#权相佑老婆从没展现过生理现象 #
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I saw a very strange hot search: Quan Xiangyou's wife never showed a physiological phenomenon.
I thought that there was a problem with their husband and wife's feelings, and that Kwon's wife had no physiological reaction to Kwon. When I clicked in, I learned that it was so many years of marriage that his wife had maintained a perfect image in front of him, and even the public farting had never happened.
Recently, rain and Kwon Sang-woo generously shared their relationship with their wives on the show, rain revealed that he kissed his wife Kim Tae-hee every morning and evening, and Kwon Sang-woo complained about it: "Isn't kissing done anytime and anywhere?" Do you only have morning and evening kisses? Kwon Sang-woo said that he and his wife Sun Tae-young have been married for 12 years and are still in love, revealing that "my wife has never shown physiological phenomena in front of me, has not smelled, nor heard."
Sure enough, fairies don't have to fart!
But what is the problem? If you are only married for two or three years, it is nothing, but it is too strange to be married for twelve years without letting go of your fart in front of your husband. And isn't the physiological phenomenon of farting very normal? Two people together, living under the same roof, is it necessary to be so perfect?
Men really like to talk about women in private, and it is amazing to show affection, but I don't think this way of showing affection is so good, but I feel that it is very sad to be a woman. Is it necessary to maintain such a perfect image between husband and wife? Shouldn't two people be honest with each other when they are together? If everything is so perfect, how tired should it be?
After twelve years of marriage, I have not let my fart in public in front of my husband, what if one day I don't hold on to it?
There is a topic survey on Weibo that says: Will you pay attention to the image in front of your other half?
Most of the netizens choose to be: no, be true to yourself.
There are also some netizens who choose: when they are just in love, they will pay attention to the image, and they will not do it for a long time.
In fact, we talk about love and marriage to find the right partner, two people can live together, if he loves only your perfect image, then the feelings between you are also easy to deteriorate. For normal couples and couples, this kind of thing is tolerable for physiological phenomena, and it does not have to be perfect.
Kwon Sang-woo's revelations sound quite proud, but what I want to remind women is: women, you don't need to be too perfect in front of men, and there is no need to be perfect.
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I also quite like Han Xingquan Xiangyou, once watched his "Stairway to Heaven", and I also liked him from that time. At that time, I still regarded him and Choi Ji-woo as a couple, and later I learned that he was married to Sun Tae-young. They married in 2008, gave birth to a son in 2009, and gave birth to a daughter in 15 years. Now that the two of them have been married for 12 years, the relationship between the two people should be quite good.
And Kwon Sang-woo also said that "kissing is not something that must be done anytime and anywhere", and it can be seen that his marriage to Sun Tae-young should be perfect. I also agree that kissing should be done between husband and wife anytime and anywhere, and you can kiss when you want, only in this way will the relationship between you be more intimate.
But I can't accept that a woman is too perfect in front of her husband to even have the normal physiological phenomenon of farting!
Have you ever seen an American drama "The Amazing Mrs. Maisel"?
The protagonist, Mickey Maisel, was born into a Jewish family and grew up in a comfortable life, studying at a famous girls' school and studying Russian literature. Later, Mickey met Joel, and the two got along well and entered the marriage hall. Four years later, they had a pair of children. Joel is a company executive, Mickey doesn't go out to work, what she has to do is to become the perfect housewife, which is very hard.
In order to become the perfect housewife, in order to maintain a perfect image in front of her husband, Mickey has never even been plain. She was the first one in the family to get up, and the last one to fall asleep in the family. She didn't want her husband to see herself without makeup. When her husband fell asleep, Mickey got up and went to the bathroom to remove her makeup; she got up in the morning, put on her makeup and lay back on the bed, so that her husband could wake up and see her beautiful self.
