Good things and more grinding (essay miscellaneous)
(Works on the Seven Star Bridge)
Good things are grinding, which means that good things often go through many twists and turns before they are realized and succeeded. This phrase comes from Song Chao Duanli's "An Gongzi".
Good things are a lot of grinding, and later they also extend the meaning of words of encouragement and encouragement. For example, good things are more grinding, do not be discouraged.
For example, good things grind more, keep working hard!
The success of any good thing is not easy, full of twists and turns and difficulties.
If, in a team or group, you can enjoy the applause leisurely, enjoy the smooth sailing, enjoy the pleasure of "pointing fingers and feet", and enjoy the "childish words" of "willful attitude"! "That is your team or collective team, there are your companions, and then for you to brave the wind and snow for the team, charge into the front, difficult silently bear and pay, Fang Ying built a smooth situation, so that you have the pleasure of "pointing out the country", so that the team or collective cause strides meteors.
But if, as a result, you drift away and faint, and are irresponsible "gibberish," and continue to be wayward-style pleasure-style or "show off" style "gibberish!" Then, A popular phrase is advised: "Out of the mess, sooner or later it will be repaid!" ”
If, the development of the team or collective cause, there is a factor of your "nonsense and blind attitude", the development suffers from "shins", the cause suffers trauma, and the people's hearts suffer a certain dissatisfaction or scattering. What should you do?
Choosing to escape? No way!
Choosing to prevaricate? Who picks it up?
These two choices, one is impossible, the other is despised, and the third is not conducive to solving the problem.
The clever way to do this is:
The first is to be honest with your peers and gain understanding. Everyone knows, but just takes into account the face or friendship of his companions, and does not say it.
Then it is to take the initiative to discuss with the companions, how to deal with it properly, so as to achieve the help of the companions and go together.
The third is to actively move forward and take the initiative to deal with it.
Only in this way, the party is the right way to deal with the problem, the party is to win the avenue of understanding, and the party is the right way to make the team's cause continue to develop normally and smoothly.
Good things grind! Wrong, it doesn't matter, who can be right? Face it positively, deal with your ideas, and start all over again!
Good things grind, normal reason!
(On the Seven Star Bridge in November 2020, it was written as the Xiaoya Room of Ten Continents, selected from the article "Xiaoya Miscellaneous Talks".) Originality is not easy, please do not copy. ）