Joke, is it "emotional intelligence" or "bullying"

As a northeasterner, has been labeled tempered and likes to drink on behalf of! However, I have humiliated the northeasterners in this regard, and my temper is not very explosive, but also a drop of wine!

It is precisely because of this that people always joke: xx, you really don't look like a Northeasterner! In order to highlight my high emotional intelligence, I am smiling lightly! But after a long time, the mood is inevitably not beautiful! However, these jokes are harmless and are still patient!

However, sometimes some jokes are a bit too much! I have a colleague who has some cleanliness! Many people know that cleanliness is more like a mental illness than a habit! It was hard for him to tolerate some dirty spots on his body! Usually, I also clean my desk spotlessly. Even every time I come to the office early to clean up!

Once, other people in the company took advantage of the fact that he didn't care and stuck a chewing gum on his head! This kind of prank, I also encountered when I was in school! Disgusting! The average person can't afford it, let alone a colleague with a cleanliness habit!

At that time, my colleague almost broke down and cried! Got the attention of the whole company! After that, he left the company! The prankster sneered at this, thinking that the colleague had deliberately done so to escalate the incident! Later, he was also dismissed!

It's not a good ending! Nowadays, people's nerves are fragile and sensitive, and everyone has their own sore feet! I have always believed that jokes should be cautious and should not become a tool for you to play gimmicks and engage in performance! Jokes are big, it hurts, and sometimes it's worse than you think!