He was unfortunate to lose his arms at a young age, and he was crippled and persevered, and he lived an ordinary life with his own perseverance; he did not have hands, but raised his children with his own feet; he was born unfortunate, but he worked hard to live extraordinary; he was a great father.
Tell the story of the people, taste the taste of life, this issue of the child's child fun we ordinary people, just tell the story of this "strongest father" - Wang Gang.
(1) The mother died of illness and the father suffered from cancer
In 1986, Wang Gang was born in an ordinary rural area in Tieling City, Liaoning Province, and was an authentic northeastern boy. When he was 13 years old, he went out to play with his friends, but was tragically shocked by an electric shock accident, and eventually lost both arms and became disabled.
For such a small Wang Gang, he simply could not accept this cruel fact, and he no longer had arms.
At first, he was in a low mood every day, his life was muddy, and he even thought about his life.
After a long time, he was better off alive than dead, after going through ups and downs, looking at his parents who cared about him like that, he didn't want to live like this for years, he didn't want to give up on himself, he regained the confidence of life and wanted to live a normal life.
Since then, Wang Gang has insisted on exercising every day. In order to adapt to his new life, he began to learn to walk.
In order to learn to walk, Wang Gang often fell and fell, and under his continuous practice, he was finally able to grasp the balance and began to walk smoothly.
After two years of experience, Wang Gang can finally use his feet flexibly, use his feet as hands, realize self-care, and help the family to do some simple housework.
Not only that, but he also gained his true love by relying on his optimistic attitude.
In 2013, his mother unfortunately died of illness, which made Wang Gang grief-stricken. In the spring of 2015, Wang Gang, who had just come out of the grief of losing his mother, learned that his father had advanced lung cancer.
Successive bad news hit Wang Gang hard, and his mood was always very low. In the eyes of outsiders, he is an extremely strong person, and he rarely goes to his relatives and friends to talk about his suffering.
At that time, because of his extreme depression, Wang Gang confided in netizens on the Internet and met his current lover, He Xiaoman.
He Xiaoman was four years older than Wang Gang, and during the first chat, He Xiaoman noticed Wang Gang's head: a man without arms with an incomparably bright smile on his face.
(ii) Pretending to be one's girlfriend, or even pretending to be married
At that time, He Xiaoman was under a lot of pressure, and when she saw this avatar, she did not understand why people without arms could live so happily. Curious, she tried to make contact with Wang Gang.
Later, they confided in each other about their troubles in life on WeChat, and gradually became good friends who did not say anything. After chatting on WeChat for more than a month, Wang Gang made a request to Meet He Xiaoman, and that request was very special.
Because Wang Gang's father did not have much time left, his father could not let go of him, afraid that he would be lonely and lonely in the future.
In order to let his father leave with peace of mind, Wang Gang asked He Xiaoman to let her pretend to be his girlfriend, or even fake marriage.
He Xiaoman accepted Wang Gang's request without scruples, and through chatting on WeChat for more than a month, she believed in her heart that Wang Gang was an honest man.
In her opinion, Wang Gang made such a request to herself because of filial piety. So, she was very supportive of this request and was willing to carry out this white lie with him.
Later, He Xiaoman followed Wang Gang home, and at home, she saw Wang Gang's father, who was sitting on the kang with a very haggard face.
Wang Gang's father saw He Xiaoman with such sound limbs and good looks, and he did not believe that she could look at his disabled son without arms.
In order to reassure his father and reassure him, Wang Gang persuaded He Xiaoman to hide from everyone and hold a simple fake wedding.
Because Wang Gang had no savings, they did not have a grand wedding, but only invited the villagers from the nearby townships to their homes to eat a feast. They also went out of their way to take wedding photos to make the marriage look real.
The money for the wedding photos was borrowed by Wang Gang from his uncle, because their family was very popular in the village, and the villagers in the township always provided their help to them without hesitation, never counting the returns.
