It took a movie time to watch a woman's life.
This feeling is a bit like a world away.
The movie that Uncle Fish wants to recommend today can be called a "civilian epic".
Putting it aside in the history of Chinese film, its status can be discussed together with "Alive".
But it's ten years before "Alive," and that's —
"I've Lived My Life Like This"
This classic film won four important awards at the Golden Horse Awards for Best Picture, Best Director, Best Actress and Best Adapted Screenplay.
It can be said that it is a crushing victory.
The director of the film, Zhang Yi, is very good at female themes.
In the three years from 1984 to 1986, he completed the "Women's Trilogy", "Yu Qing Sister-in-law", "I Lived My Life Like This" and "My Love".
The heroines of these three films are his wife, Yang Huishan.
Yang Huishan, a first-class actor with bright and smooth cards and outstanding acting skills.
Winner of two consecutive (21st and 22nd) Golden Horse Awards.
After the first time I took the film, it was with the "Little Fugitive" directed by Cai Mingliang.
Like the domestic drama "Peace Hotel" that was fired before, the main indoor drama of the enclosed space is the main one.
The contradictions of the family and the problems of society are all condensed in a small apartment.
The closed environment is a great challenge for the actor, the single environment, the relationship between people is suddenly complex and delicate.
How to accurately express it has become a difficult problem that will inevitably be faced.
But as the heroine, Yang Huishan's handling of the relationship and emotions of the characters is absolutely just right.
After the second time I took the film, it was Uncle Yu's "I Lived My Life Like This" today.
In this movie, the heroine she plays spans 30 years, and her grasp of the character has been meticulous to the change of posture.
Use the following two pictures to prove that from a young girl to a middle-aged, really fat a lot!
However, such a talented actress, shortly after taking two films in a row, resolutely stopped filming.
He quit the film and television circle with his husband and co-founded liuli workshop, filling the gap in modern glass art in China.
The Glass Workshop she founded is now one of the best de-wax casting studios in the world.
Her works are also exhibited in major museums around the world, giving a voice to traditional Chinese culture in the splendid glass world.
The Palace Museum also has a collection of her works.
So today, after the names of these two couples, there is also an important title, Glass Artist.
In "I Have Lived My Life Like This", the person who played against Yang Huishan was the Golden Bell Award Emperor, Li Liqun, who we are quite familiar with.
Remember the "East Sea Dragon King" in your childhood memories of the Eight Commandments of the Spring Splendid Pig?
The broadcast of "See words as Faces" allowed Li Liqun, who came from a stage drama background, to show off his line skills.
A letter of less than 300 words, "I know you don't go home to eat", as soon as Teacher Li Liqun opened his mouth, he made Uncle Yu burst into tears.
When Li Liqun starred in "I Lived My Life Like This", he was only in his early thirties.
Without those few familiar wrinkles, Uncle Yu really didn't dare to recognize it at first.
The movie is actually very good to summarize: a good wife and mother who gathers various traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and a life of hard work.
During the war, the heroine Guimei fled from Nanjing to Taiwan, and she was already engaged, unfortunately separated from her fiancé and could only live in her cousin's house temporarily.
But sending people to the fence is not a long-term solution after all, and after being introduced, she married a middle-aged man lao hou who had three children under his knees.
When she went on a blind date, Gui mei showed her first good quality: honesty.
Before confirming the relationship, she confessed to Lao Hou that she had a relationship with her fiancé, not for the first time, if she minded.
One of the things she said repeatedly was: I don't want to hide from you.
But such honesty is not a two-way street.
Lao Hou, who looked honest before marriage, claimed that "tobacco and alcohol are not sticking" and "occasionally playing cards".
In fact, life is inseparable from tobacco and alcohol, and gambling money is a big hobby of his, and even developed to work to gather people to gamble.
Finally, one day, Lao Hou was caught gambling money at work, lost his job, and completely transferred his position to the card field.
The more you gamble, the more you lose, the more you gamble, and you owe a bunch of debts.
He even put Guimei's dowry jewelry and the money for giving birth to a child all into it.
At this time, Guimei showed a second traditional female virtue: perseverance.
She has a big belly and takes the children to take some manual work to subsidize the family.
The life of not making ends meet made the husband have the idea of letting his eldest daughter drop out of school to become an apprentice.
