I believe that everyone wants to be the most popular one in the crowd. We all expect to have a good interpersonal relationship and be able to navigate interpersonal communication with ease. We all hope to have a good relationship in the circle of our lives, and get help from noble people when we encounter problems. So, do you know what to do to get good people? Do you know how to make people feel good about you? The following set of diagrams will give you a support.
If you find someone in the crowd with a low sense of presence and is not noticed by others, then you should give him more attention. Your small act can make the other party feel valued, respected, and then grateful to you. Other people around you will take care of other people's feelings when they see you like this, and they will also feel good about you.
If you want others to impress you and feel good, then quietly remember each other's preferences, give each other a total surprise at the right time, he will definitely remember it for a lifetime.
If someone else sends you something, be sure to treat it with care, don't just throw it aside. As the saying goes, etiquette is light and affectionate, no matter what others send, it is a heart. Your attitude towards a gift is your attitude toward its owner. Treating a person with heart will get the same response.
Take the initiative to serve others. If a person can always have the awareness of thinking about others, it can be reflected in many details. For example, when passing the door, help the people behind the door, such as taking the initiative to give way to others, taking the initiative to help others press the elevator, and so on. It is these small movements that make people warmer.
No loud noises in public. Not to bring harassment to others, this is respect for others. Especially in public places, lowering the volume when talking and doing things will not affect the people around you. Do this small detail well, and you will be kind to you.
When eating out, if there is food scraps, be sure to receive them on your own plate at the end of the day, and don't casually remain on the table. This is a personal cultivation, but also a manifestation of thinking about others.
Don't laugh at anyone. This is the minimum respect for others. Even if you see someone ridiculing or ridiculing others, you must find a way to change the topic and resolve the embarrassment and embarrassment for others. If you do, you will definitely get the respect and gratitude of the other party.
Learn to say "thank you". It doesn't matter how big or small the help someone else gives you. As long as others help you, thank them in time and think of returning in time. The so-called Zhi En Tu Bao is to always have a grateful heart, so that such a person can gain the favor of others.
In the face of the fruits of other people's labor, we must sincerely praise and respect. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. After seeing the fruits of other people's labor, whether you really like it or not, you must also respect the efforts of others. Don't show any disdain or dissatisfaction. Respect for others can be exchanged for the respect of others for you.