Imperfect and uninvolved marriage
Simei is a veritable member of the Appearance Association, and has always fantasized about finding a beautiful character to marry, which is the supreme ideal of sixteen-year-old Qiao Simei. Sanli once laughed at her: Just do it, there will be bitterness for you to eat in the future, Sanli will become a slur, Simei later met Qi Chenggang and took a happy life for half a lifetime.
Simei and Qi Chenggang met in a season when their hearts were so stuffy that their hearts were hairy, that day Simei asked her little sister to go shopping, and was blocked by a rain in the Xinjiekou Department Store, so easy the rain stopped, Simei muttered and walked forward, and then she saw a handsome young man.
The young man was wearing a summer military uniform, his face tanned, the brim of his hat obscuring his eyes, and all he could see was a clearly lined chin with a small nest in the middle of the chin, like a Westerner.
From the age of fourteen, Qiao Simei made up her mind to marry a handsome man like a prince in the future, and the man went to a shop to rest his feet and took off his hat to fan the wind.
Qiao Simei shouted: Qi Chenggang? Are you Qi Chenggang?
The young man looked at Qiao Simei, tried to identify it for a while, and laughed: Qiao Simei.
Si Mei walked briskly over and looked up at him slightly.
Do you remember me? Four beauty asked.
Oh, remember, you, become less. Qi Chenggang said.
After the two greeted each other, Simei actually took the initiative to buy a pen for Qi Chenggang, for the two mermaids to pass the ruler, and wrote down the address in the palm of each other's hands, but Qi Chenggang who went back washed his face because of the hot weather, and the address was also pasted off, but it didn't matter, after he returned to the station after his vacation, only a month later, the messenger sent three letters from Qiao Simei. Although there were no words too close to Qi Chenggang in his letter later, let alone any clues to show his heart, Qiao Simei naturally regarded himself as Qi Chenggang's girlfriend and fiancée.
However, Qi Chenggang's feelings for Simei were unknown, so the young and vigorous Simei rushed to Lhasa alone, held a wedding in Lhasa that touched him, and became a military subordinate as he wished.
The first cheating on a dark and rough Tibetan girl
The two gathered less and left more, and just when Simei wanted to go to Lhasa again, Qi Chenggang returned and was driven by the troops. He was in Lhasa, and a Tibetan girl near the station fell in love, was discovered by the troops, here also involved the state's ethnic minority policy, originally to be dealt with by military law, considering that he had made a meritorious deed, plus the girl jumped out, took all the responsibility on herself, desperately protected Qi Chenggang, said that if he disposed of himself, he would die with him. Qi Chenggang was considered to have escaped from death, but the troops could not stay, and after five years as a soldier, let alone a job change, not even demobilization, he rolled up the covers, took advantage of the night, and left Lhasa overnight.
The Tibetan girl stayed outside the barracks for one night and did not see Qi Chenggang for the last time.
Qi Chenggang remembers that the first time he saw her was on a Sunday, when he was resting, he went to the market and bought a Tibetan knife at her stall.
Dawa's skin was the same as that of the locals, dark and slightly rough, two red patches on her cheeks, but her eyes were burning and flashing, as if there were two small suns hidden in her eyes. Dawa has a broad forehead, a well-proportioned skeleton, and thick hair that shines with oil. She looked at the young soldier in front of her who was smiling at her, tall and handsome, more beautiful than the Khampa man, and smiled more and more warmly.
On the second Sunday, Qi Chenggang did not leave the camp, and on the third Sunday, he met Dawa again.
Dawa said: I haven't seen you in a long time! The tone was warm, as if they had known each other for a long time. She brought hot butter tea, which must be drunk by Qi Chenggang.
Qi Chenggang thought that he could be considered tempted by Dawa.
Dawa took the initiative to invite Qi Chenggang, and every Sunday market, Dawa handed the stall to her sister-in-law, and then dragged Qi Chenggang to fly to a deserted grass. Here they hugged and rolled, kissing passionately, and Dawa pulled Qi Chenggang's hair hard, biting his lips, and then laughing and lying on the ground, wrapped in grass clippings.
