Women get together for three sentences can not be separated from the child, novice mothers will complain that the child is too difficult to bring, after the child goes to school, the woman will blame the child for playing too heavy, the child goes to middle school after the woman is worried about the child's early love, the child reaches the age of marriage The woman begins to run for the child's marriage event...
In the process of the child's growth, women pay a huge price, children become better and better, women become more and more haggard, it is no exaggeration to say that women have broken their hearts for children.
A child is still like this, the situation of the second-child family is more serious, women have to take out twice or even twice as much energy and physical strength to take care of the child, even if they are bitter and tired, they have to grit their teeth and brace, and their state is described as "painful and happy".
Nowadays, the three-child policy has been liberalized, and there are few families who dare to challenge the three-child policy. The second child has driven women crazy, and not many women are willing to experience the feeling of being in a state of chaos and sleeping again.
Yesterday I saw a video of a 28-year-old woman who has given birth to 6 children in 9 years, she wants to continue to have 7 children, she said: "As long as you work hard, are you afraid of not being able to afford to have children?" "Her bravery and pride are amazing.
This woman lives in Shantou, Guangdong Province, and she is slim and very beautiful. She is 28 years old, some of her age are not married, some have just married and have children, she is different from others, she has given birth to 6 children, she has exceeded her fertility goals, in this regard she dumped her peers a few streets.
As for why she had so many children, she explained: "My father-in-law likes boys, but I give birth to girls, and I only give birth to boys in the fifth child." Now my father-in-law thinks there are too few boys, and he asked me to have another boy. ”
She is an obedient and filial daughter-in-law, and most of her time after marriage is spent on pregnancy and childbirth, so let's take a look at her schedule for having children.
She gave birth to her eldest daughter at the age of 20, her second daughter at the age of 22, and her third daughter at the age of 24, by which time she had already given birth to three children, and it would be inappropriate to continue having children because it was not in line with national policy and it would take a lot of time and money to raise more children at the same time.
She did not go the usual way, she chose to continue to have children, her goal is to have a son. At the age of 25 she gave birth to a daughter again, she was not discouraged, she continued to work hard, and at the age of 27 she gave birth to a boy as she wished.
Her wish finally came true, and it was supposed that she should take it over and raise the child well, but she obeyed her father-in-law's wishes, and she wanted to have another son. She gave birth to a daughter again at the age of 28, and now that she has not given up on having a son, she intends to recuperate and strive to achieve the goal of having another son as soon as possible.
She had given birth to so many children, the burden and pressure on her must have been great, she did not take it seriously, she said: "What are you doing with all this idleness?" As long as I try to earn money, am I still afraid that I can't afford it? ”
She runs a delicatessen, she does business with her children, she makes money with her children, she arranges her time well, and she does a good job of this.
She showed her booth to netizens, and she proudly said: "I work hard to make money and feed a group of children, I did not use children to sell miserably to attract attention and win traffic, I am very competent as a mother." She teased: "I dare to give birth, do you dare?" ”
This video has attracted the attention of many netizens, it is a rare thing for her to have so many children, and she has said that raising children and bringing children are so light,Which is even more curious.
In the video she shares the children's daily routine. The children gobbled up and did not give in to each other when they ate, and the home was like a kindergarten; the children sat in a row while watching TV, which was a rare quiet moment in the family.
Usually, she would dance with a large group of children, and the seven mothers and sons danced to the music, and they moved neatly and in unison, looking very joyful.
Netizens have left messages after seeing this video, and some people have expressed shock: "Oh my God, how to have so many children, one a year, is the child so good to take?" ”
Someone encouraged her to continue to live: "It doesn't matter, you are only 28 years old, you have the conditions to regenerate!" ”
Another person said bluntly: "There is not even a decent piece of furniture in the house, and there is still a big talk there?" Ignorance is fine, live in your own world without trouble! ”
The ancients advocated "more children and more blessings", they believed that the more children in a family, the better, which not only means that the family is prosperous, lively and festive, but also good for the development and growth of the family.
This idea is long outdated, the pressure on parents with too many children is bound to increase, they have to sacrifice a lot of time to take care of their children, their ideals and ambitions are difficult to achieve, and they do not have time to enjoy life, which is very unfair to parents.
Moreover, the current education is gradually tending to be "elite" and "integrated", we have long accepted the saying that "do not let the child lose at the starting line", and parents spare no effort in the education and training of their children. Parents will report various tutoring classes to their children, so that children can receive various quality education and do their best to improve their children's comprehensive ability.
In this case, the "free-range" child will undoubtedly be left far behind, and the phenomenon of "cold door out of the noble son" may no longer exist.
The woman in the video has 6 children, she also plans to continue to give birth, she seems to live a comfortable life, the family is happy and happy, this is only the surface of the phenomenon.
She works hard, works hard to make money, she can only solve the problem of food and clothing for her children, she does not have the ability to provide good living conditions for her children, she does not have the ability to let her children receive a good education, she can only raise her children, but she can not "raise well", in a sense, this is irresponsible to children.
It is foreseeable that these children will find it difficult to make a difference when they grow up, and they are likely to repeat the mistakes of their parents, live at the bottom of society, give birth to a large number of children, and live a simple and mediocre life.
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