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Love in this world is actually very simple, if it is summed up in four words, it is "heartwarming".
When you look at a member of the opposite sex, then you want to "contact" him, walk with him to the temple of marriage, and work together for the rest of your life.
When you love someone in particular, then you want to hug him and talk to each other, and the two sides not only have physical contact, but also soothe each other spiritually.
In your opinion, when a pair of Bi people come into contact with each other, where will they first contact? That is the lips of man. That is to say, love to the depths of natural "kissing", which is the embodiment of deep love.
From the perspective of gender psychology, the reason why the opposite sex kisses between the opposite sex is because the lips are the most "seductive" place. When kissing, both men and women can feel each other's heartbeat and feel each other's love.
The lips, which appear thinner and more sensitive than the face. Just think, is it a feeling to kiss the face, or a feeling to kiss the lips? Needless to say, there must be a feeling of kissing the lips.
Psychologists have studied that when lovers kiss, the hormones of the two bodies will increase rapidly, which can quickly make people fall into the ocean of love.
How does a man and a woman feel when they kiss? Let's hear what these two couples have to say.
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Mr. and Mrs. Zhang: After ten years of marriage, I still have the habit of "kissing".
Mr. Zhang and Miss Li were college classmates and they married at the age of 27. After marriage, they are particularly affectionate and cherish the time they spend together.
In order to make the ordinary life more interesting, Miss Li told Mr. Zhang that she hoped that they could kiss every morning and evening to make the daily marriage more ritualistic.
After Mr. Zhang heard it, he actually blushed a little. In his opinion, they are all married, how can they still do what those little couples like to do? However, Mr. Zhang still agreed.
When getting up in the morning, the wife and husband usually come to a "good morning kiss", and the two sides encourage each other and say sweet words to each other to increase the enthusiasm for the day's work.
Even before going out, they would kiss each other so that they could feel their own temperature.
At night, after work, or before going to bed, they would also kiss and then hug each other tightly. At this time, their heartbeat will be faster, and even their breathing will be short.
In Mr. Zhang's view, when kissing, he can smell the fragrance of his wife's body, and at the same time, he will have a feeling of "possession" in his heart, and he only wants to completely occupy her, not only the body, but also the soul.
And Miss Li also feels that when kissing, although she is often pierced by her husband's beard, she still feels a certain sense of security, maybe this is love.
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Mr. and Mrs. Wang: Although people are middle-aged, they still have the habit of kissing.
In life, there is a saying that is widely circulated, middle-aged couples kiss a mouthful, nightmares can do a few nights.
After the middle-aged couple kisses, both men and women will feel particularly sick and want to throw up. why? Because of the bland marriage, they have less tolerance and more disgust.
However, there are always some middle-aged couples who can feel the same love after kissing.
Mr. Wang in the unit has a habit of kissing his wife every day. Although the two have been married for twenty years and the two sides have had many conflicts, they still insist on compromise and insist on living in harmony.
Whenever there is a problem, Mr. Wang and his wife will calmly come to talk. When the problems are almost solved, Mr. Wang will also take the initiative to kiss his wife and let her feel his sincerity.
Although the wife was a little shy, thinking that the old husband and wife were old and the wife was not very good, she still accepted Mr. Wang's approach. Moreover, she especially enjoyed the process of kissing.
Once, when my son came home from summer vacation, the scene of them kissing was seen by my son. And the son who is in college also feels that the relationship between his parents is too good, and he will be like his parents in the future.
In fact, the essence of kissing is to convey your own love and let the other party understand your thoughts.
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How do men and women feel when they kiss? In fact, it can be divided into three processes.
When the kiss first begins, both men and women feel particularly nervous, their hearts are pounding, their faces and ears are red, giving people a particularly shy feeling.
When kissing for ten seconds, the two will merge into a state of "selflessness", the man will develop a "sense of possession", and the woman will feel the husband's sense of security.
In the third stage, perhaps the two will also talk to each other, both sides will say their hearts, confess their behavior, completely be loyal to each other, and hide nothing.
Kissing seems to be a common act, but it is a conciliator of marriage. However, most people do not kiss after marriage, thinking that old husbands and wives do not need to do such a thing.
This is actually not true. Know that when you want to express your thoughts, in order to avoid the other person getting angry, we can kiss first and then confess.
Or, when the other person is angry with you and has a conflict with you, you can also kiss him and make him feel your sincerity. At this time, his qi was half gone.
Feelings, said complex is also complex, said simple is also simple. However, proper kissing may make your relationship last longer.
Wen/Shushan has deer