"The Sea of Stars" starring Liu Tao and Lin Feng is being broadcast, and Jian Ai, played by Liu Tao, has a bad fate. She originally had a very happy and warm family, her father opened a tailor's shop, in addition to making money, made a good meal, and her mother was beautiful and had a good job. Jane thought she was happy, until one day, when she was taking a leave of absence to go home to change her clothes, she bumped into her mother with another man.
That night, the parents had a big argument. Jane Eyre woke up in the morning to find her father stabbing her mother to death with scissors, and cut her wrist and committed suicide. At that moment, Jane Eyre became a fatherless and motherless child. Jane's aunt became Jane's guardian in order to get Jane's house and the money in Jane's father's passbook.
The aunt favors sons and daughters and is very doting on her younger son. After Jane Ai grew up, in order to pay off the gambling debt of her own son, her aunt sold Jane Eyre to a rich man in the countryside as a wife. After Jane escapes, she has a big fight with her aunt and asks her to return the money her father left her.
The aunt said straightly: You asked me for money, I pulled you so big, asked you for money? Your parents got married and exchanged me for money, otherwise where would you be now? You are as unconscionable, ungrateful, and unworthy as your mother.
Jane Eyre hated others the most for saying bad things about her parents, and she was angry, so she picked up the vase and smashed her aunt and took the train to Guangzhou. Jane Ai thought that her aunt had died, she did not bring money, nor did she bring an ID card, in order to survive, she worked in a small noodle restaurant, and also met Ah Ying, a wine girl, and Ah Xiang, a tea girl from a company, and the three girls became good sisters in a rental house in Guangzhou.
Later, the little sister of tea, Ah Xiang, became a drinking girl, and Ah Ying married a rich man, an old man in his fifties. Jane Ai took over Ah Xiang's position and entered the China Textile Company. Seeing the three girls scattered at the fork in the road of fate, I had an epiphany, why Jane Ai and the wine girl were arranged to live together in the plot, which had a deep meaning. After reading the choices of the three girls, I also understood the meaning of life.
One night, after Ah Ying got drunk, she vomited while walking on the road, and Jane Ai was worried that she was not safe on the road as a girl, so she took the initiative to help her wipe her mouth with paper, gargle with water, and sent her to the rental house.
Ah Ying was confused, knowing that Jane loved to sleep on a small bed with two benches spliced together, not only was the place too small, but also easy to catch a cold. Ah Ying asked Jane Ai to spend the night on the sofa in the living room, and when she finished, she went to sleep.
Ah Ying is not very old and looks very beautiful. When Jane Ai first brought her noodles, she learned that Ah Ying and Ah Xiang lived together, but Ah Xiang was a tea girl of a large company, although she did not earn as much as Ah Ying, but she looked down on Ah Ying in her bones, and she hated the money she earned outside the words.
However, Ah Ying is generous, and when Jane Ai first gave her noodles, she overpaid Jane Ai a five-dollar tip. She was kind-hearted and knew that Jane Eyre had no place to sleep, so she simply took Jane Eyre in and let her move in from the noodle shop. Considering that Jane Ai's monthly salary is only 200 yuan, and the salary income of Ah Xiang in the same dormitory is also small, she takes the initiative to bear all the rent, and Jane Ai only needs to be responsible for cleaning the room and cooking.
Jane Ai was very touched that in this strange big city, she could have a place for her, so she lived in. After a long time of contact, the three girls began to talk to each other and became friends who could speak their hearts.
One day Jane Ai asked Ah Ying what was her biggest dream? Ah Ying looked forward to the future and said excitedly: I want to work hard to earn money, save money in the future, go back to my hometown to open a beauty salon as a boss, and then I see who will dare to look down on me?
Ah Xiang was puzzled, she was a wine escort in the city, after returning to her hometown, was she not afraid of others pointing fingers at her? Ah Ying said triumphantly: Our hometown is so far away, as long as I don't say it, who knows.
In that era when the phone had to use a pager and the traffic was not developed, Ah Ying had self-confidence that she would not be known to the people in her hometown when she had done the work of accompanying the drinking girl.
Everyone thought that Ah Ying would go the way she wanted, until one day, Ah Ying told Jane Eyre that she was moving out. It turned out that Ah Ying and a rich man got along, and the man was in his fifties and could be Ah Ying's father. He was generous to Ah Ying and bought her a lot of gifts and ornaments. He gave Ah Ying a car and told Ah Ying that as long as Ah Ying could give him a son, he would buy a villa for her.
Jane Asks her why she chose this path, what if she regrets it later? Ah Ying sneered: A woman's youth is only a few years, she can't seize the opportunity, and the youth slips away at once. If I give up this opportunity, I will regret it.
Ah Ying has no academic qualifications and does not want to improve her learning ability. She accompanied the wine in the clubhouse, although she earned a lot, but she did this business and ate youth rice. The rich man gave her a treatment that she could not earn in her lifetime working in the clubhouse. She didn't want to rent a house for the rest of her life, she didn't want to get drunk every day.