Dawa is like some kind of soft, juicy and tender food, so rich and fat that people can't help but bite it.
Suddenly one day Dawa said: Let's get married.
At that time, the sky was so blue, people had to do something to live up to this piece of holy blue, Qi Chenggang said without thinking: Good!
Qi Chenggang quickly forgot his "good" word, but Dawa confessed the truth, and during another meeting, Qi Chenggang must go to her house to propose to her. Qi Chenggang only then discovered the seriousness of the matter, and told Dawa that he was a married person with a family, and it was impossible to marry her.
Dawa was furious and sued Qi Chenggang on the same day, saying that Qi Chenggang had raped her.
Qi Chenggang was immediately imprisoned. Because the matter involves ethnic policy, Qi Chenggang is likely to be sentenced to death.
Dawa almost immediately regretted it, she did not expect that things would be so serious, and jumped out again, saying that it was not so, it was her willingness, and she wanted to die to protect Qi Chenggang.
This matter was investigated for more than a month, and finally, Qi Chenggang was dismissed by the troops.
After returning home, a style problem was enough to withstand a thousand words, and it was the grief-stricken Simei who helped him deceive and lie, and in the end Qi Chenggang seemed to believe it, and the wind and snow in Lhasa seemed to no longer exist. In marriage, because of the love of Qi Chenggang, Simei chose to forgive, because of face, Simei chose to hide, in broken love, women are always easy to be soft-hearted, whether it is Simei or Dawa, they all choose to forgive, choose to be perfect, on the contrary, Qi Chenggang, is a complete villain, there is a thief heart, there is a thief's guts, but there is no courage, no responsibility, ruined the two girls.
The second infidelity - the old woman who still has the charm
The second derailment occurred when Qiao Simei was seven months pregnant, at that time Simei's body was already quite bulky, the class was not on, and he took leave early to give birth at home, those two years, opening a rental was still a very profitable industry, Qi Chenggang was also a diligent person, and he was young, mentally good, and earned a lot of money every month.
Simei stayed at home all day, the light in the old house was not very good, she was facing the four walls of the bald, watching TV and seeing that her eyeballs were about to fall out, she braced herself and walked around the house and outside the house, and she felt that she was stupid like a fat female goose.
That day also somehow, to more than seven o'clock, the family can not stay, Qiao old man in the living room to watch TV, while snoozing vigorously, half open mouth, dragging the saliva, Simei is really stuffy, want to go out for a walk, Qi Chenggang generally this hour will come back, his friend recently lost love, sleep badly at night, and exchanged evening shifts with him.
Simei moved to the alley and found Qi Chenggang's car parked not far away. Drilling out of the car first was a woman, and Simei thought it was Qi Chenggang's guest.
The woman seemed to be a few years older than Simei and Qi Chenggang, with curly hair and high coils on her head, the kind of barber shop that was plated and could not be washed for a few days. The woman was plump and tall, her ass was upturned, and her body was swollen and firm as if she would jump out of her tight clothes at any moment. Seeing that the woman and Qi Chenggang were clinging to each other, the woman rubbed on Qi Chenggang's body, as if she wanted to squeeze herself into his body, and she was sorry to say goodbye. Simei was admitted to the hospital that night, but when the silly girl Simei saw Qi Chenggang smiling and asked her what she wanted to eat, she continued to choose to forgive, and she did not ask anything. Simei gave birth to a daughter early, the daughter is as beautiful as Snow White, and gradually she seems to forget what happened before, until the woman sent a pager to Qi Chenggang: I haven't seen you for a long time, come out? Old place? Si mei used all her strength to smash the machine on Qi Chenggang's head, and with a bang, Qi Chenggang immediately covered his forehead.
Si Mei fell on the bed and cried out loudly: Ah, you ansheng point, ansheng point, ansheng point! Later, Qi Chenggang came to apologize to Simei, and although Simei did not say forgiveness, her attitude was already expressed in action, and she once again forgave him. When Qiao Yicheng finally knew about Qi Chenggang and ran to find Simei, Simei had already forgiven Qi Chenggang. Qiao Yicheng slapped Qi Chenggang and slapped it, and with a loud bang, Qi Chenggang's face immediately tattooed five finger marks.
