This morning, watching a certain anchor live broadcast about Weng Meiling's suicide, and defined Tang Zhenye as a scumbag, Weng Meiling has been dead for more than thirty years, Tang Zhenye has also borne a lifetime of infamy because of Weng Meiling's suicide, but until 2013, Weng Meiling's ex-boyfriend Rob published an article on his personal website, saying that he was not surprised by Weng Meiling's suicide, and even everything was expected by him.
Rob in his personal website to tell his and Weng Meiling process together, said That Weng Meiling personality willful extreme, slightly unsatisfactory will lose temper, and even a quarrel on suicide, in the process of his interaction with Weng Meiling, Weng Meiling has had several times of suicide, but there are no dangers, rob said that it is difficult for him to continue to adapt to Weng Meiling's personality, plus their future direction is not consistent at all, this relationship is also because of the difference in future choices and ended.
Since Weng Meiling's suicide in 1985, there have been countless articles analyzing the reasons for her suicide, and the vast majority of people have pointed the finger at Tang Zhenye, believing that Tang Zhenye is a negative man and a complete scumbag. Tang Zhenye's career also fell to a low point, and he was accused and insulted by the world. However, in recent years, more and more people think that Tang Zhenye has suffered so many years of accusations, which is really unjust, and Weng Meiling's suicide should have more reasons for personal character. Although Tang Zhenye, as the boyfriend at the time, did not care for and comfort her in time, causing Weng Meiling to feel that she had lost the care of her lover for a while and chose suicide on the one hand, but from the whole process of their love to Weng Meiling's suicide, Tang Zhenye had actually broken up with Weng Meiling, but Weng Meiling herself did not accept it.
Some people may say that I don't respect the dead, we have to respect the dead, but also respect the facts.
According to the same crew members who know Weng Meiling and Tang Zhenye, Weng Meiling and Tang Zhenye felt great pressure in the filming because of the strong women and weak men, Tang Zhenye began to alienate Weng Meiling, the personal love of the two of them, this is a love that is not right and has no emotional basis, Weng Meiling's family has a winery, she is also a high-achieving student graduated from Cambridge University, and Tang Zhenye's family is very poor, the family of 12 people is crowded in a house of less than 30 square meters, and he graduated from high school and was admitted to the wireless TV training class , a few hundred yuan a month with a fixed salary, and a superior family, education and fame of Weng Meiling is not at all matched, Tang Zhenye's estrangement from Weng Meiling, in fact, has hinted at the breakup, in this relationship between the two people, Weng Meiling invested far more than Tang Zhenye, Tang Zhenye from Weng Meiling's "Shooting Eagle" after the explosion of popularity gradually alienated Weng Meiling, Weng Meiling in order to keep Tang Zhenye, out of her own pocket in Hong Kong to buy a house, let Tang Zhenye move over to live with her, she is rushing to get married, But Tang Zhenye said that when his career slightly improved and then considered, Weng Meiling always said that the relationship between the two of them was very good, there was no problem, in fact, with the rise of Weng Meiling's career, it formed a huge pressure on Tang Zhenye, Tang Zhenye could not accept the Hong Kong media said that he relied on his girlfriend to increase the explosion rate, he began to intentionally avoid Weng Meiling, try not to attend the event with her.
Standing from the perspective of Weng Meiling's love, Tang Zhenye is a little ignorant of good villains, Weng Meiling is so contrived to seek perfection, why are you Tang Zhenye still so unsloped down the slope donkey? But if we look at this problem objectively from weng meiling's perspective, I think that Tang Zhenye's performance is exactly worthy of respect, as a child of a poor family, he does not want to rely on his girlfriend to ascend to the heavens, wants to rely on his own efforts to earn a future for himself, this is no problem in itself, the biggest problem is that he misestimated Weng Meiling's personality, he did not expect that Weng Meiling would be such a serious person. He did not expect that Weng Meiling, who had quarreled with him on the set and shouted out the breakup, would commit suicide after returning home, if he knew, he could not not answer the phone, if he knew, he would immediately go to see her....
However, if Tang Zhenye went to see Weng Meiling that night, and Weng Meiling did not commit suicide, how should the rest of the day be? Does Tang Zhenye have no right to break up with Weng Meiling?
Weng Meiling's suicide is because she cannot bear the failures in life and cannot accept the failures of herself. Because her mother is a concubine, although she is smart and clever, she is talented, but she was fostered in her uncle's family since she was a child, and her heart is both inferior and lonely, and this feeling of inferiority formed in childhood is difficult to overcome.