Rather than returning to her hometown to open a beauty salon, she hopes to have a car and a house at a young age. In this way, she no longer has to spend money on taxis and has no need to worry about being evicted without paying her rent. Jane Eyre could see that she didn't like the man, and ah Ying was interested in his money and the vanity and security that money brought her.
In fact, girls like Ah Ying also exist in real life. Some girls do not have a good family background and growth environment, they see that the girls of the same age around them are more beautiful and excellent than themselves, they are envious, hope that they can be the same as them, but do not want to rely on their hands and work ability to earn money, they want too much, pay too little, just want to rely on beauty to take shortcuts, curves to overtake.
On the day Ah Ying moved, sitting in the red car bought for her by a rich man, she waved at Jane Eyre and Ah Xiang and left proudly and proudly. In Ah Ying's view, she is now more successful than most girls. At least by the time Jane Eyre and Ah Xiang were all that old, she already owned a car and a suite. As long as her stomach is willing to fight and have a son for a man, there will be a better future waiting for her in the future. But Ah Ying does not know that she has always lived in the illusion of self-deception.
Maugham said: What you have to overcome is your vanity, your desire to show off, and what you have to deal with is the little cleverness that you always want to reach out.
Vanity is nature, everyone has it, but the way of satisfying vanity determines the hierarchy of man. The nobility of human nature does not lie in the absence of desires, but in the fact that we will satisfy our desires in the right way. If the energy of vanity makes you more positive, it is worthy of your pride, and if vanity makes you lose yourself, it is worth your reflection.
Ah Ying is not a bad woman, she has dreams and ambitions, but at this age, her ability is not worthy of her ambition. In Ah Ying's cognition, choosing to be the lover of a rich person is the best and fastest way for her to get ahead. I admire her courage to dare to look inside, not to be pretentious, not to be false.
But will Ah Ying's future really be as beautiful as she imagined? Fang Zhiheng's mother, Fang Lanfei, is a lesson for Ah Ying.
In order to satisfy her own vanity and live the life she dreamed of, she chose to be the lover of the other party, which is to establish her happiness in the hands of others in disguise. Although she has the ability to buy and buy, she must always look at the other party's face and endure the long loneliness in the night.
Fang Lanfei gave birth to a son for Lin Fengshi, he could not see Lin Fengshi several times a year, and when the child grew up, he would be subject to the suppression of the main room everywhere and live a life of intrigue, was such a life really happy?
Maybe Ah Ying is not as happy as Fang Lanfei, the girl's youthful appearance is only a few years, once she is old and loses the charm of her youth, the rich will kick her away and choose a girl who is more beautiful than her.
Qiao Yi wrote in "I don't like this world, I only like you": Love is not the whole of life, it is the icing on the cake is not a life-saving straw, women in addition to being young and beautiful are loved, shouldn't they study hard, continue to grow, more wisdom and gentleness to establish their own value? Broaden your horizons, the world is broader than you think, and you should go with your loved ones to see the heavens and the earth, rather than just seeing what is in front of you.
Ah Ying seems to have gained a lot, but in terms of the length of time, she has lost more. The gift that fate gave her had already been marked in secret. As long as she can't get out of the vortex of desire and find her self-worth, she is doomed to live without dignity for a lifetime.
Ah Xiang is the tea sister of China Textile Company, although the work is not remarkable, but it is not easy to enter a regular large company. It is reasonable to say that in a large company, as long as she is down-to-earth and hardworking, the future is very good. But Ah Xiang worked for a long time and found that the future was bleak.
Colleagues around them are not easy to get along with, everyone is intrigued, using each other, and the work pressure is not large, and if you make a mistake accidentally, you will be scolded by the leader. Although Ah Xiang has always thought that her job is cleaner than Ah Ying's, every time she faces the pressure of work and thinks of her meager salary, she finally has an emotional breakdown and resigns after arguing with the leader.
She envied ah ying for being able to buy a lot of beautiful clothes. Buy whatever you want. Comparison and vanity made her lose herself. In order to live such a life, Ah Xiang followed Ah Ying as a drinking companion. Ah Xiang's appearance is not inferior to Ah Ying, and after working for a few days, she found that she earned more by accompanying wine than she did at work, and the work was relaxed, and she did not always have to look at the face of the leader.
Every time he thinks that his current income exceeds his income in the company for a few days, Ah Xiang will be excited and feel that he is lucky to leave his job, otherwise he will miss the opportunity to earn money.
Jane ai persuades her to return to the right way, she is not looking down on Ah Ying's industry, but understands that this job is not a long-term solution, if she does not have an opinion, it is easy to be led astray by bad people and go astray.
