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I once read such a passage: A lover who can walk for a lifetime may not have a vigorous love, nor may there be a moving mountain alliance and sea oath.
Perhaps in the process of getting along with each other, there are contradictions, quarrels, and depression and confusion. But so what? The more ordinary the companionship, the longer it is, and two people together is more important than anything, as long as they are happy and happy.
The really important thing in life is to find the same person as yourself.
He knows that you are not perfect, there are all kinds of small problems, and you know that he is not perfect, and there are many parts of his body that are difficult for him to accept.
But it doesn't matter, you love each other deeply, so you are willing to tolerate, willing to understand, considerate and tolerant.
The feelings between two people will also become deeper and more stable in the process of running into each other and forbearing.
In a truly good love, there may be no room for calculations and routines, but properly understanding some of the skills of getting along will make the feelings of two people better.
For most men, it has always been soft to eat hard.
If you can show weakness in three ways, becoming soft instead of hard, it is easier to firmly tie his heart, let him willingly spoil you, and hurt you.
A man always needs to be recognized in front of his beloved woman, and he hopes that he can play the role of a hero and protect his beloved.
So at this time, the more you know how to show weakness, the easier it is for him to feel a sense of accomplishment, and thus the more he loves you.
Some time ago, there was a news on the Internet that when a girl was at the security checkpoint of the subway station, she had an unopened bottle of drink in her hand, and she had to open it and drink it as required to pass the security check.
But the girl couldn't unscrew the cap, and after thinking about it, the girl decided to call her boyfriend and ask him to take a taxi from the other side of the city to help her unscrew the cap.
Maybe she feels that finding a boyfriend when she needs help can enhance the feelings between each other, so that the love that is needed by each other is more flavorful.
Of course, in this news, the girl's behavior may not be appropriate, and many people will think that she is too pretentious.
But from this incident, we can see how much this girl loves his boyfriend and relies on her boyfriend, and how much her boyfriend loves her and accommodates her.
From this incident, it is not difficult to infer that in daily life, she must be a bird-dependent woman, relying on the person who loves her in everything.
Women know how to show weakness in daily life, which will make men feel sorry for you and cherish you more, and the weakness at this time is a rare wisdom.
In front of outsiders, no matter how strong a woman lives, in front of the man she likes, she can put away her thorns and become soft.
There is always someone who will let you off your disguise, let down your guard, and be yourself relaxed and comfortable.
The actor big s has a very famous shrimp eating remarks: women eat shrimp, must let men peel it.
This is also a need and dependence, in her opinion: I am not unable to peel shrimp, but I need you, I just want you to peel for me. I love you, so I am willing to be in front of you and let you spoil me as a child, and I am willing to trust you with all my heart and rely on you.
The dependence that women show in front of you is actually a kind of interest and a kind of temptation.
If you don't find the meaning behind this move and directly reject their requests, then you can't blame others for missing this love that originally belonged to you.
There are no two identical leaves in the world, and naturally there are no two people who are exactly the same, so no matter how much two people love each other, when they get along, they will always encounter all kinds of contradictions.
At this time, if two people are in a state of cold war, the side that knows how to show weakness is not losing, but indirectly expressing: you are more important in my heart than the emotions of the moment.
For women, if they have a fight with their boyfriend or have a cold war, they may as well deliberately create something to let him help.
For example, accidentally breaking a cup, such as pretending to be burned when cooking, etc., these can be a good way to resolve the contradiction, because he will quickly come back when he hears the noise.
Because it hurts you, it will no longer bear to blame you, and the cold war between you will naturally ease.
Some women live too hard, do not know how to show weakness, do not know that Ezro kegang for men, has an extraordinary role.
They like women to show their soft side and gentle side in front of themselves, because this will arouse the deep desire to protect themselves and lead to more pity for women.
If you can solve everything on your own, the man may feel useless, and even feel that you don't need him, then he will not dare to love anymore.
It may only take a moment for a man and a woman to fall in love, but it takes a lifetime to manage feelings.
As long as you know how to operate and master certain skills, you can make the relationship between each other better and better, more and more intimate.
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