As soon as the little daughter left the school, her face was a little depressed, not as happy as usual. Walking past the fragrant roadside stall, I stopped deliberately and asked her in a soft voice what she wanted to eat? The little daughter glanced lazily and casually, shook her head sheepishly, and pulled me away. I can't help but wonder, did this little girl do something wrong? Or did you fail the quiz? After all, the little adult who is almost ten years old seems to have more and more self-esteem and self-love, and some sensitive issues are not easy to talk about. The brain is running fast and involuntarily, hoping to come up with a good idea.
The two men had no suitable topic for a while, so they had to walk along the leaf-covered streets in a sullen manner. The sound of withered yellow leaves crumbling under the feet is like an elegy of late autumn. The cold wind was fierce, blowing vibrato over the ends of the hair, setting off a fierce wave. Pedestrians, all of them shrank their necks and shrugged their shoulders, had no time to stop, and drifted away like tumbling blades.
The daughter who has always been lively and lovely is like a very depressed twilight autumn, without a little vivid feeling, teaching people to be lively. At the corner of an intersection, she finally stopped, and a pair of small eyes stared at me fixedly: "Dad, I didn't rate this week's star of the week." ”
Her face was filled with disappointment, obviously depressed. I know that my daughter has strong self-esteem and has a strong sense of not accepting defeat in her studies. She is very strict with all aspects of herself, no matter how big or small, she will strive to be the best! In this way, she has inherited my attitude when I was studying, which has always made me feel very pleased. Of course, the little daughter has always been the pride of our royal family! With this kind of thinking, it is inevitable that she will be better at eating, wearing and having fun, which is a disguised support for her faster and better learning!
The daughter then said the reason for the failure: "This semester's star of the week, the best performing 2 per week, it is already the fifth week, I have never been selected, almost all the ones that are pleasing to the teacher, because they are studying in the training school recommended by the teacher." ”
I know this, my daughter has been clamoring to study in the places recommended by the teachers. However, there is no way, the daughter has chosen two specialties of dancing calligraphy in the place where acquaintances near the community, and has studied for two years, which is quite progressive, and it is certainly laborious to change the door. So we never considered changing places. I didn't expect that there would be unexpected things without changing places.
I had to calmly say to my daughter, "Maybe you're wrong, maybe you're not as good as them." This analysis daughter could not accept, she tried to refute that she did not think wrong, and her performance was certainly not worse than theirs. Seeing my daughter's aggrieved look, I had to pat her small shoulder and comfort her: "It doesn't matter if you don't get it, not getting the star of the week doesn't prove that you are not excellent." If you do a good job in learning and learning your strengths well, teachers and classmates will not fail to see and will not fail to recognize your excellence. ”
The daughter was still muttering, sullen.
It is no wonder that the eyes of a child see the nature of a simple surface, and the brain thinks of course only the appearance of things. Those hidden behind the twists and turns, complex social relationships and right and wrong. Where can they understand it?
Thinking of this, I can't help but be surprised, after all, along the way, I have eaten the painful toss of right and wrong. On closer examination, it is nothing more than a personality that is not easy to bend, and the other is not easy to understand and has no heart to speculate about the reasons and relationships behind those.
Looking at my daughter, I smiled bitterly in my heart and told her softly: "You remember, this world, whether in school or in society later, will not be absolutely fair." It doesn't matter, as long as you study well, have strengths, and have high skills, unfairness will become fair. Believe Dad's words and study hard! That's right. ”
The daughter nodded as if she understood and stopped speaking.
Only the cold wind, like a gust, roared through the street, carrying away a number of yellowed leaves...