In people's old concepts, they always feel that they have a family to work hard, although there is a certain reason, but not many people can really do it. Looking at the thirty-year-old who is not yet married, some of them also want to get married, but the pressure of life is too great, even they can't feed themselves, what is good for the other half? Every day when they open their eyes and close their eyes to work, people put most of their energy into rent, rice, oil and salt trivia, and they only want to make up for their free time when they don't go to work, and they don't want anyone to intrude into their lives.
Of course, there are still some people who simply do not want to get married, they think that a person's living conditions are very good, but due to the urging of their families, they can only temporarily accept the family's arrangements to go on a blind date. Such people are not so yearning for married life, on the contrary, they are also full of rejection, believing that marriage is the graveyard of love, and after marriage, they have to take care of the family and face messy little things, in case there is a contradiction between the husband and wife, the family atmosphere will also be affected. At that time, while facing the pressure of work, you also have to deal with family problems, which is really easy to catch people off guard.
And the negative information about marriage and family on the Internet has also made many young people panic, so how many "bachelors" are there in China? Under the new adjustment, you don't have to worry about getting married. According to the survey in 2018, there were more than 200 million single people in China, and the number of people living alone reached more than 70 million. Seeing this, people can't help but wonder: Is single life really so good? Why are there more and more late marriages? In terms of the ratio of men to women, the female population is more than 30 million fewer than the male population.
In terms of subdivision, there is a big difference in age among so many single men, from children to the elderly, and not all of them are of marriageable age. And some domestic men choose to marry foreigners, or simply not to marry, in short, the gap between men and women is not as exaggerated as we think. Excluding this factor, we may wish to look at the problems within the family, most women are reluctant to marry for a simple reason, that is, they are afraid that their life after marriage will be different from when they are in love, and even some will encounter domestic violence.
Unlike men, women bear the burden of having children, and if they become pregnant and have children during work, they will miss many rare opportunities, and some will face the risk of being dismissed. Losing a job, the child is too small, most women in this situation will choose to take care of the child first, wait for the child to be a little older and then go out to find a job, but really at that time will find that the job is too difficult to find, few companies are willing to hire. The cost of children is very large, the family relies on the father to work outside, the financial pressure is very high, and the quality of life will decline.
After saying that women come back to talk about men, their biggest headache is nothing more than the house and bride price when they get married, what is the price of the market needless to say that everyone knows, it is difficult for ordinary people to buy a house in full, basically it is a loan to pay a down payment, and then pay the corresponding loan every month. However, some families will also ask for full payment to buy a house, and do not want their daughters to marry and pay off the mortgage. This encounters a very real problem, after graduating from college and working for a few years, you can't save so much money to buy a house, and some high salaries can save enough for a down payment.
But without a house, there is no confidence to talk about marriage, in order to avoid unnecessary embarrassment, many young people put marriage behind their careers, and want to wait until they have economic strength. You should know that buying a house is almost enough to spend your savings, plus the bride price is really head-on. Originally, the meaning of the bride price was good, hoping to bring help and support to the new family, but some areas asked for a price, used the bride price as a tool to accumulate wealth, and did not agree to marry if they could not get out, which directly dissuaded young men.
Marriage should be a happy event, and the union of two families means that life has entered a new stage. In order to help everyone solve the problem of "marriage worries", the Civil Code also makes clear provisions that it is not allowed to buy and sell arranged marriages or interfere with the freedom of marriage, and it is not allowed to arbitrarily amass wealth in the name of marriage. Many men here are relieved to see that they will not miss the good fortune because of the sky-high bride price in the future. In order to better implement this policy, some regions have simply introduced relevant policies to restrict the maximum amount of the bride price, which is not allowed to exceed this range. As for the house price, the country is also paying attention, and is also using the corresponding means to regulate, I believe that it will not be long before the pressure to buy a house will be appropriately reduced, and it will become much easier to get married at that time, which is undoubtedly a good thing for those who want to get married and lack hard conditions, and everyone can also bravely pursue their own happiness.