In Changsha, there is a male college student, he has a long-distance girlfriend, is a very far away place, to her side, the plane ticket is 2100 yuan.
In order to be able to go to his girlfriend's side during the May Day holiday, he began to clench his teeth early, cut down on food and clothing, and even forced himself to the point of eating roommate's leftovers, and finally collected the air ticket money and flew to his girlfriend's side, giving his girlfriend a big surprise at the same time, but also spent a very beautiful May Day holiday together.
After seeing it, netizens have sighed: "Youth is really good, love in youth is so pure"
But some netizens commented: "Only people who have experienced long-distance love know how difficult it is for two people to meet each other."
I don't know if you have heard this sentence: the passers-by you meet casually on the road may be the people that others dream of seeing.
In a simple word, the hardships of long-distance love, after all, there are really very few things that can be done for each other.
@ Shen Liu Liu
"Fortunately, I can still write to you."
He was a soldier, and there was nothing happier than he messaged me that he had time in the evening and that he could chat with me.
At that time, he could not use his own phone, so I sent letter after letter, imagining that he saw me thinking about his sentence in the letter.
@Exhausted to accompany
"It's rare to meet, and it's all used to make me happy."
What makes me happy is the way he coaxed me after the fight, only then I can feel that he really cares about me, and I feel that he really wants to go down with me.
@Anonymous
"In the winter, he waited downstairs for 4 hours."
In the winter he flew to my city.
At six o'clock in the morning, when I arrived at the school gate, I didn't call me, and at eight o'clock, I called me and asked if I had gotten up, I was confused and said no, he said you sleep a little longer.
I went back to sleep, and at ten o'clock I called him and said come down, I'm downstairs in your dormitory.
I learned that he had been waiting downstairs for more than four hours.
@Shore Fairy
"Will wait for me where I am."
In the few meetings during the preparation period, he once sent me to the subway to meet my friends. After I got on the subway, he messaged me and asked, "You're not lost, are you?" ”
I said, "No, I'm on the subway." ”
He said, "Oh well, okay. Then I'm gone, afraid that you'll get lost, and I'll still be waiting for you in the same place. ”
@Wen
"Kiss me when you're parting."
Kissing at the time of parting, when the subway car is about to part.
The two men felt embarrassed again, blocked their faces with the bag in their hands, and kissed them lightly.
"Sneak a peek at me."
Quietly Mimi came to see me, but I heard the most classic shout of the big sister who sold snacks on the green-skinned train, and immediately guessed that he was coming, and was uneasy for an afternoon. But the moment I saw him was well worth it.
@Cow soil
"Go see him."
Coming back from his side, the plane was delayed from 9 o'clock to more than 1 a.m., and he went to Shenzhen to fight a black car to go home, super scared.
Nervously, I came home, it was already 3 or 4 o'clock, and I slept for more than 2 hours and got up again to go to work.
Of all the hardest loves, there is nothing more difficult than a long-distance relationship.
Because of the different places, both parties cannot touch, and when they encounter things in life that require each other to be around, the other party cannot be around, which is really difficult.
Recently, friend Manman encountered the bottleneck period of long-distance love:
I was in a bad mood recently, and then sent a large text to my boyfriend in a different place, the content is probably how to hope for the place, how can we be together in the future, I thought that this could get the resonance of the boyfriend, but the other party did not respond for a long time, about an hour later to reply 'I am tired', you say, is he unable to stick to it, want to give up on me?
I didn't know how to comfort her, but just stayed by her side and discussed it after her mood had stabilized.
Here are my inner thoughts, hoping to help you guys who are stuck in a long-distance relationship:
First, we must first find out why the boyfriend is tired, that is, what makes him feel this way, so that he knows what the problem is. Because people feel tired in emotional relationships, it may be caused by different reasons. For example, one party's expectations are too high, can not meet the pressure, feel tired; For example, lack of trust, not trusting the partner, making the other party feel tired; For example, the distance between the different space is too far, the feelings of the two people are weak, and it is more tiring to maintain the feelings. Find out what happened between you to become what it is now.
Second, a relationship is to develop, and if a relationship does not move forward, it is possible to go backwards, without a stagnant intermediate state. What if you let a relationship move forward? It is to encounter problems, encounter contradictions, encounter disputes, two people can face together, solve together, and manage this feeling together. So, you can also think about whether the relationship between the time in the distance is better, or more flat. This question can be used as an opportunity to heat up feelings, or stop here, so it is very critical.
Third, when people say "I don't know how to do it", they often don't really know, and the true meaning of this sentence is often: "I don't know what to do." "I don't know what to do to be safe." "I don't know how to do it." So, we need to think clearly about what we want to achieve in the face of this relationship. But we need to think clearly, if according to the past emotional patterns, communication methods, can not get what you want, only by changing this "cause", can we get a different "effect", as for this "cause", we need to explore it well.
Finally, another word, many people have a misunderstanding about long-distance love, think that long-distance love "say more, do less", in fact, long-distance can also do a lot, you can do a good job, try to manage yourself, rather than saying how the other party wants, saying what the future will be, it is better to do yourself first.