Some time ago, Liu Xuehua, who was known as the most beautiful Qiong girl, was exposed to living alone for ten years, staying at home all day, accompanied by two dogs, that is, television sets.
From the beginning of his debut, Liu Xuehua, who has a good appearance and superb acting skills, has continued to be filmed.
The earlier role was in the Shaw film heroine, a "Young Girl Cixi" let her get acquainted with Qiong Yao, filmed "Several Degrees of Sunset Red", and has since become a "Qiong Girl", playing many tragic heroines.
Her crying drama is even more unique, and she is called "the Queen of Tears" by Qiong Yao.
On November 3, Liu Xuehua was interviewed by Taiwan media, telling her about her mental journey and plans for the future.
She confessed: The older you get, the more you know what you don't want, and everything depends on fate.
She also said that in the past ten years, she has never gone to pay tribute to her deceased husband, and in the future she will go to a nursing home alone, because she is afraid that if she lives alone and faints at home, no one will know.
Looking back on Liu Xuehua's life, in short, it is eight words: the love road is bumpy, and the evening scene is desolate.
Three relationships, none of which have good results.
The first relationship is with actor Zhang Peihua because of the drama, but within a few years, the two broke up peacefully.
The second relationship is Liu Dekai.
The two also met because of the filming of "Love in the Wind", when Liu Dekai was married and had three children with his wife.
Liu Dekai took the initiative to launch a passionate pursuit of Liu Xuehua, and the two were divided and merged, until Liu Dekai completed the divorce, and the two officially announced their love.
In 1997, the 38-year-old Liu Xuehua had a child of Dekai Liu, and thought that the two could smoothly enter the palace of marriage, but Liu Dekai proposed to break up at this time.
Because Liu Dekai fell in love with a French woman again.
Liu Xuehua was difficult to accept, emotional, accidentally fell and miscarried, and later became infertile for life.
Two years later, Liu Xuehua, who gradually came out of her love wounds, married deng Yukun, a 53-year-old screenwriter, which is also her third relationship.
Life after marriage is peaceful and happy, and her husband is very considerate of her and takes good care of her.
I just didn't expect that the critical blow of fate once again struck Liu Xuehua.
In 2011, her husband fell to his death.
This year, Liu Xuehua was 52 years old.
More than half a hundred years old, she has experienced all the ups and downs one by one, and she chose to live alone.
She lives alone in a three-bedroom apartment in Shanghai, cooking and housework with aunts, going out with a car and a driver, and being accompanied by two pet dogs when she is at home, and the TV is played 24 hours a day, the purpose is to make the home not too quiet and lively.
At the age of 62, she decided to go to a nursing home in a few years, because she was very old, and she was particularly afraid of fainting at home alone, and no one knew.
Many people regret for her, as a former top traffic actor, Liu Xuehua should have a better ending: there is a lover to accompany, children around the knee, family warmth, and happy evening scenes.
In fact, through Liu Xuehua's life, I especially want to give a wake-up call to forty-year-old women.
If you're already forty years old, do these three things early.
Some people say that Liu Xuehua's evening scenery is too bleak, in fact, in addition to loneliness, her life is still very rich.
After all, a person lives in a big house, has a nanny and a driver, and asks a few 60-year-old ladies to have such treatment?
So, if you're forty years old now, make more money and save more money to ensure a decent life in ten or twenty years.
Forty-year-old women, old and young, every day to open their eyes is a matter of spending money, how easy is it to save more money?
Moreover, in addition to making money, women at this age also have to worry about many things: marriage and the relationship with their other half, their own work, parents and children, the rapidly passing youth, and the troubles of early change.
And so on.
It's hard to make easy money and save more.
Even so, we have to overcome difficulties and work harder at work, after all, the boss gives more money than the husband gives.
Learn some financial planning, do not spend money indiscriminately, spend money on the blade, and learn to use the remaining money to generate income.
As your deposit numbers get bigger and bigger, you'll find that a lot of the things that bother you can be solved.
Actress Yang Mi was once asked by Venus: If you want to buy a house for your parents, do you need to discuss with your husband? ”
Yang Mi replied domineeringly: "No, because I can afford it."
Make money on your own, make more money, because for the rest of your life, all your decent life is given by money.
The reason why Liu Xuehua considered going to a nursing home after a few years is that he is afraid that he will not be cared for when he is sick.
The medical conditions of nursing homes are more suitable for the elderly.
People to forty, life is half a slope.
Forty-year-olds, both in energy and physical strength, clearly feel inferior.
This is especially true for women.
Many women feel that although they are over thirty years old and begin to clamor for old age, the real aging is cliff-like, almost most people feel that once they are forty years old, the tail of youth can no longer be seen.
Regardless of the maintenance, the years are always traces that can be reflected in the corners and corners of the body.
Aging is a natural law, there is no need to be overly anxious, we need to pay more attention to physical health.
Forty-year-old women, the most stressful, dare not slack off at work, the family has to stand up to half the sky, big and small things have to worry, health is easy to light up red lights.
When I fell ill, I realized that everything was a floating cloud.
A month's salary may not be enough for a night's iCU.
Being poor due to illness is not a joke.
Only with a good body can there be a good life.
Be kind to yourself, don't put too much pressure on yourself, eat, drink, and exercise every day, when your body is full of vitality, the future can only be expected.
As an actress of the same era, Liu Xuehua is often compared with Lin Qingxia.
Indeed, both were once very popular.
But in her later years, it seems that Lin Qingxia is more satisfied than Liu Xuehua.
Lin Qingxia has three daughters, and the children are very filial and often accompany Lin Qingxia.
Lin Qingxia herself likes to read and has published three books.
In contrast, Liu Xuehua was alone, childless and childless. She doesn't have any social activities, basically stays at home, in her own words, is a person who is completely out of touch with the times.
But I think this is just a difference in lifestyle, and Liu Xuehua's mentality is still good.
As she said in an interview with the media, everything goes with the flow and lives in the moment.
Without the joy of children and grandchildren, she lived peacefully and quietly alone.
As the old saying goes: forty is not confused.
People over forty years old must always be open-minded, and I am fortunate not to be killed, that's all.
We can accept old looks, but we can't be sloppy women.
Always choose the most appropriate and beautiful clothes for yourself when you go out, paint a light makeup, spray some perfume, step on a pair of high heels, and take the most elegant steps.
Age is a number, you care too much, you live a boring life.
Calm your mind, accept the gifts of the years, and calmly appreciate yourself in the moment.
If you are at the low point of life, you will recuperate and wait for the hair to flourish.
If you are at the peak of the mountain, you will be obscure and low-key and introverted.
Cultivate a strong heart, the waves are not alarming, the wind and rain are not afraid.
As long as you don't fall, no one can knock you down.
Life is short, and some truths cannot be understood too late.
If you are not confused, or are over 35 years old, I hope that you will do these three things as soon as possible, plan ahead, and personally create your own happiness.
------------end-------------
Text/Fish White
Image source network