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Usually, whether watching TV dramas or novels, we all hope to see two people who love each other have experienced many tribulations, and finally become family members, have lovers together, and each other will not live up to their previous efforts and efforts. However, this is the happy ending that many people are looking forward to, but there are too many changes and accidents in the relationship, and there are many examples of various obstacles that lead to a couple of lovers not being able to be together.
The same is true in real life, what is more painful than falling in love with someone but not being able to stay together, not being able to be together, I think this is the saddest and helpless thing in love.
Everyone's personality is different, and their views and practices of love are also different, so the love ending of two people will be different. Everyone wants their love to blossom and bear fruit, but if you really fall in love with someone who can't stay together and can't be together due to various factors, what should you do?
If you're in love with someone you can't possibly stay with, keep two words in mind.
First, if you know from the beginning that you can't stay together, let go early to avoid getting deeper and deeper
In feelings, it is not excluded that some people regard love as indifferent, and some people regard each other as the whole of their lives once they fall in love. Those who know that they are in love with someone who cannot be together, know that they will be hurt, but they can't put it down and can't forget it. We all know that when it comes to falling in love with someone, very few people can keep sane all the time.
Those who are worried about injury and cannot let go decisively, the most rational choice is to let go early to avoid falling deeper and deeper, and finally bringing themselves pain that is difficult to repair.
Letting go is easier said than done. But the harder it is, the more we should learn to make the right choices at the right time. Because a lot of love faces a lot of obstacles at the beginning, many factors that cannot be solved, these are the key reasons that directly lead to the inability of two people to stay together and be together.
Unless we both have enough confidence to face and solve all the obstacles together, if the other person's attitude is not as firm as you think, then what reason is there for you to continue to love with a dead heart. People who can't experience the ups and downs of love together, and who shrink back when they encounter obstacles, are enough to show that the use of love is not deep enough.
So, when you're in love with someone you can't be together, remember the phrase: "If you know you can't stay together at the beginning, let go early to avoid getting deeper and deeper." ”
If you are sentimental, find a goal to divert your attention
Girls who like to watch romance novels and TV series, they will have different views on love, watch more beautiful love stories, and if they find themselves in love with people who can't be together, they will unconsciously become sentimental. You can't accept the results of not being able to keep each other, and you can't bear the cost of being injured.
They don't know how to get out of this fruitless love, and they can only watch themselves sink deeper and deeper, unable to extricate themselves. But the more such sentimental people, once they find a goal, they can divert their attention and try to move their focus to other places.
As you become more awake, you can also minimize your damage. Changing the target is not about finding someone else to replace him in your heart. The goal can be something you're interested in, or a job you love, and you can devote your time and energy to what you like to do.
When you make progress and results in the things you like to do, you will become confident, and you will find that you do not have extra time to think about unhappy things, and you can also be relieved from your feelings early. Maybe this may not be suitable for everyone, but it is also a way to try it.
Believe in a word, falling in love with someone who can't be together, sometimes it's not that you're not good enough, it's not that you're not good enough, but that the other person is not suitable for you.
Conclusion:
If you're in love with someone you can't be together with, remember these two sentences. A lot of love that doesn't have a perfect ending seems a pity, a pity, but from another point of view, it is not a good thing. To be free from a relationship that doesn't fit is to meet the next one sooner rather than later.
In fact, the most distant distance in this world is that familiar people become strangers. From now on, your world no longer has me, I can no longer fit into your world, and my world will no longer have your participation.
For many people who love and can't, this is undoubtedly the most cruel. But after all, life is full of unsatisfactory things, and we have no way of expecting life to develop as we imagine it to be.
And what we can do is adjust our mindset and face everything in life. Although it is difficult to say, it is necessary to remember a sentence: "There is no obstacle that cannot be passed, as long as there is a person who cannot pass." ”
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