To determine the relationship, as soon as the four words appear, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is the two words, confession.
What about the routine of confession, is to send flowers and gifts, please people, and then take the opportunity to say that I love you, are you good to be my girlfriend?
Once a friend, spent three months throwing money and smashing gifts and finally confessed to being rejected, came to find me, I split my head and covered my face is a scolding, are you a prostitute? You like her not fake, but is your bribe to respect her? Is love bought for money? Even if you buy it, do you not know whether you love you or love money?
He was overwhelmed.
The girl likes the iPhone X, you send her one, she will like it, she will be happy, will she fall in love with you because of the iPhone X? She may choose to be with you because she wants to get her next iPhone, but, is that like you? What we want is love.
Love can only attack the heart.
The charm of language is far more attractive in a woman's heart than substance.
In fact, really good women are not short of money, they have their own careers, and self-sufficiency is no problem.
Girls don't have a particular liking for men who pursue them materially, preferring people who can surprise her emotionally.
Think about it, women like romance TV series, why?
Because the ups and downs of the storyline are the waves that can ripple her inner sailboat, the ups and downs of emotions are the Achilles heel of sensual animals.
A woman is born an emotional animal, and if you can drive her emotions, you win her heart. Below, let's knock on the door of a woman's heart.
Get noticed and the story will happen
When we have feelings for a woman, do not immediately expose your sense of need, so that the woman will detect your intention to approach her, resulting in a strong defensive psychology, the door of the bank safe is difficult to open, it is better not to provoke her strong defense. Hide your sense of need, step by step closer, wait for the opportunity, wait for the opportunity. The following points help you get closer:
1 The circle of friends shows their high quality of life
Some hobbies, some petty bourgeois places, some positive behavior perceptions, and a handsome face that is carefully photographed and modified.
2 There are too many good-looking skin bags and very few interesting souls.
In the process of chatting, don't care about her food, clothing, shelter and transportation as soon as you come up, whoever you ask this and that, it may not be a bad person. We can properly talk about some interesting things in life to enliven the atmosphere, the topic originates from life, and the extension depends on yourself, using your sense of humor to boldly ridicule, is ridicule, not flirtation is not obscenity.
3 Continuous chat does not equal continuous attraction.
Talk about her every day and fall in love with you? A butterfly may be pleasing to the eye every day, the fly appears every day of course, it will want to kill first, and then say, excellent women do not lack suitors, it is very annoying to wander in many chats every day, and many brothers' messages are not replied to is this reason.
4 Chats have a theme and purpose.
Aimlessly asking what you are doing, eating, getting up, leaving work, in order to know the whereabouts of the other party? To show concern? Whether you yourself will be irritable about your parents' inquiries, not to mention that a woman to another man, knowing the purpose of the chat is especially important, invitation!
No matter how much you talk, it is also a paper talk, chat for dating, dating is the best process to upgrade your relationship.
Confession is a fool's stupid trick, forbidden
What kind of behavior is confession, and why is it confessed?
Because you don't know if you can attract her, or you perceive that she doesn't feel anything for you, you want to determine the relationship through confession, and use this very low-end means to achieve the purpose of getting this woman.
If the phrase "be my girlfriend" works, isn't falling in love a rape?
As soon as I feel that I like the other party, I am eager to tell her my heart immediately, and most of them will be exchanged for a sentence: "You are a good person, I only regard you as a friend." "After that, even friends can't do the embarrassing situation."
These are just Korean dramas, romantic confessions before there is eye contact do you pay attention? Have you been with a romantic confession for a few years before you have noticed? Did you pay attention to the romantic confession before it happened by chance?
To gain the favor of your beloved woman, give you a little trick, when you receive more than three consecutive "hahahahaha", it is when you attack her. Because at this time, she has no defense against you because you have mood swings
Overinvestment will only lead to a deep quagmire
Over-investing in women, time, money and energy, the whole body is on her, can not be herself, she a random move you will be like a big enemy, not to mention remember what skills.
1 When I saw the message she sent, my heart was filled with excitement and joy that could not be described in words. Once she didn't reply or couldn't see the message for a long time, she couldn't sleep. She thinks about herself, has all kinds of fantasies about her, is deeply involved in the vortex of obscenity, delusions of abandonment, haunting dreams, and moods will be because of her vagaries.
2 Send flowers and water, please repair the computer, busy before and after, enjoy it. Just appear when you need it, no need to reciprocate without complaint, she complains to you, breaks up with her boyfriend, argues with colleagues, when you are an emotional trash can, you not only don't mind, but there is a little bit of happiness that is needed, you are as sad as she is, the same tossing and turning. You're not a spare tire who's a spare tire, no, maybe just a jack to use when changing the spare tire.
Elevate the relationship and become her that he
The right process of love requires elevating the relationship through initial attraction, medium-term comfort, and finally.
Most brothers only want to hold the beauty of the return, there are direct chats to escalate the relationship, are blocked; there are direct confessions, good people card; there are moisturizers silent, forgotten; there are hard-working, spare tires.
Elevating the relationship has a premise, following the process is foolproof, not attracting anything is nonsense, I hope you remember this golden rule.
Secondly, when we want to elevate the relationship, a strategy, "two steps further, one step back", is like flying a kite, the line is pulled too tightly, it will break, the place will be too loose, the kite will fall, a loose one, in order to make the kite fly higher and farther.
Finally, give you a chat routine to elevate the relationship:
F: You're a slacker, and you're late for work every time
M: Where in this world are there perfect people? A handsome guy like me can only be perfect, and it is normal to have shortcomings
F: Cut
M: In fact, in my heart, you are already perfect. Do you know what two beauty is missing?
F: I don't know, which two?
M: Outer beauty and inner beauty, hahahahaha
F: Hum (Little Pink Fist Attack)
Technical points:
When chatting with girls, if you meet a girl who says you have shortcomings or complains that you are not doing a good job.
You can admit your shortcomings first, and then use more serious shortcomings to suppress her.
This way bypasses the suppression of girls, and at the same time can flirt with girls and flirt with girls in turn.
When we learn to fall in love, we do not simply use routines to get people we like, but a person's self-cultivation.
In the process of liking a person, we will improve ourselves because of our purpose.