What does a woman care about most in a relationship? Presumably for this question, everyone will have a different answer, in fact, for a woman, the most important thing is to be able to get a man's love and attention, in a relationship, if a woman does not have the love of this man, then the relationship between the two will soon come to an end.
Wang Mei is 45 years old this year, after divorcing her husband, she has always been single, and after the two divorced, Wang Mei also got a lot of family property, so her life has always been quite good.
But for Wang Mei's life, many people are not optimistic, because most people feel that women need the nourishment of love, even if they are stronger women, they cannot do without love.
At first, Wang Mei did not care about other people's opinions, but after a long time, Wang Mei's heart also began to waver, because of the loneliness in her heart, so she also made Wang Mei very worried about her emotional situation, but because she faced a failed marriage, Wang Mei did not dare to start easily.
Later, after the introduction of friends, he met Wang Zhi, who was more than 20 years younger than himself, and when he first saw this man, Wang Mei did not have much good feelings, and even had some disgust, but later, in this man, Wang Mei saw a different charm and vitality.
Young appearance, positive positive energy, but also let Wang Mei back to the original love of the appearance, although many people are not optimistic about this relationship, but Wang Mei still decided to try.
Later, the two also generously announced their relationship in the circle of friends, but this relationship was not as beautiful as the two imagined, just in the hot love period, the two would basically stick together every day, but with the passage of time, Wang Mei found that there was not much common topic between the two, because of the difference in thinking, the contradictions between the two became more and more numerous.
Whether it is from the pattern or experience, the gap between the two is obvious, in this relationship, Wang Mei is also living more and more tired, and even has an urge to give up.
Good love is when you see the world through a man, and bad love is when you give up the world for a man. ——Zhang Xiaoxian
In the world of feelings, in addition to love, we must also consider whether two people are suitable, if the age gap between the two people is too large, then in the end the feelings will become nothing, so in the face of love, we also need to consider the following things.
01.
Age gap
Why the age gap between the two of you needs to consider is actually very simple, because when the age gap between the two of you is too large, the generation gap between you will become more and more numerous, and the age gap is too large, which will only increase the barrier between the two people.
Although we can't judge the feelings between two people by age, we also need to be more objective when facing feelings, if the gap between two people is too large, then it will also affect the feelings between two people.
02.
Family factors
Marriage is not a matter of two people, for us, marriage is actually a matter between two families, if the family between you is not harmonious and pleasant, then it means that the relationship between you can not last long.
Happy life, need the joint efforts of a family, each family will have their own family atmosphere, if you want to get along harmoniously, then the two families must learn the right way to get along.
03.
Material conditions
Some people may feel that it is inevitable that there will be some vulgarity in talking about materials in front of feelings, but in fact, when facing feelings, we are not vulgar, because material life is often the guarantee of feelings, and only when the feelings between the two of you can have a stable guarantee, the feelings between you can sublimate faster.
In the face of feelings, in fact, talking about materials is not terrible, because love is often mixed with too much chai rice oil and salt, when you are still worried about your livelihood, you naturally cannot love a person well.
No matter at what age, we have the right to pursue our own love, but in the face of love, we still hope that everyone can be rational, because only when you rationally think about a love, you can appreciate the beauty, if you don't even understand what love is, then how can you love others well?
Every woman is weak in the face of feelings, and when we are facing love, one thing we need to understand is whether two people are really suitable, and for inappropriate love, even if we barely live together, there will be no results.
I hope that every woman can find her own beauty when facing love, and only when you understand love better can you harvest happiness and beauty.
Learning to have more sanity in love is also the wisdom of a woman.