Ah Xiang can't listen to the advice, the same are the service industry, since the wine can earn more, why can't she choose this line? Ah Xiang enjoyed the current life very much, and after a long time, watching the people around her change wave after wave, her mind also became active.
After Ah Ying and the rich old man were together, Ah Xiang said in a very envious tone: Ah Ying do you know? You now have a car and a house, do you know how many little sisters envy you and say you're lucky? They also speculated that the other party bought you a villa halfway up the mountain and wanted to take you to Hong Kong!
In Ah Xiang's eyes, Ah Ying is wise, she seized the best opportunity to change her destiny, the girl's youth is very short, she hopes that she can also take shortcuts like Ah Ying, and can live the life of her dreams without effort.
Later, Ah Xiang also moved, and she went to a place with a higher income in the introduction of her friends. Ah Ying felt that there was hope there, but she did not know that she was being swallowed up by desire step by step and was heading for depravity. She has no skills other than drinking, and as she grows older and develops society, it is more difficult for her to gain a foothold in society.
August Chang'an wrote in "The Best of Us": There are many small beasts living in the human body, with ambition, vanity, shame, enterprising, comparison, love, and fierceness and indifference. I remember how at every stage of my own growth they woke up one by one, their power dissipating and controlling me to do the right thing or the wrong thing. It took me a long time to really learn to control myself instead of being controlled by these little beasts. It is more important than anything to forgive after harsh accusations, to let go after expectations, and ultimately to live a truly happy and strong life.
Ah Xiang has some inferiority in her bones, and she is anxious, complaining, and envious of Ah Ying's life, not only materially not rich enough, but also spiritual lack. When the heart of comparison and shame bubbled up, she kept telling herself that she made more money than Ah Ying, and as long as she was willing to work hard, her life would get better and better.
But in the face of setbacks, in the midst of two thoughts, comparison and vanity took over her brain. In her consciousness, it does not matter what industry she chooses, how much money she can make at the moment is the most important.
Ah Xiang left her initiative and shame behind, and if she could not control her desires, she was doomed to lose herself in her vanity, and the gain was not worth the loss.
Once upon a time, the three of them were the best sisters. But at the fork in the road of fate, they still parted ways. When they saw Ah Xiang and Ah Ying move away, leaving only Jane Ai who was confused about the future, some people felt that Jane Ai was pitiful, empty of a dream of changing the world, but she was so poor that she could not even pay the rent.
But later, after seeing Jane Eyre's dedication at work, I realized that she lived very soberly, and she always knew what she wanted. Like her, Ah Xiang longs for big cities and big companies. But Ah Xiang did not keep his original intention, and lost himself in the face of the temptation provided by Ah Ying.
And Jane Ai, the heart is very firm, she can still choose to read and study, enrich herself, regardless of the eyes of others, this persistence and self-awareness, it is really valuable.
After Jane Ai replaced Ah Xiang's work, she also faced the pressure of intrigue among colleagues and reprimands from leaders. But she will find a way to change the status quo and avoid such mistakes from happening again. She wants to make money, but the premise of making money is that the work will allow her to grow and give her a sense of accomplishment.
She knows the importance of ability to work, and after a tiring day at work, she returns to her room at night to pick up a lamp and read at night. It is she who can endure loneliness, endure loneliness, and keep her original intention, so that she can find her own runway from the complicated road, step by step from the tea girl to the single clerk, and then to the salesman. The efforts and hardships in the middle are not felt by others. The sense of accomplishment in it is also incomprehensible to others.
I think that Jane Ai has also envied Ah Xiang and Ah Ying's income, but she knows that people should take a longer-term view, and only by enriching their own strength can they seize the opportunity when it comes.
"Everyone is a universe" said: People live in the world, the first important thing is to be human, know self-respect and self-love, so that they have a frank and full soul, enough to withstand the blows of fate, but also worthy of the blessing of fate, if you can do this, you can be considered the master of fate.
Jane Eyre knows exactly what she wants to do, no matter how many roads ahead, she will unswervingly move towards her own defense line, calmly accept the setbacks and rewards given by life, and take her fate into her own hands.
Seeing Jane Eyre's calm state of mind in the face of temptation, I was overwhelmed with admiration. Many young people see that their peers around them have successful careers and happy families, and they will have inferiority, anxiety, and even self-doubt, are they not very bad, and is the path chosen at the moment wrong? Then treat life negatively in confusion and complaining.
Jane Ai uses her life experience to tell you that a momentary success or failure does not represent anything, life is a long-distance marathon, some people are full of motivation in the early stage, and some people do not start to exert their strength until the later stage. You have to have a clearer understanding of yourself, those superficial envy, boring comparison, clumsy imitation, will only let yourself live in the shadow of others all day.
We should recognize our current selves, find our own position, be down-to-earth, and move forward step by step. In life, the harder you work, the luckier you get, and washing up the lead is always more beautiful than casually greasing and powdering! Work hard to know that you deserve everything!