I like "Zhiming and Chunjiao", the whole series of three movies, back and forth several times.
This movie condenses the story of all men and women in love, two people in a seemingly coincidental opportunity to meet, heart, together, for some reason to divide and merge, and finally still choose to accompany each other.
To be fair, this is a love literary film with no highlights, but it does not affect its brilliance in the slightest, and many people have commented that this is a good film that has rarely been seen in recent years. I think the reason why it can touch so many people is because we see our own shadows in Zhiming and Chunjiao, and we see our own love in their stories.
01 Every girl is Yu Chunjiao
The girl is a very strange creature, and the point at which she begins to fall in love is always unexpected.
If you think about it, did you start with some small or silly details to release the butterflies in your heart? Maybe the afternoon sun just reached the side of his face, maybe he just used the bath liquid you liked, or maybe the moment you looked up, it was just right in the corner of his smiling eye.
Just like Yu Chunjiao will learn to smoke for Zhang Zhiming, every girl will do "stupid things" in love. Although in the end the boy will quit smoking because of other girls, you can't put down the cigarette in your hand, love needs a reason, and it needs to let go.
02 Every boy is Zhang Zhiming
To be honest, I didn't like Zhang Zhiming a little from the beginning, because I thought he was a bit of a scumbag.
In the first part, he obviously knows that Chunjiao has a boyfriend and sends her a vague text message. Chun Jiao because he broke up with her boyfriend, under such obvious hints, until the end he did not say "I like you". In the second part, after breaking up with Chunjiao, he hitched a ride with Shang Youyou, a flight attendant played by Yang Mi, and after meeting Chunjiao again, he "ate from the bowl and looked at the pot", neither breaking up nor starting.
Boys always have an hindsight in love, sometimes you will feel that he is unwilling to admit that he is unwilling to be responsible, but in fact, sometimes because they have not really grown up, they actually do not know what they want, do not understand where they belong.
03 Love is when I finally become you
In the second part, there is a paragraph that particularly touched me, Chunjiao said this paragraph when Zhang Zhiming was wavering, "I really wanted to find a man who was completely different from you, but who knows, I became exactly like you, I felt very scary." I was affected by you, even I didn't know that I was affected by you, I tried very hard to get rid of Zhang Zhiming, and finally I found out... I became another Zhang Zhiming. ”
In fact, the uncle played by Xu Zheng in the second part has won my heart, and he is golden, affectionate and tolerant, which is simply an ideal life partner. But love is just so unreasonable. Obviously this person is particularly good, that person is particularly scummy, but you just can't convince yourself.
Becoming like you is not something I deliberately do, only if I really love you.
04 Love is, even if it hurts, we still have to be together
Yu Chunjiao really loves Zhang Zhiming, because she is willing to wait for Zhang Zhiming to grow up, willing to give him the opportunity to correct, willing to help him grow. Even though Zhang Zhiming brought her so much pain, she still chose to be with him in the end.
Zhang Zhiming also really loves Yu Chunjiao, although he always seems to be not firm enough, but he can always understand his sincerity at the last moment, willing to change himself for the sake of the other party, willing to sincerely give the other party a commitment. Although it is not a straight line of love, but in the end, it is still you.
Two people together, there will be a lot of opposites, a lot of harm may not come from the heart and voluntarily, but it is inevitable.
True love is not an idol drama, nor is it a youth film; it is not a domineering president who falls in love with me, nor is it a princess who likes a gray boy; it is neither vigorous, nor pure love, nor is it bland and boring.
If you ask me what love looks like, I will tell you that love is reality and the city, full of the smell of fireworks.
Many people say that they can't see love. I don't believe in love, because the love they expect is too idealistic, and love is not flowers and wine.
If you meet someone, fall in love with them, are attracted, are hurt, and are willing to be together, that's love.
Hopefully we can all have true love.