From the beginning of the marriage contract into two parts, the two people who were not related by blood have completely become a family, and they need to assume the obligation of common parenting, accompany each other, and cherish each other until the white head, which is the original intention and ideal.
Between husband and wife, it is indeed necessary to meet frankly, do not need to hide anything, have a heart to share with each other, there are secrets to each other, this is what a family looks like, unfortunately, the relationship between men and women is very delicate, it is not as inclusive as relatives, and even some extremes and impulses, the more deeply loved, the easier it is to have reckless behavior, the so-called "how deep love, how deep the hate is."
Some things, say or not say, the relationship between husband and wife is not a big problem, but some things, say and do not say, but there is a world of difference, you feel that a spit is fast, share the most precious secrets, the other party feels that you are provoking the bottom line of love, every time you think of the secret you say, you will not be angry, it is very embarrassing.
There is a wife who is extremely beautiful, and she has been in love since she started her relationship with her husband
The admirer of the side has never stopped, but no one has compared him, in other words, the husband's good to his wife can beat any man, after the two get married, life is very happy and sweet, but the wife still has a lot of followers, in a foolish mood.
In the gap between a meal, the wife felt that her husband was a very angry, very tolerant man, always a carefree little girl in front of him, so she said that she was currently pursuing her opposite sex, like a joke, the husband listened to her secret, his face was red, purple, but there was no abnormal performance, but later she learned from her friends that her husband was quite critical of her.
Friends say so, husbands mention wives, there are always all kinds of slander and insults, even these friends can not listen to him, have all him, women are trusting you, only to tell you these secrets, but he is not willing to stop, nor willing to listen to advice, according to friends, he not only with good friends slander his wife, but also with his family about her various bad, in fact, the original wife's gentleness and charm, in his eyes is priceless, just because of this incident, everything has become unrecognizable.
Since his wife confessed his heart, it was clear that he was not as spoiled as he used to be, and had already shown himself in some details.
Husband and wife need to be honest, but there are some secrets that cannot be said, and stupid women are open and honest
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First intimate contact
Physical intimacy is a secret that women can never tell, even if a man says to you, "It's okay, I don't mind, you say it", women don't believe him, they can hide it, they can keep their mouths shut like bottles, some things are said to be evil, and there is nothing to say without saying them.
Men are good-looking animals, in the relationship between the sexes, as long as he really loves you, there will be a strong desire to possess and conquer, which is the instinct of male animals, but also the reason why men are afraid of dignity.
Often the more deeply you love your man, the more obvious this tendency, you think, a man who cares about you wholeheartedly, will be preoccupied with which man you have the first time, what the situation is, is it your love and my wishes, or forced, etc., about the details, he wants to know, but dare not know, the mouth says to you that it does not matter, in fact, the inner struggle is fatal, once you trust him, and he openly and honestly confess all the secrets, then the ending is likely to be very embarrassing, and even there will be unexpected tragedy.
Man loves you again, or tolerates you again, he sees the word loyalty more important than anything, unless he also has other women in his heart, it is another matter, as long as he only loves you, or loves you deeply, men will have exclusivity, exclusivity, domineering, if you do not understand this truth, it is easy to eat dumb losses in the relationship between husband and wife.
Don't think that men are spoiling you enough, you can just say it casually, some secrets can't be said, some things must rot in the stomach, don't trust a person too much, and finally become a person inside and out, it's not good.
【02】
Ex-boyfriend's all kinds
Few people experience a relationship and reap happiness, and more people will experience a period of relationship and another in order to harvest the ultimate happiness.
A good happiness, let people envy, but also make people jealous, only there is no hate, the happiness that can be found after growing up again and again, let people cherish, let people baby, but also make people heartache, the more rare, the more desperately guarded, because it is not easy to get, so it will be particularly cherished and understood.
After being with Xinhuan, women should stop telling the ex-boyfriend's good and bad, if the ex-boyfriend is not good to you, he will hurt you; if the ex-boyfriend is good to you, he will be sad and more stressed. In short, no matter whether the ex-boyfriend is good or bad, you try not to mention it in front of him, the best happiness is around, too far away love should be forgotten in the jianghu, do not tie too much, do not worry too wide, just cherish the recent warmth, so it is good.
If you have entered the marriage, women do not often talk about the ex-boyfriend in front of the husband, even if you think of the ex-boyfriend in your heart, do not show it on the corner of the mouth, a lot of language, it is easy to have problems, you feel that it does not matter, the listener has the heart to listen, it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble and misunderstanding, men will feel that you are nostalgic for the past, nostalgia for the past, and even feel that you are dissatisfied with the status quo.
A person who loves to remember, or a person who loves to travel, often has dissatisfaction with the status quo and has expectations for the distance, so he will look into the distance, although not necessarily in his heart, but it gives people the feeling that this is the case.
The man who loves you deeply, the nerves are very sensitive, your every move is in his eyes, he will be insecure about you, and even derive a lot of bad reverie, such as, you are empathizing with each other, you are picking flowers and weeds, you are trying to get out of the wall and so on.
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The admiration and overtures of the opposite sex
Regardless of your age, it's a proud thing for a woman to have an admirer, but it's very important that you can't show your charm in front of a man who loves you deeply, it's one thing for him to witness it, and it's another thing for you to tell it yourself.
A truly confident woman, there is no need to instigate a man to say that he has someone to pursue, let alone to tell him that he is loved, because she has abundance in her bones, without anyone's appreciation and recognition, she is still elegant and charming.
In the face of the love and overtures of the opposite sex, women laugh and pass, especially when you have met the happiness of the rest of your life, you should give him a sense of security, is a sense of self-conscious and spontaneous boundaries, do not have to say anything, do not have to do something deliberately, maintain a rational and sober attitude, should refuse to refuse, should hide, can be, do not have to tell the beloved man that he has encountered what admirers follow and entanglement, he can not help you, there is nothing he can do, if he comes forward for you, can only make things more complicated, Or it will be difficult to end.
If you don't handle it well, the man is likely to change from love to hate, and then go around slandering you, or talking about you, etc., it is possible, at that time, the ending is likely to be of no benefit to you at all, not only your reputation will be damaged, but your happiness will be lost, it is simply not worth the loss.