When we fall in love with someone, we must first learn to observe the other person's mind. If the other party also has a good feeling for themselves, but lacks a certain amount of time to understand each other, then this relationship is hopeful that it can continue to develop.
However, not all love is mutual, and not all fates will have a good ending. Love is always free, you can fall in love with anyone, but you can't ask the other person to fall in love with you.
When love arises in your heart, but the other party does not love you, and obviously shows rejection of you, then what you should do is not to pursue it bitterly, not to learn to let go.
Meet someone who doesn't love you, and such love will definitely bring you some hurt. In such a situation, we must learn to stop the loss in time and minimize the damage, rather than letting it develop and finally forming a greater damage.
Good love should make us positive, give us more motivation, and bring us more happiness. Instead of being the source of our pain and bringing our lives to a standstill.
As Zhang Zhixin said: "Love is an indispensable, but it can only be an accelerator to push us forward, not a stumbling block to work and study." ”
Love and can't help it, and stopping the loss in time is the best way.
Isakovsky said: "Love, it is not one heart to beat another heart, but a spark of two hearts colliding together." ”
In a good love, two people must love each other, appreciate each other, and are willing to run this love together. If it's just that you love each other, and the other party has been rejecting you, no matter how much effort you put in, you won't get this love. In such a case, it is necessary to learn to put it down, and the best way to stop the loss in time is the best way.
You have to understand that each of us wants to find someone we love and also love our other. In love, no one is willing to settle down, as long as there is still a chance, they will definitely wait for the person who is most worthy of their love, rather than choosing a person they do not love at all.
When you don't get the other person's heart, your efforts are meaningless, and your love is worthless to him. Since this feeling is destined to bring you hurt and make you disappointed and sad, it is better to learn to stop the loss in time and reduce the hurt to the greatest extent.
Excessive pursuit of a love will only make you worthless.
When we encounter a love, it is easy for us to lose our minds, even if we can't get each other's heart, we will muster up a lot of courage to pursue and pay, thinking that we can get each other's disgust.
We must know that this kind of humble person who loves for love, even if he finally gets this love, is doomed to this relationship is unbalanced, and it is difficult to go on happily.
When your pursuit is too excessive, it will only make the other party think that you are a very good deal. Since you love him so much, then he can be unscrupulous in front of you. Even if you get his person, you may not get his heart, and the last thing that awaits you must be his repeated injuries.
We can imagine that when we meet a love, what we want is to be equal with each other, to respect each other, and to get along well with two people. Or are you giving alone, pleasing the other person, and the other party is always lukewarm to you? Don't think about it, the love we want must be the former.
Since some love is destined to become the latter, and the ending will not be the way you want it to be, what is the use of this love? It is just a wound that has buried itself, and sooner or later it will be fed back to itself.
Love and can't, choose to let go is responsible for yourself.
Tennyson said: "As long as men and women truly love each other, even if they do not become dependents in the end, they are still sweet." ”
In love, the most basic requirement is to love each other and protect this love together. Only this kind of love can bring sweetness and happiness to each other, and can people strengthen their hearts and bravely go on.
If even the most basic requirements are not met, this love is not love at all, but a person's unrequited love. Even if love can make people blind, at the moment of encountering love, we must be more responsible for ourselves and think more about ourselves.
If we meet a person who loves each other, we can naturally be brave and manage this love well. But if the other party does not love you at all, and this love is something you will never get, in such a situation, what is the point of being an infatuated person?
Your obsession is worthless in the eyes of others, and it may make people think that you have caused him a lot of trouble. In love, we can't always be self-centered, we can do whatever we want, and sometimes we have to think about it for others. Be clear about whether your love is an incentive or a liability to others.
If it is a burden, others will naturally stay away from you, and what you have to do is to see the reality, put away your love, learn to let go of this feeling, and wait for a new fate, a right person.
This is to be responsible for yourself.