In the eyes of many people, marriage is the graveyard of love, and once you step in, it is difficult to turn back. However, marriage is also the destination of love, and with marriage, love also has a sense of security and a sense of belonging.
However, the reality is that not everyone is married, and it is beautiful and sweet. Some people's marriages are really like a grave, and the taste is indescribable.
Marriage is like a grave because two people do not love, understand, and tolerate each other. Most of these marriages are about to be completed, and the two people in such marriages are tired and physically and mentally exhausted.
The marriage that will be done is really too tired, and some people say: "Anything can be done, only love cannot be done." "Yeah, it's a pain to think about all day long with someone who doesn't love themselves, or who they don't love.
The marriage that will be settled, perhaps between two people, has never had real feelings. Many people, because of the pressure of their parents, because they have reached the age of marriage, have found someone who may still be suitable for getting along with, and they havetily married.
But later, with the passage of time, the two people who originally had no feelings were even more cold. Although the two people are together every day, they are more lonely than living alone.
The marriage that will be completed may have been happy with each other, and the love was dead and alive, but with the passage of time, the feelings between each other also faded.
Many deep feelings have been defeated by reality, and the feelings of two people are not as strong as they think of each other. After that, although the two people are facing each other day by day, they no longer have the affection they had before. This kind of feeling is a kind of suffering, but also a kind of helplessness.
In the marriage that will be completed, although the two people are together, there is no collision and intersection of hearts. Two people, do not perceive each other's emotions, nor do they care about each other's mood. Between two people, what is missing is not only that affection, but also tolerance and understanding, care and concern.
Many times, the collapse of a relationship is not something big that has happened, but in the process of getting along, each other will be on the same page, wronged, unable to find a way out, and unable to find a way forward.
The marriage that will be on the line is really too tired, the kind of way you don't want to see me, I don't understand your relationship, for both people, it is an invisible harm.
Perhaps, some people will say, I know why I am today. But the reality is like this, everything in the future is uncertain, and two people who once loved each other will also go against each other for one reason or another, and gradually drift apart.
When love disappears, the marriage will only be left, but the marriage will be really too tired. This kind of will, the pressure of the two people are breathless; this kind of will, seemingly consolidating the marriage, but in fact will only make the cracks in the marriage increase.
Many times, although two people are still under the same roof, they are neither like husband and wife nor like family, but like strangers who are most familiar.
They tried to persevere, but found that the more they were ready, the more tired they became. Later, we finally understood that the original will only be temporarily maintained, and this marriage that is about to break will make us feel so uncomfortable.
From encounter, to acquaintance, to marriage, it is a rare fate. No matter what the original intention of the marriage was, since you chose marriage, since you chose the other party, you must be responsible for the other party.
Therefore, in a marriage, whether it is a man or a woman, it must be properly managed, and do not let a good marriage gradually become "will be".
There is a saying that goes like this: "Communication can solve eighty percent of the problems in the relationship." If this marriage still has room to turn around, it is better to communicate well and try to change; if it is really difficult to love deeply, let it go, because the marriage that will be done is really too tired.