Simei's name: Big Brother, Big Brother.
Yicheng stared at Simei, simei was weak-hearted, and said: Big brother, he changed, he promised him to change, he will change.
Simei is facing her husband who has cheated again, not only did she not cut the mess quickly, she even protected him confusedly, and women in love are always easy to fall into a relationship, even if they are all wounded, even if they repeat the same mistakes. But Qi Chenggang's performance is indeed chilling, the family has a wife who is hard to conceive, how can he bear to cheat, the rate of cheating when pregnant is the highest, but there are still many good men, can understand the pregnant wife, Qi Chenggang He is a man who has no conscience at all,
The third infidelity - the little nanny from the outside
Because of the last experience and the growth of the child, Qi Chenggang was honest for a while, but there was a first time and the second time there will be a third time, he cheated again, this time is a small nanny from Anhui, called Meng Guizhi, because he can't stand to serve people, on the street saw Qi Chenggang's bookstore looking for a partner, Qi Chenggang left her behind. Meng Guizhi is clever and capable, Qi Chenggang wants to give her a salary increase, but she refuses, a chenggang brother, saying that he wants to live in the bookstore and save money for renting. Meng Guizhi stayed in the bookstore. That day, it rained a day, Qi Chenggang came over in the evening and said, close the door early tonight, this weather will not have any business, after saying it, but stayed in the store did not go, smiling and squinting that he wanted to see Guizhi's "small boudoir".
Meng Guizhi was amused by his statement, and the ghost made the god look like a god, and slapped him on his bare arm with his sleeves rolled up high, saying that he was talking nonsense.
But still let him into the palm-sized place, Qi Chenggang's tall body frame suddenly filled the small space, he smiled and said: Yo, you actually stuffed a simple wardrobe here, I want to see what fashionable clothes are inside.
Saying that, he pulled open the zipper in front of the plastic wardrobe, and saw a pink bra hanging in front of him, Qi Chenggang gently groaned, pulled the zipper up again, turned around, and collided with Meng Guizhi who came in, two people mistakenly you let me let you, but as the book said, "Yellow Eagle grabbed the harrier's foot" - both people 'buckled the ring'. Since this day, Meng Guizhi's eyes have completely changed when he sees Qi Chenggang, and he can see that Qi Chenggang has a layer of heat waves and fine hairs, Qi Chenggang is not unhappy, but he is still a little worried, trouble is trouble, he thinks happily and uneasily. This drama was pulled down after Meng Guizhi was pregnant, the Meng family demanded compensation from him, the brothers and sisters did not want to give Qi Chenggang another chance, or Simei begged bitterly, when everyone advised Simei to divorce, Simei said: I will not leave, and I will not leave when I die! Qi Chenggang! He didn't want to dump me in this life, so I spent time with him to see who could spend whom! Simei should really love Qi Chenggang, can forgive him for making mistakes again and again, and let the eldest brother rest assured, firmly believe that Qi Chenggang can be changed, but how can he be assured? Because of love, choose to forgive and accept, because do not love, so arbitrary harm, in the final analysis, is just not enough love.
Qi Chenggang's three derailments prove that men cheat in marriage, in fact, it is really regardless of the object, whether it is the dark and rough Tibetan girl Dawa, or the plump and tall sister, or the nanny Meng Guizhi from abroad, they may be better than Simei in some aspects, but on the whole, there is no comparison with Simei, and the appearance in the original book can be regarded as the appearance of Simei, but lost to them in marriage. Men are easy to be unfaithful in marriage, they can't stand the test, just like Miss Wenli in the golden marriage, in the face of Xiao Xia's pursuit, he can face his family squarely, but the good man Tong Zhi cheated on Li Tianjiao mentally. People, to learn to face their marriage, in time to stop the loss, is better than the final two losers.