The beautiful Miss M is getting a divorce.
Her rich second-generation husband has a stall with his hands, the car is not my name, and the house does not have my name. I am a proletarian. deposit? We both ran out of food, where? To leave, you just go out and turn left.
What exactly is a good marriage?
Marry well, not live in a mansion and drive a luxury car, let alone do not have to work, buy and buy every day.
There are many women, as simple as Miss M. I think that marrying a rich man is marrying well. I really live my life as an idol drama.
Once you enter the Houmen, it is as deep as the sea. Looking at wearing gold and silver, brocade and jade food, I don't know, but it is just the right to use.
Cruelly speaking, it's like having a pet. Obedient, give rewards for eating well and drinking well. Touched the scales, sorry, there are many people who abandon pets.
The so-called good marriage is to be guaranteed.
Feelings are nothing. Especially when you are married, you don't look up and look down. Even if it is as beautiful as Cecilia Cheung, it is inevitable that it will be tired over time.
Can you be like Sun Wukong Seventy-Two? Today Cecilia Cheung, tomorrow Fan Bingbing, the day after tomorrow Zhou Winter Rain...
Which day the feelings are gone, do not want to pass, this guarantee can make you have dignity and good gathering and dispersion, this is a good marriage.
If marriage is compared to an employment relationship, the so-called guarantee is first of all a legal guarantee, protecting the legitimate rights and interests of workers, paying a point and gaining a point, and the child is not deceived.
Unfortunately, in China, there is no legal guarantee for the efforts of full-time wives.
There are also many families that use all kinds of means to prevent their daughters-in-law from being like thieves, for fear of suffering losses. But urging to hold the grandson is not ambiguous at all. In their eyes, the daughter-in-law is nothing more than a walking womb.
My friend's father, an old man who has been in business for a long time, said a leisurely sentence - a woman is either tough in her mother's house or tough in her own house, so that she will not be bullied by her husband's family.
When this friend got married, she was also rolled her eyes by her father: You are 29 years old, married so early, how to fight for a career?
As a result, she is now doing the work of store design and part-time design jewelry, in order to be a marriage career, both hands must be grasped, both hands must be hard.
What exactly is hard gas? Is it economically independent?
More important than economic independence is the independence of thought, having a brain and knowing priorities.
Character looks at the details, and even the details can be hidden, not to be seen at the critical moment.
It is difficult to keep fresh. Time is a pig-killing knife, bald head, fat belly.
Economic materials, even more only in the pocket, are really their own.
The so-called hardness, the so-called independence, is to have the courage and ability to negotiate and capital.
Dong Zhujun (庚子年正月五 – December 6, 1997) was a modern female entrepreneur, founder of Jin Jiang Hotel in Shanghai, and a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference for seven consecutive terms.
Zhang Youyi, who is also a modern female entrepreneur, is from a famous family and has received a good education since childhood.
However, Dong Zhujun's origin is the lowest level, and he has tasted bitter tears since he was a child. When she was 12 years old, her family's debts could not be repaid, and in desperation, she was sent by her parents to Changsantangzi as a cleaner.
After watching Hou Xiaoxian's movie "Flowers on the Sea", you know that Changsan Tangzi is the most senior brothel, also called the first class team. Qing people, that is, girls who are not yet old, only sell art and do not sell themselves.
At that time, although Dong Zhujun was a Qing dynasty, he was already a red girl. The old bustard had already set his sights on her cash cow, and he had to squeeze it until the dead leaves of the tree fell before he was willing to give up.
When Dong Zhujun reached the age when she could pick up customers, the old bustard couldn't wait to force her to sell herself.
If Dong Zhujun wants to get rid of his tragic fate, the only way to find someone to redeem himself can go.
Dong Zhujun is a girl who will fight for her future, she has long been secretly observing, in order to find a man who can be relied on to save her from the fire pit.
She chose a man named Natsuki.
In the summer, he studied in the infantry department of the Tobin School in Japan in his early years. He joined Sun Yat-sen's League. After the outbreak of the Xinhai Revolution, he served as the deputy governor of Sichuan. After that, in order to fight yuan shikai with Sun Yat-sen, Huang Xing and others, he stayed in Shanghai and met Dong Zhujun.
He was different from everyone else and never joked with me. Instead, sometimes I tell you that you've read books, and you should read them when you have time. One day, Summer Eve said to me, "I really like you." You see so many people, only I told you to read, told you to be a good person. "He often talks sweet things to me and constantly encourages me to improve." I thought he was the most sincere of all. ——Dong Zhujun's autobiography "My Century"
Later, Dong Zhujun proposed three conditions to Xia Shi: one was not to be a little wife; the second was to send her to Japan to study; and the third was to be a kennai helper. Natsumi agreed at the time, and in the years that followed he fulfilled these promises well.