How can this work?
So as soon as Guimei gave birth to a child (dragon and phoenix fetus), she was busy finding a way out and found a job for herself and her husband to go to Japan.
On the one hand, the salary is good; on the other hand, when he goes abroad, the husband has no place to gamble anymore.
But this job, you can only have two children, but there are five children in the family.
At this point, a third virtue emerges—fairness.
In fact, according to normal logic, it is reasonable to take the two of them with them.
A pair of twins who have just been born are exactly when they need mom and dad the most.
But Guimei chose to take her eldest son and one of the twins, because the eldest son was not admitted to junior high school and could continue to study in Japan, while Xiaoshuang was sick and needed to be taken care of.
The two couples followed a rich couple to Japan, Lao Hou worked as a driver for the man, and Gui Mei did some housekeeping work.
But this rich couple only has a superficial relationship, quarreling every day, and the chicken dog is restless all day long and hurts the maid.
Gui mei quit her job with her husband and went to work in a restaurant, which was a lot of hard work, but she was not idle.
During her time working in the restaurant, Gui mei learned a good cooking skill, and she always thought that she had saved enough money to return to Taiwan and open her own shop.
No matter how big or small, as long as you can rely on yourself, you can support yourself.
This is also the bottom line of Guimei as a person, no matter how bitter and tired, she has not received anyone's help, because in her heart: as long as you can still eat your own, you don't want others to leave.
And everything That Guimei planned really did.
Back in Taiwan, she opened a restaurant called "Xiafei Home", and her life got better and better.
But at this time, Lao Hou returned to his old ways and began to play cards.
Even more excessively, it also derailed.
This is something that no woman can tolerate, half a life, thrifty family, so many winds and rain have been carried, looking at the life is a little better, the husband went to find a woman.
Xiao San even came to the door with the child in her arms, and Gui Mei proposed a divorce this time.
But as soon as Guimei left, the whole family was scattered.
The family is in chaos, the rebellious eldest daughter accidentally became pregnant and ran away from home, and the younger son was burned again...
Lao Hou took the child and came to Guimei pitifully.
There were only two choices before her, either to forgive him, but a million unwilling in her heart.
Or leave, but bear with this family fragmented, what about the children?
At this time, Guimei chose to be patient, return to the family, and clean up a mess.
Year after year, day after day, Gui mei finally got old and finally became ill.
The husband finally stopped gambling and didn't look for a woman.
The children also grew up and lived a prosperous life.
But what is Left of Gui mei? When she has worked all her life and no longer has the strength to work, she should say goodbye to the world.
Yes, she lived her whole life like this.
A self-reliant, independent, tenacious, honest, fair, and patient... The perfect woman without any flaws in her body has lived her life like this.
Struggling to persevere throughout your life, the good ending is all left to others.
Uncle Yu once saw a public service advertisement, and it is no exaggeration to say that he was really angry to the point of headache.
In the advertisement, a very virtuous mother said to her son: When you are admitted to college, your mother will be blessed.
Later, when my son graduated, he said: When you work, your mother will be blessed.
When the son works, it becomes: When you are married and have children, your mother will be blessed.
Until I finally had a granddaughter, the granddaughter said: Grandma will let you enjoy happiness when I grow up.
Then, the great mother who had worked all her life fell ill, and the whole family woke up and began to reunite.
This sentence: Wait until... At that time, my mother was blessed, almost like a curse.
Waiting is happiness, and not waiting for TM is a lifelong regret.
Happiness or not depends on the person you have given your all for, the husband or the child, whether he will look back at you.
Why? Is it really a little cheaper to be a mother's life?
A woman's life shouldn't be like this.
The life of a woman with all kinds of good qualities should not be like this.
We often say that I understand all the truths, but I still can't live this life well.
But how many people, knowing all the truths, sticking to all the beliefs, using all their strength, looking back on their lives, are only barely strong.
Uncle Yu never hesitates to praise the beautiful and great qualities of traditional women.
Nor is it demanding of an ordinary person, making growth and rebellion beyond the times and the environment.
If you have the choice, please live for yourself.
Those rare qualities that you have in your body or cultivated the day after tomorrow, please use them on people and things that are truly worthwhile.
People live like this for a lifetime, why do they live like this?
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