Among all the women who marry into the rich, Guo Jingjing is definitely the most confident one, and also the happiest one.
When it comes to happiness, Guo Jingjing has a mother-in-law who respects her incomparably, and a husband who spoils her incomparably. Coupled with two lovely daughters and a smart son, this is simply the best match in life.
Speaking of confidence, Guo Jingjing is an Olympic champion who is said to be highly climbed. In 2021, she was invited to be the sanctioner of the Tokyo Olympics, in short, the judges of the judges.
Due to the epidemic, Guo Jingjing went to participate in the Olympic Games, and Huo Qigang was particularly nervous, not only prepared a whole box of epidemic prevention supplies for her, but also laughed at herself as "driver Aho".
Looking back on when she fell in love, Guo Jingjing was still shy like a little girl, and even when she mentioned her husband, she was full of admiration and admiration.
Many people say that Guo Jingjing has a good life, a simple face, so that she escaped the fight of the giants.
However, the truth is not so simple. Smart people have long seen through Guo Jingjing's "heroic plan" from a few details.
Guo Jingjing's fate is never a matter of heaven rewarding food, but her wisdom has decided.
So what exactly did Guo Jingjing rely on to conquer the rich family, and have been married for many years, still loving Huo Qigang like honey?
1
Do not deliberately pursue material satisfaction
If you want to develop a long-term stable relationship, you must not show too strong material desires.
However, some friends may think when they see this:
"Does this mean that if I get involved with good men, I will become pure-hearted and not want anything?"
How is that possible? Is Guo Jingjing pure in her heart?
In 2020, Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing's mother and son lived together in a seaside mansion worth 150 million yuan in Repulse Bay, and if Guo Jingjing really did not care about fame and fortune, she should continue to insist on living in the pigeon cage in the city.
But Guo Jingjing will use a 5-hair head rope in daily life, carry a hundred yuan bag, and usually dress plainly.
Moreover, she will also look for children's clothes at roadside stalls, and even buy shoes for children, which is only more than 100 yuan, and the proper "my family also has" style.
Huo Qigang spoiled Guo Jingjing even more because of her thriftiness. He will prepare birthday cakes and jewelry for Jingjing on Guo Jingjing's birthday.
Therefore, Guo Jingjing can be described as extremely smart. She shows nothing material, but she can make her husband willing to pay for her. That's what smart women do.
2
Be mentally independent and insist on being yourself
The smartest woman is to show dependence in front of men, but to maintain their mental independence and to hold the two just right.
After Guo Jingjing retired, everyone was waiting for her and Huo Qigang's lavish wedding, but she went to England alone to learn English. For this choice, Jingjing explains:
"In the past, when I was on the diving team, I had someone to take care of my food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and I never even had to worry about being late for training, because then someone would come and wake me up, and I didn't want to be taken care of like this for the rest of my life."
So after retiring from the army, what I most desire is to learn to live independently and get married without rush. ”
After returning from studying in the UK, Guo Jingjing entered the School of Business Administration of Chinese University to study business administration, and Guo Jingjing explained:
"Having been an athlete for too long, disconnected from society, with so much to learn, I have a sense of urgency and often feel that I don't have enough time."
Huo Qigang couldn't stop praising:
"Jingjing is like a treasure to me, at first I liked her strength, calmness and champion aura, but after so long together, I can still find something new in her that moves me." 」
This girl has been pursuing the improvement of her life like a champion, and has never slackened off and given up. This kind of enterprising will make the men who stay by her side, with appreciation and respect, not willing to leave.
It is easier to make a man fall in love with himself, let a man have appreciation and respect for you, this love, can be regarded as implemented into the soil, with the possibility of rooting results.