Carnegie said that only 15% of a person's success depends on his professional skills, while 85% depends on his interpersonal relationships and ability to do things. The following is a small editor for everyone to collect on how to improve their eloquence ability, welcome to learn from the reference.
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An American politician once said that the ability to be individual and eloquent is more important than foreign language knowledge and Harvard University's ***. Indeed, eloquence is important. But you may say, "I was born with no fear of opening my mouth, and when I see people, I blush and have no eloquence." "Well, we tell you: Friend, it doesn't matter, the road is under your feet. Eloquence is not innate, nor does it fall from the sky, just as crops need to be fertilized, roads need to be repaired, and eloquence must be cultivated.
All beautiful flowers are rooted in the fertile soil, and without the soil, it loses its nutrients; Without dirt, it would dry up and wither. There are no blooming flowers in the air.
If we also regard eloquence as a flower in a hundred gardens, then the fertile soil in which it takes root is people's thoughts, knowledge, abilities, and perseverance, and without these qualities of man, then eloquence becomes a flower in the air, a flower that will never bloom.
Lofty thoughts, profound knowledge, foresight, and a certain ability to remember, strong adaptability, perseverance, these are the "nourishment" for us to cultivate the "flower of eloquence", without which practicing eloquence can only be an empty word.
1. Train your speaking skills
One survey shows that there is a world of difference between lack of language training and good language training. In the face of the same thing, the expression of the untrained language may be incoherent and disorganized, even if a large number of words are said, it will only be a pile of nonsense, and if a person with good language training may need only a few sentences, he will grasp the relationship between the main plot and the plot very concisely, completely and logically, and express the events. The difference between the two is so great that it does not help but arouse our attention to elocution training.
2, to have profound knowledge
If you want to give someone a glass of water, you have to have a bucket of water yourself. This is common sense. If we want to speak to others, we must first have our own. Don't underestimate the few minutes during the speech, the few sentences during the debate, just these few minutes, these few words, we need to have a rich accumulation of knowledge. Some of our students have such a good habit: prepare a small book, record the views, methods, good words, and sentences that you see from newspapers, magazines, and texts every day, and take them out to see when you have time. When it comes to speaking, it is also the Tao, and I don't feel that there are no words to say, and I can often speak amazingly, which is the result of accumulation.
3. Be far-sighted
Foresight is a quality that speakers, interlocutors, and debaters must possess. Whether we are speaking, talking, or arguing, we are dealing with people, or a large audience, or individual individuals. But no matter how many people there are or too few people, no one wants to waste time listening to the old, well-known clichés. If you are always in the crowd, never have your own opinions, your own views, then you will never become a respected and popular speaker, talker, debater. You can never conquer your audience. And if you want to have superior insight and unique insight, you must stand tall, see high, look far ahead, say what others have not said, and say that others are difficult to say. But we must remember never to pursue flashy gimmicks, never to sensationalize.
4. Certain memory ability
Memory is also an important quality for speakers, interlocutors, and debaters. Our speeches, arguments, including some of the content of the conversation, need to be memorized, through memory to store the content of speeches and arguments in the brain, when you take the stage to speak or talk, you can open your mouth and gush endlessly. If the memory is not strong, when you get to the stage, you will lose everything when you are nervous, and even open your mouth. We also need to have a strong memory when accumulating knowledge, otherwise, we will know everything when we open the book, close the book and forget everything. Cultivating memory requires a bit of hard work. Our age is exactly the best period for memory, so we must seize the time to cultivate and strengthen our memory. There are many ways to memorize, and we can find and summarize some memory rules from learning for our own use. You can also learn and learn from the successful methods of others, such as image memory method, digital memory method, associative memory method, etc. In short, we can only export the chapter if we recite it through our eyes.
In addition, when we communicate and communicate with people, we often encounter some unexpected things. If you are being booed when you are speaking, being robbed of your words when you are talking, and your defense is opposed by people, all of this requires calm and calm response. So in order to liberate you from difficult situations, in order to practice a pair of eloquence that is like a flow of answers in any situation, in order to avoid embarrassment in social situations, so that you are not in danger, please develop resilience.