Summer vacation is fleeting, and prospective college students who just graduated from high school two months ago are about to step into the university of their choice and start a good university life. In order to get into the ideal university, they all went through three years of hard study in high school. Recently, a video of Zhang Yao, a prospective college student in Linyi, went viral on the Internet, in which the admission letter of Fudan University was posted, and the learning materials accumulated in the three years of high school exceeded eight meters. Many netizens expressed admiration and praise for this modern version of "learning to be rich in five cars, only high in eight buckets", and more netizens sighed: "The gap between me and Fudan is this eight meters." Recently, the reporter contacted Zhang Yao's father, through his narration, to try to understand how the "xueba" is trained.
Xueba also loves to "play"
For the popularity of the child's eight-meter review materials, Zhang Yao's father, Zhang Jinping, said that he did not expect it at all. "The original intention was that after receiving the acceptance letter, I wanted my daughter to take a photo with the books and materials I used to make a souvenir, and I really felt that it was not easy for my children to go to high school." Zhang Jinping said that after the video was released on Douyin, he did not expect his daughter's "learning bully" behavior to receive so much attention, but he felt that his daughter was even a child who was a little "lazy" in learning. Unlike most people's impression of the image of the bully, Zhang Yao's "play heart" seems to be higher than learning, and in Zhang's father's view, the degree of her daughter's effort to learn has not yet met his expectations. This summer after the end of the college entrance examination, Zhang Yao, as before, turned around and threw herself into her various interest classes, swimming and guitar were no less. "Think back to her previous vacations, she studied drawing, calligraphy, speech, sanda, and she always practiced guitar." In Zhang Jinping's impression, her daughter has a wide range of hobbies since she was a child, whether it is sports or literature and art, she wants to try, in his opinion, her daughter's interest in these things is far greater than learning.
"In addition to that, she also loves to play with Transformers toys and watch sci-fi movies." Even in her third year of high school, she could hardly see Zhang Yao studying at home, but often asked to go back to her room to play with her toys. And Zhang's father's playful behavior towards his daughter slowly changed from the initial worry to let it go. However, for things like playing mobile phones and computers, Zhang Yao has never been addicted, which is also related to Zhang Father's consistent strict requirements. Although Zhang Jinping has always maintained a supportive attitude in his daughter's interests and hobbies, he has zero tolerance for things that are easy to waste time such as mobile phones and computers. "Television is also generally about watching some news, meaningful programs and the like, and we definitely don't want her to spend all her time on this." Therefore, even if it is the summer vacation after the third year of high school, Zhang Yao still continues to put her energy on hobbies and interests, and also takes time to be a high school assistant for half a month, and recently began to prepare for the college English level 4 and 6 exams in advance, and the whole vacation is very fulfilling.
Behind the fun-loving is high-quality learning
"At first, when I saw that she loved to play with toys so much, of course, I was a little worried and a little anxious." Zhang Jinping said, but slowly found that this did not have any impact on her daughter's learning, and she slowly relaxed, "And in school, she is also a kind of child with particularly high learning efficiency." For Zhang Yao, the reason why she can play "unscrupulously" after returning home is due to her high concentration and learning efficiency in school time, the content of the class can be digested in time and quickly, and the homework after class can be completed accurately and quickly, compared with other students, she has set aside more time to relax and rest, and this is also the reason why her father feels that she is not working hard enough. "When I was in my third year of high school, I saw that she was still playing sometimes, and she was a little anxious, and her teachers advised me not to interfere too much with the child's schedule, and it was not necessary for her to go home and relax."
"Once, when her homeroom teacher was thinking about a problem, he took a picture of her with his mobile phone for more than twenty minutes, and she didn't notice it, indicating that her concentration was very high." In terms of Zhang Yao's hobbies, Zhang Jinping also discovered her daughter's talent, "She can get started quickly no matter what she learns, and once she starts to learn, she will drill into it." When she was learning to draw, she reached a very good level in a vacation, and the sketch teacher wanted her to study art. "Behind the high-quality learning must be good learning habits and extremely high concentration, from kindergarten, Zhang Yao has developed a very good habit, do not procrastinate, encounter problems willing to delve into the brain, these ultimately benefit her a lot."
Her father's understanding grew with her
"When I communicate with other friends, I just have one sentence, don't put too much pressure on your children." Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the expectation of every parent, and this expectation is sometimes a lot of pressure for the child. When recalling his daughter's study life, Zhang Jinping was particularly impressed by her daughter's failure in an exam when she entered high school.
"After that exam, the child told me that if I didn't do well, everyone else would do it, but she wouldn't." For his daughter's failure in the exam, as a father, he can only say words of comfort and hope that she will do well in the next exam. "But she burst into tears, saying I didn't understand her and pushed her too hard." This remark made Zhang Jinping very puzzled, in his opinion, it seems that he did not have particularly strict requirements for children, and after he went back, he also began to reflect on it. In the middle school examination, Zhang Yao's results were very top-notch, and after entering high school, her classmates Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon made her inevitably have some pressure. And this exam is more like a catalyst, making her a little bitter about a defeat. At the same time, because her daughter's grades have always been excellent, Zhang Jinping will usually set some goals for her. And this incident touched him a lot, and he began to realize that he could not set too high goals for his children, which would cause a lot of pressure on the children. After that, he began to "let go and be free" in his daughter's learning, which also stemmed from his trust in her ability to learn. For Zhang Yao's study of medicine, Zhang's father did not have special support at the beginning.
"I told her at the time that the road to studying medicine would be very hard, are you mentally prepared?" Before her sophomore year of high school, Zhang Yao did not have a clear plan for her future profession, until after the outbreak of the epidemic, she saw from various sources that the medical staff who rushed to the front line had made great contributions to the fight against the epidemic, and she was deeply moved by this. After returning home once, Zhang Yao proposed to her family that she planned to study medicine in the future. "She kept telling us that this is a Chinese force, and she wanted to be a part of it, and she insisted that her mother and I were deeply moved, and I was very supportive of her studying medicine." On the road of growth, with such a father to accompany, Zhang Yao's steps towards the road ahead can be more solid.
Linbao Rong Media reporter Song Tianjian