If there are people, there will be rivers and lakes; and if there is wine, many unexpected things will be born. Since ancient times, the liquor bureau has been a chaotic occasion for a person's heart and human nature to show their true colors and background colors. The people here, three or three, two in two, push the cup to change the cup, the love to the depths, the wine to the best, the heart swaying, it is inevitable that they will be drunk. It is extremely common for drunkards from ancient times to linger on the wine table, and it is extremely common for some people to get drunk and cheerful, to be proud and forgetful, to say something inappropriate, to do something inappropriate.
When drinking alone, you can freely do whatever you want, and when it comes to the liquor store where everyone drinks, you must pay attention to the measure. Caution is needed when drinking alcohol, and caution is required after drunkenness. Pay attention to your words and deeds, especially when drinking with His Holiness, elders, and superiors, you need to be more cautious, and this kind of liquor bureau rule is also highly respected by the ancients.
In the liquor bureau, even after drinking, it is necessary to be as gentle and calm as possible. The best state is the same as when you are not drinking. Just as recorded in the "Book of Jin and the Biography of Yu Tan", there is a story about the father of the famous Eastern Jin Dynasty scholar Yu Xiao: "Father Tansun Xiao, who has been a servant in the past, was loved by Emperor Xiaowu. Tasting the feast, the emperor calmly asked, "Qing is under the door, did not hear anything to offer for Yahweh at first?" Xiao Father's house was near the sea, saying that the emperor had something to ask for, and said: "The weather is warm, the turtle shrimp and grasshoppers have not been able to cause, and there is something to offer." The emperor laughed, because he was drunk and could not get up. Emperor Gu Yue: "Fu Yu Shi Zhong." Father Xiao said: "The subject has not been supported in time, he is too drunk to be chaotic, he is not divided, and he does not dare to do it." 'Emperor Shi Yue. Yu Xiao's father was deeply favored by Sima Yao, the Emperor Xiaowu of the Eastern Jin Dynasty. Sima Yao himself indulged in drinking, and once Yu Xiao's father was waiting for Sima Yao to drink, and Sima Yao asked when he was slightly drunk: "You have been serving by my side for a long time, don't you want to pay tribute to me?" Yu Xiao's father's family was close to the sea, and when he heard such words, he calmly replied: The weather is still a little hot, and the fish and shrimp in the sea are not yet the best taste, and the subordinates will send them after a while. Sima Yao was very happy to hear this, so he gave him a lot of wine.
Of course, the story doesn't end here, but goes further. When Sima Yao finished drinking and left the table, Yu Xiao's father bid farewell, too drunk to even stand up, sima Yao asked his servants to help him. Although Yu Xiao's father was already very drunk at this time, he still adhered to the duty of the courtier, and did not get carried away by the emperor's rewards and graces, and after hearing Sima Yao's words, he hurriedly refused: The official status of the subordinates is not high enough to reach the level of the emperor's reward and support, and even if the courtiers are drunk, they cannot mess with the etiquette, and I will never dare to be the king's "non-divided gift". After Sima Yao heard Yu Xiao's father's answer, he was even happier. Here, Yu Xiaofu's response can be called a "textbook" level.
The measure on the liquor bureau is extremely difficult to grasp, drunk and dizzy, words and deeds are difficult to sustain themselves, you drinking friends, but you must keep it in mind.