"There are only zero and countless times of domestic violence, and not once can be forgiven."
For domestic violence, many people's attitude is very resolute, only zero times and countless times, so in the beginning of the first time can not be forgiven. Recently, Lan Youshi, a singer who has suffered domestic violence, decided to go to the end with her ex-husband Tong Enning, which triggered the public opinion of netizens.
Lan Youshi divorced her husband in early 2019, when Lan said that she had been verbally abused and applied for a protection order. Unexpectedly, after a while, Lan complained about the man's alcoholism and domestic violence on social media.
However, the man responded that "not speaking out does not mean acquiescence", and also listed the relevant regulations to accuse Lan of the public judicial process and the child's photos suspected of violating the law, and the relevant cases were handed over to the lawyers.
In fact, the relationship between the two people did not last for several years. At the end of December 2012, the two registered their marriage, and in 2014, they held a wedding and received the blessings of many people. But within five years, the marriage between the two had already broken down.
After the divorce, Lan claimed to have suffered very severe verbal violence before the divorce. Unexpectedly, Lan complained and lost the case. Therefore, Lan sometimes posted on social media denouncing the judge for not believing her ex-husband's accusations of alcoholism and domestic violence, but believing Tong Enning's one-sided words. Therefore, at this stage, she decided to stand up and defend her rights and interests, after all, domestic violence is domestic violence and cannot be forgiven at all.
Later, Lan pointed out that at the time of the trial, she had already received two years of protection, thinking that she could protect herself from being insulted by her ex-husband, and even more from being threatened by him, but she did not expect to lose the case. This let Lan know that the judge can let the other party's lies on social media to win a lot of recognition.
At first, Lan wanted to save some face for the other party, because she didn't want to become the kind of couple who parted ways, and let everyone see the joke. So when the reporter interviewed her before, she was reluctant to say more, but she didn't expect it to prove that she was wrong. People showed no mercy when they intimidated her on social media.
These words also dispelled Lan Youshi's last concern about this feeling. Now she has decided to stand up and accuse her ex-husband and has sent a long post.
The article pointed out that the child is afraid of him and is unwilling to follow him, which cannot be explained no matter what. Lan also broke the news that her ex-husband had secretly recorded the child's smiling face playing the game, and told the judge that this was a proof that he and the child had a good relationship.
But in fact, the child did not know that he was being videotaped, and he was very disgusted after knowing that he was videotaped, and asked his mother why his father did this? On the contrary, Lan Youshi himself has always maintained the good image of the father in the child's heart.
In addition, the ex-husband will not take good care of the children at all. For example, when he is alone with children, he will drink alone, and after drinking too much, he will be very angry. Not only will he lose his temper, but he will also pound the wall, and when he sees the child hiding, he will chase and scold him. Not only that, but the child's close friends also witnessed her ex-husband's drunkenness and madness.
Immediately, Lan questioned from time to time whether the judge's delay in passing on the witnesses was there any secret that could not be made public. Although Lan Didn't want to go public at first to protect his children, he couldn't stand it anymore.
Moreover, Blue once again made a strong statement of his attitude. If the ex-husband continues to dwell on this, she will fight back again and use her public figure to warn him not to do anything like this again.
In fact, in the entertainment industry, this kind of domestic violence is frequently seen, and there is a precedent for it.
Speaking of Wang Zijian, many netizens are very familiar with him, he is the host of the post-80s talk show, and he is known as a talented and handsome person. It's just that although he has won everyone's attention with his excellent eloquence, he did not expect that at home, Wang Zijian was just a humble male, and he had actually been abused by the family a long time ago.
At that time, he was still on the stage of the talk show to ridicule himself for being abused at home and beaten by his wife, but at that time, everyone thought it was a paragraph, and the laughter passed, and he did not take it seriously.
Who would have known that all this was actually true. Because his wife is a sanda champion, Wang Zijian can't fight her at all. Moreover, after the two divorced, Wang Zijian admitted that he had been slapped at least 500 times during marriage, and his wife burned his body with a cigarette butt. Therefore, in such an environment, he also suffered from depression.
After the divorce, he disappeared for a long time, and after self-healing, he chose to be liberated. It has now slowly begun to return to everyone's attention.
But the examples of men like Wang Zijian being beaten are really rare. A few years ago, the sensational domestic violence incident was that Jiang Jinfu found a Japanese girlfriend and committed domestic violence against him.
At first, people were skeptical about his girlfriend's identity, but more and more photos, videos, and examples proved its authenticity. Subsequently, Jiang Jinfu also had to admit the matter and apologize. It's just that now he has disappeared from the entertainment industry, which is also what he deserves.
Huang Jingyu, who is known as serving in the entertainment industry, has actually been exposed to domestic violence scandals before. At that time, there were even many people who did not know that Wang Yuxin and Huang Jingyu had obtained a license to marry. But because she committed suicide and was rescued, she was on the hot search, fortunately there was no danger to her life.
According to reports, the reason for her suicide was that Huang Jingyu had abused her too much during her marriage, causing Wang Yuxin to suffer from depression. As soon as such news broke, it attracted everyone's attention. But no one dares to believe that such a sunny and handsome boy in front of us is actually the culprit of domestic violence.
Subsequently, Wang Yuxin posted more and more evidence. For example, some photos of his marriage with Huang Jingyu, as well as various small details, and evidence of his marital infidelity. However, there is no conclusive conclusion on whether this matter is true or false, but as soon as the news broke, it has already brought a lot of influence to Huang Jingyu.
In a small entertainment circle alone, domestic violence is so obvious, not to mention in our ordinary society. What kind of people will be domestic violence?
Most of them have obstacles in their hearts, or have grievances. But once there is a first domestic violence, it will definitely not be the last. The pleasure brought to them by such irrationality will make them more and more addicted, and will turn one domestic violence into countless times. This is why many people say that domestic violence will not end once it starts.
As long as the other party hits you once and the punishment is not big enough, he will have no other feelings, but will beat you countless times when he is in a bad mood. Because he knew that even after the fight, it would be nothing more than that.
It is precisely because more and more women hold a reluctant or unwilling attitude, always indifferent in the face of their beatings, but forgive him many times, so that they have the pleasure of indulgence. Therefore, in the face of domestic violence, we must be brave enough to say no and be brave enough to resist at the first time.