Not only to maintain her appearance, Mickey also strictly controls her body. She has been measuring her body shape before getting married, and maintaining her body shape in the most ideal state through dieting, fitness and other means. This habit is not interrupted during pregnancy. Four years after marriage, having given birth to two children, Mickey's figure is still as slim as ever, and she is still as beautiful and elegant as a girl.
But her husband, still cheating.
Is the perfect image that Mickey has maintained for more than four years the true self?
But no, in order to do this, she relied on self-discipline and squeezing herself. But after paying so much, her husband did not still cheat. What a man will do to you is, in many cases, irrelevant to your perfect image. What I want to ask you is, keep doing this, aren't you tired yourself? And with such efforts to be perfect, what do you get yourself?
When the marriage was rifted, Mrs. Maisel finally began to change herself, and she began to find her true self step by step. In fact, she is not so perfect, she will also have a nervous breakdown, and she will also be sad to drink drunk. When a person collapses, he will also throw away all kinds of things that are called perfect for himself.
There is a saying that I agree with: I love your complex truth, I don't love your perfection.
What about perfection, is it the real you? Do you feel comfortable on your own?
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Why do I say, "Woman, you don't need to be too perfect in front of a man"? Because you're already tired, there's no need to make yourself more tired, be real, even if it's sloppy, as long as you're comfortable.
Let me tell you about my personal experience.
I've had a bad cold since last week, not a fever, but I've been coughing and runny nose, and my throat hurts badly.
I can't feel bad, is it difficult to maintain any perfect image?
The tissues that wiped my nose were piled up and stubble, and I couldn't sleep at night. As soon as I lay down, I had a stuffy nose, I felt that my nose was not passing, the key was that my throat was not comfortable, and I even coughed out my lungs. I've all been like this, the most uncomfortable time.
I looked at my sick self in the mirror, and I didn't want to recognize the ugly.
But so what? I've all become like this, and it's hard to disguise how perfect I am. And I was pregnant, more than six months pregnant, so sick, I couldn't take medicine, I could only die. The cold lasted for a week, and during that time I felt like I was going to die. There is also the fact that pregnant women know that because of physiological reasons, a cough will leak urine, and you can't control it at all. One day it was really serious, I changed several pairs of underwear in a row, it was very embarrassing.
Later, I quickly changed into a sanitary napkin, and before the illness was uncomfortable, I even forgot about the sanitary napkin.
After my husband came back, I was sick and waiting for him to take care of it, where to care for what image, it was all this time, is it difficult to maintain perfection? Do you feel like you can stay perfect? It's really tiring for a woman to be perfect at all times for her husband. If your lover can't tolerate the sloppiness of your illness, then you can get a divorce.
That's it, a good marriage doesn't need to disguise yourself too much, you just have to be your true self.
I was very uncomfortable for those few days, and I didn't want to wash my underwear, and then I changed it again, or my husband washed it for me. Because I couldn't take the medicine, he also boiled me brown sugar ginger tea. Just as he is drunk like mud I will take care of him, he will take good care of me, this is a normal couple.
How can a woman possibly remain perfect?
When you are pregnant, you will become ugly and fat, on the day of giving birth, you will become less like yourself because of labor pains, after giving birth to a child, there will be lochia from the body, and even a few years after giving birth you will have a normal physiological phenomenon such as leakage of urine. How much will your body be affected and hurt? How to stay perfect?
I think getting a woman to maintain a perfect image in front of her husband is a very ridiculous problem. How many men can stay perfect in front of their wives? Occasionally picking teeth with your hands, constipation, or snoring and grinding your teeth while sleeping, etc., are these not normal? And I dare say that many men are drunk and vomiting mess, and their wives are not willing to help clean up.
Women can do this without abandonment; man, what do you have to dislike your wife?
Kwon Sang-woo's wife has not shown a physiological phenomenon: woman, you don't need to be too perfect in front of men.
Isn't it just a fart? How normal, everyone is human, why do you have to hide.
Today's Topic: Do you think it's necessary to maintain a perfect image in front of your partner? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: Yibao; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.