You look for reasons from others and go crazy when you think about it. You look for the reason in yourself and think about it.
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You're in trouble, hiding in the corner of your room crying. You don't find reasons in yourself, you're cynical, you complain that your parents didn't give you a good family background. In the end, no one helped you, and you failed.
Everyone will encounter difficulties. Some people invite guests to dinner, some people try to find a way, and some people look for doorways everywhere. We are all mortal, so we have to use secular methods, don't we? The result of escape is to present a cowardly self, you admit it, and that's the way it is.
Growing up is when you eventually discover that everyone in the world has it, and anything can happen. When you are able to face it openly, when you learn to control your emotions, when you don't want to force change, you will get a new life.
Advice: When encountering things, don't panic, and facing it positively is the best way. There is calmness in every major event. When you encounter a big event, sleep and wake up. When you encounter small things, go and do them immediately. There is a solution to everything, depending on whether you have a positive attitude. Being trapped in it and not being able to get out is the biggest failure to live your life.
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Looking for a daughter-in-law, you must find the right door. Women, you can find a good home. Men, it is best to find someone with similar conditions to themselves, or not as good as their own. Try to look at the marriage around you, men are weak and women are strong, how many have a good life?
A family, the woman is strong, the man is not strong, the family is unbalanced, and every day there will be a smell of gun smoke.
The best destination for men is not only the hot kiln of wives and children, but also the consolidation of their own economic foundation. With a career and a sense of responsibility, we can give a better life to the family, and the marriage can be longer and more stable.
Suggestion: Men get married, find a life in a down-to-earth manner, find a door-to-door right, or worse than themselves. Generally speaking, a family, strong men and weak women, will be particularly harmonious. If the man's career is small and successful, and the woman has a little admiration for the man, it is the husband singing with the woman, and the hundred years are good.
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Wealth and positions must be fought for according to their own abilities, not just ambition. A lot of wealth can't be rejected, and you can't stop it. In the same way, when your ability is reached, it will naturally be promoted.
If a character is too lustful and has poor moral character, the result is that morality is not worthy and disaster strikes.
Advice: Read and study more, cultivate more morality, and do more good deeds. Don't pay too much attention to material things, pay more attention to the spirit, when we go to accumulate virtue, even if the material needs are temporarily not available, we will feel particularly happy, and the heavens will eventually give a satisfactory result.
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Going to work is to get off work, and leaving work is to get to work. Going to work is for life, and leaving work is a better life after rest. Life is decades long, day after day, in a hurry, just for the sake of breaking silver. But what is missing in life is precisely these two pieces of silver. These two pieces of silver can relieve the suffering of life, can break the troubles of the world, can break people's shoulders, and can make people sad and broken their intestines.
Advice: We spend our whole lives trying to be ourselves. Life with dignity, value is affirmed, and belonging is loved. This process is the process of our struggle with life, or the process of running with life. Some people outperformed, some gave up. But no matter what, you have to remember, don't forget your original intention of running. Use your own efforts to make life better, make your economic foundation more solid, and you have the initiative.
In life, looking at people who don't look good is a kind of cultivation. To accommodate people who cannot be tolerated is a kind of mind.
Perhaps, leaving some regrets in everything can be eternal.
The best state is to learn to please yourself and make yourself happy.
After all, we've been chasing happiness from start to finish.........