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01. Preface
Running a life is like learning a management discipline. The better at managing your own life, knowing how to chase according to your heart, and planning your life, the more you can get a different life.
Everyone has dreams and pursuits in their hearts, but there are always some people who gradually lose the poems and distant places that were once hanging on their lips on the road of pursuit. Gradually lost confidence, and chose to give up.
In the face of the unknown, many people do not know which path they should choose to take, take one step at a time, and have no plan for their lives.
Life needs to be planned. Planning is a goal established in the future, but also a good wish in the heart.
Planning may not be complete, but it can make your life more organized.
No plan for the future is like bumping into a maze with no exit. If you want to get something, you must pay accordingly, and a planned forward can make the direction of the way forward more clear.
How much of a person's performance can be seen from his "planning".
02, without planning, there will be a sense of confusion on the road of life
Goethe once said, "Whoever plays with life will achieve nothing; whoever does not dominate himself will always be a slave." ”
A planned life is like giving yourself a clear direction to go at each stage. I will not let myself have too much confusion on the road of life, and I will not be upset because I don't know what to do next.
People without planning, when faced with the crossroads on the road of life, will hesitate, do not know what they want, so they do not know how to rely on hard work to fight. The vagueness of the goal will make people feel confused on the road of life.
Living without a plan can make life chaotic.
It's like, you're going to an important meeting tomorrow, you didn't prepare anything the night before, and you wait until you wake up in the morning to get tangled up in what to wear, what kind of hairstyle to comb, to make yourself panic, and almost to be late.
A life without planning often makes people busy, their emotions will be affected, and the comfort of life is not high.
Conversely, if you have a planned life, know that you are going to a meeting, do your homework in advance, prepare the materials for the meeting, and arrange the clothing you want to wear.
Life must be planned no matter what, and only in planning will the possible consequences be taken into account, rather than being walking and stopping.
Without a planned life, every step of life is an emergency.
03, no planning, will make people feel more distant from success
Whether a thing can be done successfully or not sometimes does not depend on a person's ability, but on his attitude towards things.
There is no planning for things, people who are not self-disciplined will procrastinate, and people who are not confident will give up because of failure. Gradually, success will also be farther and farther away from them.
People who don't have a plan often don't have a big show.
Without planning, people feel more distant from success. Because it is difficult to succeed, it is even less confident to do everything well, so a vicious circle is formed.
When there is no planning for life, when there is no clue, it is easy to discourage people's enthusiasm.
Chernyshevsky: "A man who is not inspired by the passion of his dedication will never do anything great." ”
After a long time in society, you will find that there are always many helplessness and challenges, and if you want to change your fate, you must first overcome yourself.
A life without planning is like a lack of faith, and it gradually loses its way on the road to success.
The more days without a sense of accomplishment, people will gradually lose self-confidence, and they will also make people feel more distant from success.
Without planning and goals, people will live a very empty life, there is no specific concept of the future, and naturally they will be farther away from success.
04, there is a plan, so that the road of life can go more and more direction
With a planned life, the initiative will not be led by the nose. If you want to realize the value of life, you must learn to plan for yourself.
Andrew Carnegie once said, "If you want to be happy, set a goal that directs your mind, unleashes your energy, and inspires your hope." ”
There is a plan, so that the road of life can go more and more direction, step by step, steadfastly in accordance with the planned route forward, a goal to achieve, can motivate themselves to move forward better.
A planned life can make people feel a sense of accomplishment because of the completion of the plan, and they are full of expectations for the future.
Planning is more like the spiritual pillar of our efforts to move forward, and the year-on-year growth of self-confidence and ability will make the road of life smoother and smoother, and let people understand the meaning of persistence and hard work.
Even if it is a short-term goal, you can exercise your ability to move forward in a controlled state.
Planning does not have to be great and detailed, its meaning is to restrain itself and avoid the waste of self-resources caused by inertia.
People who know how to plan and people who don't have a plan, their lives are very different. People who have plans are often more productive.
05. Summary
People who don't know how to plan, stumble all their lives, waste too much time, and when they are old, they can achieve nothing, which also makes life seem mediocre.
Nakajima said: "Because I am afraid that I am not a pearl, I dare not think hard, and because I have some belief that it is a pearl, I cannot be with the rubble... As a result, he constantly reared his cowardly self-esteem with resentment and shame in his heart. ”
Everyone wants to live a happy life, but not on a whim, nor on the lips, and the day they want will come.
People live, have a plan for their future, and be clear about what they want.
Once life has a goal, step by step to implement, there will be motivation, all the way to work hard, in the fruitful fruits of labor will also become confident, self-reliant.
On the road of life, there is a plan to move forward, and life can be lived like what you like.
To move forward with a plan, we must first clarify what we want and work hard for it, and a life with a goal will be more meaningful.
When everything goes smoothly in the plan, the happiness index of life will gradually increase.
Take advantage of the fact that it is still too late, plan carefully, don't let yourself fall into confusion, and spend your life in a fog.
You must know that it is precisely because of the goal that people live a full sense of fullness in this long time, which is also the value of life.
People with planning often have a career, and their lives will be different and wonderful.
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Author: Xia Mo MO, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.