Liu Lanfang is a distant relative of my friend. It can be said that marriage is her grave and the grave of her man. After marriage, she was only happy for 2 years, and then slept in separate rooms for 5 years, like the walking dead.
They don't have any emotional exchanges together and have to show a very good relationship in front of their parents. This man has been begging him for 5 years. What's going on? Let's take a look.
Liu Lanfang's family conditions are very poor, her father married very late, and her father was 40 years old when she was born. Unfortunately, her mother suffered from intellectual disability and her family was poor, so Liu Lanfang's childhood was not perfect.
Her mother's intellectual problems left her from childhood without her mother's love. Her father raised her, so she had deep feelings for him. Moreover, every time she came home from school and saw other children being picked up by their mothers, she felt very unhappy. Without her mother's love, she didn't know what it was like to be cared for by her mother.
So Liu Lanfang began to resent her mother, she did not give her mother a good look every day, and from time to time she yelled at her mother, but maternal love is great. Even with intellectual problems, her mother knew that the girl in front of her was her daughter. Every time Liu Lanfang shouted at her, her mother smirked at her.
All this is because Liu Lanfang is too young to understand things. It wasn't until Liu Lanfang was 19 that he realized how difficult his father was and how pathetic his mother was. She loved the home and her parents even more. One day, Liu Lanfang told her father.
"Dad, I don't want to learn. I want to study at the end of this semester. I want to go out and work so I can earn money to take care of you. You're almost 60 years old. Let your children take care of you for the rest of your life. Also, I don't think you can only get ahead if you go to school. ”
At first, her father disagreed and said a lot of words of encouragement to her, but Liu Lanfang made up her mind, and her father had to give up.
Liu Lanfang, who dropped out of school, came to the city to work through the introduction of relatives.
Two years have passed, and Liu Lanfang is highly valued by the company's leaders with his efforts and ability. Moreover, after he saved the money in the past two years, the rest of the money was given to her father.
At first, her father refused to accept it, but Liu Lanfang said: "Daddy, accept it." Afraid I can't save money. I asked you to save it for me, isn't it the same? ”
Such a hardworking, capable, filial girl should have met a good man. However, sometimes God is willing to joke with you and let you meet someone with a broken heart!
For two years, there was a boy who had a crush on her and had been afraid to tell her. Liu Lanfang knows all this. She had also observed the boy. She found that the boy was also a hard-working young man. Liu Lanfang also has some good feelings for him, but he is too honest to tell her. This makes Wang Meiling also very anxious, and she can't always take the initiative to confess it!
The boy's name is Li Kang. Fortunately, when Li Kang had a crush on the third year, he finally bravely confessed, because he had to change jobs. If you don't confess, you won't have a chance, so you find Liu Lanfang and say, "I like you Liu Lanfang, can you be my girlfriend?" I've been like you for three years, and today I plucked up the courage to confess to you, and I will definitely make you happy. ”
Looking at Li Kang's face, Liu Lanfang smiled and said that she did not agree or refuse, which was the default for girls.
However, Li Kang felt rejected, and she was sad. As a result, Liu Lanfang said a word to her, "Then it depends on your performance? ”
In this way, they fell in love, and two years later, their love is still the same. However, who would have thought that such an honest person would have an affair after marriage.
After two years in love, they married under discussion between the parents. Li Kang's family conditions are also average. Liu Lanfang was given a dowry of 80,000 yuan and a loan to buy a house. In fact, Liu Lanfang did not care, but she could not do without the bride price, because this was the sincerity expressed by the man.
As a result, after marriage, Liu Lanfang took the money to pay Li Kang a mortgage. Some say she's stupid, others say she's too kind. Marrying Li Kang is really a blessing in the previous life. Li Kang giggled and loved his wife even more. Within two years of marriage, Liu Lanfang gave birth to a daughter, and the whole family was extremely happy.
Unfortunately, Liu Lanfang was only happy for two years. Two years later, Liu Lanfang felt that something was wrong with Li Kang. She often said that the company worked overtime until late to go home, or accompanied the leader to socialize, which made her suspicious.
Li Kang has been working for that company. Why does she keep working overtime? He wasn't a big man in the company either. Can the leader make him social?
A marriage in question is not far from divorce. Unless this contradiction can be resolved, one day when Li Kang returned home drunk, Liu Lanfang suddenly smelled a woman's perfume when he helped him, and found several strands of women's hair on him.
She suddenly felt the world spinning. She was sure that Li Kang must have some other woman outside, but Li Kang was drunk and did not question him on the spot. When he woke up the next day, they had a big fight.
"Do you have anyone else out there, where did you get the perfume, where did this hair come from?" Don't tell me to accompany the client again. Can accompanying the customer's hair accompany you? ”
In the face of Liu Lanfang's questioning, Li Kang was in a state of limbo. "Listen to me explain, she's really my client. Yesterday she drank too much, I helped her....", saying that she didn't even have the confidence to do so.
Liu Lanfang was heartbroken. "Haven't I been nice enough to you all these years?" Am I not paying enough for our family? I was good enough for your parents, why did you betray me? If you can't get a divorce, don't come to my bedroom to sleep from now on. ”
After that, they slept in different rooms. I didn't expect this score to be 5 years.
One day after the argument, Li Kang showed Liu Lanfang a showdown, "I promise you a divorce." ”
Unexpectedly, Liu Lanfang changed her mind. "Want a divorce? No way, I changed my mind. I will not divorce you. I see how you are with other women. I'll make you miserable. ”
Time passed quickly, so they slept in different rooms for 5 years, and during those 5 years, others thought they were still a loving couple. In fact, only they know that the marriage has died in name only, and Liu Lanfang wants to retaliate against Li Kang by self-harm.
The woman who had been in a relationship with Li Kang saw that Li Kang could not give her a name, so she abandoned him. After 5 years of pain, Li Kang was also in pain. He pleaded with Liu Lanfang more than once, hoping to give him a chance.
But Liu Lanfang hanged him like this, I will not reconcile with you, nor will I divorce you. I'll let you spend your life in a marriage without warmth.
The editor also sighed deeply at this, so why? To get revenge on him, you throw yourself into it. If you can let him go, maybe you have found your own happiness,
Since he betrayed you, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, but because he didn't belong to you all the time.
Why torture yourself for such a person? Although you make him miserable, you will be more miserable than he is. He can spend a lot of time out there, can you? All you have to do now is let go of the past. Let it go, for yourself and for the sake of your children, and don't be too nice to one person. In this way, you are tired and miserable.
I hope you cherish the people around you. If you really love her, treat her well. If you don't love her, don't start.