when the scenery was flourishing, then Liu Xiaochun was the warmest sun on Guo Kaimin's long struggle.
Since the divorce, Guo Kaimin has invested in film and television dramas for a while, and has tossed all the family he had saved, and he has fallen into a poverty situation, but he still goes to Hainan to start a new business.
When doing business, Guo Kaimin encountered many ups and downs, except for a few books, he did not even have a dime in his pocket. At this time, even he himself was almost desperate, but Liu Xiaochun never gave up the relationship. There was no thought of wanting to leave him. After the failure of the business, she has been with Guo Kaimin and has become his staunchest supporter, supporting him to go on.
Following the failure of investment, the hopelessness of entrepreneurship, and the jingle of poverty, Guo Kaimin still returned to the original starting point. In 1996, Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun went north to seek development, and he once again found the drama "Childcare". Although he only played a small supporting role in it, Guo Kaimin was more serious than ever.
Maybe it was the failure experience of the previous marriage, or the difficult years spent with Liu Xiaochun, the combined influence of various factors made Guo Kaimin change a lot. He no longer cared about the feelings of his family and wife as much as before, and he had more love for Liu Xiaochun than before.
After this, although Guo Kaimin did not have a very good career, he also had a stable income to make the small family life sound and colorful. Soon after, the birth of a son made the family even more stable.
Maybe people have to go through a lot of experience to know what they want and cherish what they have. As long as you know how to cherish and love, it is not too late at any time. Guo Kaimin, 62, knows it well.
The old saying often says that the original couple is good, but now that Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun's second marriage is happier than the first marriage, the experience left by the previous generation is to let us cherish the other half who has a very valuable common experience.
Now it seems that after going through a failed marriage, I know what true love and true family mean. Happiness is not easy to come by, I wish Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun and the readers who watch this article can continue to be happy.
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