(c) A wife worthy of reliability, in the substantive sense
Just a few days after the wedding, Wang Gang's father died. When his father was lying on the bed, Wang Gang asked him if he had any unfinished wishes, and he smiled and said no.
Although He Xiaoman was the wife of Wang Gang in form, he still sent away his father with Wang Gang. Before he died, his father held He Xiaoman's hand tightly and asked her to take good care of Wang Gang in the future.
At that time, He Xiaoman only had some good feelings for Wang Gang, but he did not want to marry him until he was old. He Xiaoman had never paid attention to the matter of fake marriage with Wang Gang, she just wanted to help Wang Gangyuan with a white lie.
With the deepening of her understanding, He Xiaoman saw That Wang Gang took care of his father's affairs, and everything was handled in an orderly manner, and she felt that Wang Gang was really a man worth relying on.
Later, He Xiaoman really became Wang Gang's wife in the real sense, and the two began to live a sweet married life.
At the end of 2015, He Xiaoman took Wang Gang to meet his family. After the family members learned about Wang Gang's situation, they all tried to persuade her not to be confused.
He Xiaoman has never wavered in her determination to live with Wang Gang, and she firmly believes that Wang Gang is trustworthy.
Outsiders joked that they couldn't afford a bride price when they got married, but He Xiaoman didn't care. She feels that although the bride price is important, people are more important, and it is more meaningful to struggle together to earn money.
In September 2018, Wang Gang and He Xiaoman had a child, named Meat Meat. The birth of meat and flesh has brought them the dawn of happiness, but it has also increased the burden of their lives.
As a father, although Wang Gang does not have a solid arm to give his children a warm hug, he is always trying to give his family the greatest care in the way he can.
He said so; he wasn't a good dad, but he would be a hard working dad. The great radiance of fatherly love emanating from Wang Gang's body has given strength to countless people.
(4) Physical disabilities have repeatedly hit a wall
Although Wang Gang did not have arms, his feet were very flexible. Make three meals a day for your children, wash your children's clothes and bathe, play with your children... He did these things no worse than normal people.
In Wang Gang's heart, there is nothing in the world that cannot be done. If something is difficult for him and someone else is able to complete it in one day, he will patiently spend two days to complete it.
Later, He Xiaoman's father accidentally injured his hand while working, and his mother suffered from an illness, so He Xiaoman could only go home to take care of the elderly.
After He Xiaoman returned to his mother's house, he could only return home once in half a month, and there were only two people left in the family, Wang Gang and Meat.
The task of taking care of small meat is all on Wang Gang, and taking care of children is not simple for normal people, let alone disabled people, but Wang Gang has a skill that is different from ordinary people.
Because of the family life, the child was weaned from an early age, and Wang Gang would cook meals for the child, occasionally make a steamed egg, and then feed his son with his feet.
In the summer, Wang Gang was naked, straddled his shoulders, put his son in his belly pocket, and led him around playing. Although he didn't have arms, he never hid it.
Ordinary small things such as eating, dressing, and holding children will be very simple for an ordinary person, but it is extremely difficult for Wang Gang without arms.
In order to be able to do things with his feet, Wang Gang practiced day and night every day, and sometimes when he didn't do well, he would hide and cry. Thanks to his tireless efforts, he was able to make his feet as flexible as his hands.
Today, Wang Gang's parents have long passed away, and the only relatives in the world are his sister. My sister was far away from him, far away from him, and she couldn't take care of him normally.
Therefore, no matter how miserable Wang Gang's life is, he will not contact his sister, does not want to add any trouble to his sister, and will try his best to solve things when he encounters them.
Wang Gang had also been trying to find a job for some time, but his physical disability repeatedly hit a wall, and he was unwilling to accept him without a job.
Although he was frustrated in his career, he never wanted to give up. He didn't want to have to rely on others for the rest of his life.
He thought about buying two cows, taking care of the children while raising cattle, and trying to run a good life. Wang Gang just wants to be a hard-working dad and give his children a good example.
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