Good words don't have to sound good, and what sounds good doesn't have to be good. The right words are not necessarily good words - it is a good thing to say that makes people comfortable, makes people happy, makes people not upset, and can make people face life positively and optimistically. The teachings of the parents and teachers may be very strict, and the words may not be so beautiful, but this is a good word that cannot be doubted for their own growth; Among true friends, when we go astray, the kind counsel of friends, perhaps tactfully, perhaps harshly, whatever, we cannot doubt that this is a good word. If the words spoken are a bit "fierce", but can help the other party to correct the mistakes, as long as it is a sincere love heart, the harsh words are also good words, but such good words need a kind of wisdom to be harmonious, need to be skillful and convenient.
Good things don't have to be true, and truths don't have to be good words. Sometimes, after saying hurtful words, he still patted his chest and said that he was a piece of kindness, a "knife mouth, a tofu heart". But in fact, as long as it is a good heart, a word of hurt will not be exported. If the truth is a hurt, choose the lie; If a lie is a harm, choose silence. Speaking well is not just a language skill, it reflects a person's tolerance, generosity and selflessness. Between words, don't be so mean, don't skimp on our smiling faces, say more good things, say more blessings, and say more happy words. Kindness, good words, and smiling faces will bring warmth to the world and purity to the heart.
"Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are cold in June", if there is flattery in your heart, please do not say it, because it pollutes your own heart; If you have hatred in your heart, even if it is only the slightest bit of ugly, please do not say it, because not only hurt others, but also torture yourself. If the heart is "too high", you can't see the good of others, you have jealousy in your heart, you can't tolerate the good of others, those who are not willing to say even a word of good words, and the hearts that do not want to send their own affirmations, praises, greetings, and blessings are close to indifference. Good words, do not need much effort, just gently use the tip of the tongue to sincerely send good words, you will find that you send good words, the harvest will be precious friendship, your words not only warm others, the first warm is that you almost went to the indifferent heart. You will reap the spring blossoms of a heart.