The lack of love in childhood is the greatest harm to a girl. Like most women who lack love, once Weng Meiling is moved, it is difficult to extricate herself, this is her fate, if there are relatives around there is still a place to talk, and Weng Meiling's mother was still in England at the time, the children who lack love are generally insecure, will not easily open their hearts to friends, they have suffering is often buried deep in the heart, mental internal friction is very serious, once there is a gap, it is out of control.
Don't ask me why I know, because I'm the same person. Once you fall in love with someone, it is difficult to get out of this relationship, and no matter how much truth you talk about, it is useless, because you can't pass your own level.
Fortunately, I am not a celebrity, not so many people pay attention, if I am Weng Meiling, it is estimated that it is as difficult as her to convince myself, and it is difficult to overcome the emotional injury in a short period of time.
Some pains need to be slowly forgotten and smoothed out with a lifetime, and they need to be diluted by years and wind and rain. People who lack love in their hearts regard the love of others as more important than life, because she needs to be cared for and recognized, even if she is excellent, she only gets some appreciation that cannot touch the heart, and the love and appreciation that comes from love to touch the heart is what they really need.
Weng Meiling has not lacked money since childhood, but she seriously lacks love, lack of emotion, so that as long as she feels a little bit of love, she will be moths to the fire like desperate, we can see that whether it is rob or Tang Zhenye, in fact, are not worthy of Weng Meiling, but she has invested too much emotion in every relationship, because she regards emotional satisfaction as the most important meaning of adult life, she is not short of money, nor is there a glorious future, what she lacks is love, it is the kind of care that makes her feel safe, but the love she wants, The safest and most stable love in this world is the love of her parents, she did not enjoy it, even if we think that she is excellent, it cannot change the negation of herself in her heart.
A high-achieving student who can be admitted to Cambridge University, a beautiful woman who can play Huang Rong to the hearts of the people, no one will believe that she is extremely inferior in her heart, si people have gone, we should think more about getting some admonitions from Weng Meiling's tragedy, rather than blindly accusing Tang Zhenye, he has the right to end a relationship.
And both of them have mishandled performance in this relationship, Weng Meiling found that Tang Zhenye began to alienate her, did not face this relationship, but went to the newspaper to shoot a sexy photo album, in order to stimulate Tang Zhenye, hoping to attract his attention, when she saw the Hong Kong media fried Tang Zhenye scandal, she was negative and Zou Zhaolong, Tang Zhenye did not end this relationship in a suitable and appropriate way when there was a conflict with Weng Meiling's feelings, but took a cold and violent way to try to make the woman know that it was difficult to retreat, He did not understand Weng Meiling's extreme personality.
In the photo above, the two have frequently quarreled to the point of breaking up, and the expressions of the two people in the photo can be seen in the obvious displeasure. Weng Meiling because of Tang Zhenye's estrangement was tortured by this relationship to rely on sleeping pills every day to fall asleep, the whole person lost a lot of weight, look at the spirit of Shangxiao is not very good, the two people because of work and take pictures together, from the photos can obviously feel that the two people look at each other, forced to smile.
I've seen girls like this in my life too.
Once there was a young friend of mine talked about a girlfriend, her personality is more similar to Weng Meiling, willful and dedicated, she is always afraid that the tall boy will leave her, as long as the boy is not by her side, she will always call, and finally chase the boy to the place where he works, the two people rent a house to live together, but this too strong love makes my children feel very suffocated, sometimes answer the phone slowly, the girl will cry, go out to dinner with friends as long as there are friends of the opposite sex present, back will be questioned, She is not very attentive to her work every day, all her thoughts are on the boyfriend, over time, my little friend feels very tired, one day about a friend to go out to see a movie met the previous female classmate, the result was taken by the female classmate and posted in the circle of friends, but coincidentally, the female classmate's friend knows this girl, the girl just happened to see this photo with a friend, the two people had a big argument because of this matter, and finally the girl proposed to break up in anger. My young friend turned to leave, and the girl said: If you want to get out of this door, don't want to see me again!
This sentence is so similar to the words left by Weng Meiling to Tang Zhenye before she committed suicide! If you don't answer my phone again, you won't hear me again!
The boy ignored her and went straight to the door, did not expect the girl not to say a word, ran directly to the window to open the window and was about to jump down, the boy reacted in time to rush up and grab the girl's hand, but the girl's body was already outside the window, and they rented the ninth floor.
In a hurry, my friend shouted for help, and called out to the neighbors around him to take the cotton jacket mattress to catch the girl, so as to avoid a tragedy.
But the girl's behavior did not retain this relationship, but instead frightened the boy into sending the girl home to his mother, taking tens of thousands of dollars.
Most of these girls in love will be very humble, because they are afraid of loss, so they take love very seriously, invest all their feelings, pay too much attention to the weight of love in life, think that love is the whole meaning of life, do not know that love is just an embellishment of life, some life will be richer, no, not necessarily how bleak.