Surprisingly, Dong Zhujun refused to redeem her for Xia Shi.
He said, "Don't you want me to redeem you out?" "Yes, I don't. You wait, I have my own reason. I am not a thing, and then say that I will be married to you in the future, and once you are not happy, you may say, what is strange about you, you bought it back with money. "In any case, I don't want you to take the money to ransom me. Everyone has the feeling of being husband and wife, and only then are they willing to be husband and wife. ——Dong Zhujun's autobiography "My Century"
Later, Dong Zhujun took advantage of the opportunity to get drunk on the guard guarding her, and took the opportunity to escape, join xia shi and escape together.
The turning point in Dong Zhujun's life was that she escaped from the fire pit completely on her own. She was then taken to Japan to study by Natsuki, and eventually succeeded in transforming into a new-age woman.
I asked in my circle of friends what you would do if you were in Dong Zhujun's situation. Almost everyone says, redeem yourself.
Redemption can only be bought back as a good. Dong Zhujun chose to rely on his own ability to escape. He became a free body, and then with the help and strength of Xia Shi, he went up to a higher level.
Dong Zhujun, who had a bad hand and was dragged down by his beauty, relied on his clear thinking to counterattack life.
At present, almost all of them are free, but many of them hold the mentality that it is better to do a good job than to marry well, hoping to fly up the branches one day and enjoy life comfortably.
The result? Rich people are very skilled, where is it so easy to dig gold?
In Kiyoharu Matsumoto's "Strong Ants", the heroine played by Ryoko Yonekura is an empty mansion and a luxury car, and she does not even have the money to buy juice. On weekdays, I was treated as a nurse by my diabetic husband, who urinated on the and waved it away. heritage? The diabetic husband only takes care of his own flowers and pulls them down after spending.
Dong Zhujun, a low-level woman in that era, had already proposed to read and make progress. She is not willing to be attached to men, and she has seen too many tragedies of attachment to men.
It is often heard that some girls, who are redeemed by guests and paid for their little wives, are looked down upon by their husbands' families, and even their husbands do not respect her. ——Dong Zhujun's autobiography "My Century"
It can be seen that thinking determines destiny.
They often sneer behind their backs, talking about how I, a person who has a singing background, can read a book well? Still a good wife! I thought to myself: These women think that they are born well, have a high door, are in line with their husbands, enjoy glory and wealth, and are worthy of pride. But some of these women do not know the words, are all dependent on the power of their husbands or families, and live a parasitic life. What else can be done than to give people a tool to pass on their generations? To be proud and to look down on others is really funny and angry. Say I can't read the book well, I have to read it well for them! ——Dong Zhujun's autobiography "My Century"
Many women are poisoned by Mary Sue's silly white sweet brain-dead idol drama, thinking that Cinderella's marriage to the prince is the end. In fact, this is just the beginning.
This world produces beautiful girls in minutes. Japan and South Korea have gone through, and all kinds of customized models on the assembly line. There is never a shortage of beautiful women in this world.
I am not tough, I have no ability, no capital, and even no ideas, but I just use my face as money. Unfortunately, beauty is increasingly depreciating, always firm only banknotes, not breasts.
I love the story of the Taji horse racing. When I entered ca that year, I also used this strategy. Beautiful girls who are better than me in English, and beautiful girls who are better than me in English are not as beautiful as me.
It's like Tian Pujun went to study MBA that year.
To stand out, you need some swords to go sideways. Why fight to the death to compare beauty with others? Beauty is always the most beautiful, only more beautiful.
It is better to fight the ability. In the case of almost the ability, the advantages of beauty are highlighted, and the higher the class, the rarer it is. Because God is fair, wisdom and beauty are hard to combine.
Even, beauty teaches people to be lazy. Because of beauty, you can easily get a lot of resources. So, why bother? Man, it's always good and bad.
People must have foresight and planning. Lying down and enjoying, unless it is a good life, it can only be eaten until the mountain is empty. Who can pack the ticket and be taken care of by God forever and get it for nothing.
Beauty, clear thinking, and hard work of women, like Dong Zhujun, the future is unlimited.
The more beautiful a woman is, the more she has to fight for her ability. Beauty plus ability is like a tiger, who is in contention?
A beautiful girl next to me works during the day and works part-time as a tutor at night. She said that every time she couldn't stand it, she told herself to stick with it for another month, keep saving money, and hope to find a good opportunity to start a business. Although tired, I didn't want to stop. I am afraid that I have an excuse to rest, and then it is difficult to return to the original process.
Such a refreshing idea is frightening. I'm sure she'll get the life she wants. She has the confidence.
I hope that all readers who have read this article can also have such ideas and confidence.