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Unexpectedly, Zhang Danfeng was on the hot search again, and the public account was basically news about his cheating agent Bi Ying. What used to catch the wind and shadow on Bi Ying and him now seems to be a real hammer.
At the beginning, Hong Xin said that "my family and I are as happy as ever, and the agent is close to me", and then later all the Weibo interactions with Zhang Danfeng are deleted, neither out to debunk the rumors and explain, nor to make any response. In the end, I believe that everyone knows it.
The brilliance of the entertainment industry is that what you think is a farce is actually a serial.
For a time, there were many opinions, some heartache Hong Xin said that she was generous and kind and lacked heart and eyes, and some condemned Zhang Danfeng and Biying scum men and women.
And what I am concerned about is that since Zhang Danfeng is so scummy, Hong Xin, what will you do next?
I believe that most women are more traditional, the family concept is very heavy, for the integrity of the family, in order to give the children a sound home, in the face of husband cheating and family crisis, will choose to swallow.
Hong Xin is also one of these most women, which is not surprising. And in the entertainment industry, there are more than one and a half things like this.
The article derailed, Ma Yili said the golden sentence "and do and cherish", she did not divorce, chose to forgive. However, she put more energy into her acting career, from hit dramas such as "Kitakami Hiroshi Doesn't Believe in Tears" to "The First Half of My Life", which made her career brilliant again. Now Ma Yili is in a better state than before, more than a star and a half.
Jia Jingwen's ex-husband Sun Zhihao cheated on her family, and she once fought with her for the custody of her daughter. At that time, she appeared in front of the public with a sad face, and although her life temporarily had a low point, the back was still dark. Because she met Xiu Jiekai, who loved her, she was now living a happy married life.
So cheating is not terrible, marriage crisis is not terrible, these are only temporary. You have to re-examine your life, don't give up, don't get discouraged, and start your life well.
Women are stupid, trying their best when they love, only to find that it backfires. Wrong, it doesn't matter, we can live just as well.
Regardless of whether Hong Xin chooses to continue her marriage with Zhang Danfeng, I support her and hope that she can grasp the initiative in the marriage, do not continue to swallow her anger, and be a stupid woman in the eyes of everyone.
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Speaking of the entertainment industry, I think of another female star, Zhang Yuqi. She once said a very domineering sentence: "I may not be able to pick a man's eyes, but I can do it myself!" ”
In April 2011, Zhang Yuqi married Wang Quan'an, and in September of the same year, Wang Quan'an was arrested and imprisoned for prostitution. In the six months since Wang Quanan was arrested, Zhang Yuqi was still very optimistic, long-distance running, exercise, diving, what to do. As soon as they got out of prison, the two left, simply.
In October 2016, Zhang Yuqi suddenly announced the flash marriage of Yuan Bayuan, and after marriage, she also gave birth to twins, and the family of four was happy and harmonious. If life were so plain, there would be no later story. In September 2018, the two quarreled over trivial matters, and Zhang Yuqi used a knife, which also alarmed the police. The next day, the two quickly agreed to divorce.
If it really ends like this, it doesn't matter, not long after, the public took photos of her and Yuan Bayuan'en's love of shopping, suspected of compounding. Sure enough, Zhang Yuqi posted on Weibo that "a single woman can accept the pursuit of single men all over the world, including her ex-husband."
Just when everyone thought they were going to recover as before, Yuan Bayuan jumped out and accused Zhang Yuqi of "cheating". Zhang Yuqi rightly said that she is now single and has the right to choose who to associate with. Immediately after that, the two began to tear each other apart, ripping both sides "beyond recognition".
In the end, it is impossible to study what is right and wrong, in contrast to Zhang Yuqi's previous sentence, she can't just pick a man's vision, her own hasty attitude towards marriage and feelings is really too "not ok". Since you are gone, why should you still break the connection with your predecessor, isn't that stupid?
No matter who "cheats", if a marriage decides to end, don't repeatedly entangle and end up losing both, why bother?
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Last night, my girlfriend Lin Xiao called me again and cried because she had a fight with her husband. She told me she was depressed and didn't know what to do.
Lin Xiao is a full-time housewife with a 5-year-old son. She has not gone out to work since marriage, her son is obedient, and her husband is very kind to her. Originally, she thought she was very happy, until she found out that her husband was cheating more than a year ago, and then she felt that her whole sky had collapsed.
Separated? She didn't have the ability to support herself and her children, and she couldn't get past that hurdle in her heart, going on. So it was so deadlocked, the mouth said to put down, but there was a thorn in the heart. For the breath she held in her heart, she always quarreled with her husband by the head, and over time, she made herself and the other party haggard.
In this marriage crisis, she was unwilling to come out, and she couldn't come out at all.
Of course, what I'm talking about coming out of is not necessarily divorcing, marriage is just a formality. The real way out is to get rid of the external form of marriage, from the mind to the body to truly liberate themselves.
Because the only thing that can trap a woman is you.
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My friend Nini recently told me she was going to make money to buy a house. Buying a house??? I was amazed. Her husband has a car and a house, and there are several business facades, which means that she is a rich wife who does not worry about eating and drinking, why do you have to earn money to buy a house?
She said you don't understand this, I want to buy myself a house by my own ability, and I have the confidence to have a house. And I also set myself goals, some in the near future one or two years, and some in the next five years, and I have to achieve these goals one by one. Nini smiled happily as she did two years ago.
Two years ago, Nini had just given birth to her daughter, and she was also at home full-time with her baby. At that time, the content of her chat with me was basically not housework, or the child's eating and drinking Lasa, and she couldn't help but argue with her mother-in-law because of taking the child.
Originally, it was all family chores at the beginning, but Nini, who was strong, always complained that her husband could not help and made herself resentful. Slowly, the mother-in-law began to have opinions. Her husband also felt that she was like a shrew, and slowly he did not pay much attention to her.
By chance, Nini discovered her husband's chats with other women. Between the lines, there is no ambiguity. An angry Nini had a big fight with her husband, and her daughter, who was only a few months old, was so frightened that she cried. Looking back now, it was the most chaotic time she had.
Fortunately, Nini quickly came out of this predicament, and she first handed over the child to her mother-in-law to take, no longer harsh. On the one hand, he opened his own clothing store, and with diligence and careful management, the business in the store was booming, and this year he opened a second branch. Nini now lives a full and happy life, and she can take her daughter and friends on trips in her spare time.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has eased, and she and her husband are more loving than before. Nini said that she had also thought about divorce, but could divorce solve the problem? No! I was just stuck at home for so long that I forgot how I was.
After that crisis, at first I thought I was all right, and then I began to change myself, build my career, and live a full life to become optimistic. Later, I found that life was getting better and better.
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Some time ago, I read a book written by the writer Wanqing. There is an article in the book titled "As Long As You Have the Courage to Bear All the Consequences."
It is said that there is a netizen who suffered from her husband's cheating, but she chose to continue to maintain the marriage.
At that time, she was faced with two choices: first, divorce, and work hard again in the future. Second, forgive him and continue to endure the other person's hurt. Although it is not easy to choose which way to choose. But whichever you choose, bear the consequences for your choices.
In my opinion, whether you choose the first or the second, first of all, you have to come out of the original marriage in the true sense. Divorce, say goodbye to the past, and start your new life. Forgive, just put everything down, truly reconcile with the other person, and start your relationship again!
Whether the marriage continues or not, you should not veto yourself and give up on yourself. If you can, let go of everything to breathe and fill your life and give yourself a new beginning.
Women, remember, you are the most beautiful and the most attractive to be yourself!