"Stupid birds lay eggs and let them fly wildly."
This may be the current situation of education for Chinese children and parents! Some children have no goal of learning, nor a clear direction, almost all of them study according to the requirements of their parents and are admitted to the corresponding famous schools. In other words, in fact, children rarely do themselves, and many children become eggs that strive to fly in the completion of their parents' mission.
Recently, there was a student who dropped out of college to his senior year on the Internet, he took the college entrance examination 3 times, and this year won the first place in the country at the Shanghai Film Academy of Shanghai University.
However, because he was a senior student who dropped out of college, he retook the college entrance examination, which triggered a controversy among netizens.
For this student, it is already 27 years old, which is indeed a bit older at the undergraduate level. One might argue that a lot of time should not be spent in school and study, but should be spent after graduating from college and then choosing again.
This classmate's name is Zhu Qi.
However, Zhu Qi has such an understanding of his own approach, although he is willful, but never impulsive, and dropping out of school in his senior year is the result of his weighing the pros and cons, and it is also a balance he finds in romance and reality.
From the information of some media, it can also be seen that Zhu Qi is a down-to-earth and targeted student. In fact, when he was a freshman, Zhu Qi thought about dropping out of school, but he was always opposed by his parents. He dared to do so, not without dependence, he once worked as a wedding officiant, earning one or two million yuan a month, it can be said that the past experience also gave him the courage to choose again.
Of course, because I had the idea of dropping out of college at the beginning of college, so that I didn't work so hard academically, I hung up a lot of subjects in my senior year, and I also owed 80 credits, and one credit was 288 yuan for a retake, and the cost was not small. Zhu Qi's biggest resistance to dropping out of school at the beginning was not from his parents, but more from people around him who did not understand him, and often ridiculed and denigrated.
However, the art examination is more of a war between himself and himself, and in the end he still made up his mind. Zhu Qi was admitted to the first place in the directing department of the Shanghai Film Academy (Shanghai University) this year, which may also be the real departure of the dream.
For Zhu Qi's choice, there is actually nothing wrong with it.
On the contrary, in college, many children are controlled by their parents and choose a major that they do not like, so that children are worth pondering, do they want to be themselves? Are you willing to be the "crazy flying" egg in the eyes of your parents in this life?
If you look at it from this point of view, in fact, Zhu Qi is a very good child, who can bravely start to his dream and eliminate all kinds of difficulties and obstacles. Therefore, instead of evaluating Zhu Qi, more students and netizens should also reflect on themselves, in their own life choices, are they pursuing their dreams? Do you compromise with life?
For Zhu Qi, although he began to find his own direction at the age of 27, it is not too late, and it can be said that for any dreamer, as long as he bravely changes and pursues his dreams, it will not be too late.
In addition, for parents, in the cultivation of children, we should also listen to their children's opinions, do not always use "children do not understand", take the initiative to make various decisions for children, especially in the name of various 'love', to deprive children of the right to choose.
In short, in terms of raising children, this is not only a matter for parents, but also a matter for children, as parents should learn to listen to their children's voices, let children pursue their true selves, rather than always thinking of being a "good baby" in the eyes of parents.
Perhaps, this is Zhu Qi's "way to success" in academics!