Someone on the Internet asked: Is it possible for you to sleep with your good friends? Someone below replied: I didn't control it tonight... There was no pandering, no rejection, not even any sense of alienation.
The clichéd "Can you still be friends after a breakup?" ”
Some people are willing to choose to continue to be friends, thinking that not separating is a comfort to each other's feelings, just to accompany each other in another identity and way, perhaps it is not a choice.
Others, they think that the people who break up as friends are all decent guys, either the two have never loved, or they are too deep in their hearts to leave room for both parties.
Therefore, I think that unless it is two people who do not really love each other, if they have really loved, how can they withstand the test of the relationship of friends?
Each other, who once entered the body and said vows of love to each other, after separation, it is difficult to be friends again.
"If you have really loved someone, even if it is a moment of passing by, a moment of seeing each other, how can you not be soft and nostalgic, afraid that if you look at it again, you will want to have it again." 」
The person who is moved for the first time will inevitably easily make your heart move again;
How can someone who has met for the rest of his life say that if he doesn't love, he won't love?
As the saying goes, people are not grass and trees, it is difficult to be affectionate, and it is most difficult to think clearly.
Talking about breaking up does not make the heart agree; when will the urge to love stop when you are friends again?
Past memories, unforgettable, people who have truly loved, how can they willingly withdraw from the scene.
In the name of friends, they are meticulous and continuous, but they are just tacit disconnections between the two sides.
But there is no way back in life, since after all, people who can't go together, why wait and torture each other.
"I thought that love could fill the regrets of life, but what made more regrets was love." 」 Zhang Ailing said
The words love and love are too entangled, incomprehensible, and let people drag mud and water, and disperse endlessly.
Those who are unwilling are nothing more than wanting to return to their friends, and it is much more painful than not having a single contact.
It was also said that friendship is better than love.
But I don't know how people who are in the same boat are willing to eat and be discouraged again; how they have been loved selflessly, and how they are not selfish.
When you retreat from a lover to a friend, that's why it all changes.
Can't do things, can't say things; sad can't tell each other, happy no one shares happiness.
Hoping to go back in time, I suddenly found myself disqualified: disqualified.
Water can become ice, and ice can turn water.
The wheat straw in the field is reincarnated year after year, and the spring breeze blows and grows again; but feelings, compared to anything in the world, there is no cycle, no reciprocation, and there is no more going.
Friendship can slowly develop and become love, but love cannot become friendship, because the happiness and sadness of being together are deeply engraved and cannot be erased.
So, either be a lover for a lifetime, or go back to a stranger.
Besides, there is no other way.
As Hu Shi wrote in Dreams and Poems:
"Drunk Fang knows the wine, loves the Party knows the weight; you can't do my poetry, just as I can't do your dreams."
Some are destined to part ways at unknown forks in the road.
Some love is destined to be only a flash in the pan, and the residual flowers are gone, and they eventually need to end the curtain.
It's not that love is not deep, but fate is so bad that you can't ask for it.
If there are still some people who are still clinging to it, they should try to be sober.
The adult world is ultimately responsible for its own decisions.
If you love, you will love vigorously, if you break up, don't be afraid, don't be greedy.
The sky is high and the sea is wide, and from now on soberly, it will not fall, and it will not be forced to be gentle.
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